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Make out
O.k. sooo, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week now. We've kissed, but havn't made out. I've never made out before. Everyone thinks I've made out before, even my boyfriend. His friends keep telling me for my birthday he's going to finally make out with me as one of my presents. He's had A LOT of expeirience with girls and makeing out, and as I said I have NEVER made out. My questions are:
1) Will it be TOTALLY obvious I've never made out before?!
2) Will I be a horrible kisser??
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3) How do you make out?!
I'm so worried right now. I'm NOT going to tell him I've never made out before so don't tell me to do that. I'm just scared he's going to notice and think I'm the grossest kisser ever. He always tells me girls tell him he's a really good kisser, and I'm scared cause I havn't made out before! I have no idea what to do while making out. Where do your hands go? What does your tongue do? How are people able to make out for long periods of time without getting bored? HELP! Please please please. I need answers quick!
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Wow! i do not know how many girls have asked questions like this. Fisrt of all, you have nothing to worry about, i highley doubt the thought that you are a bad kisser when you 2 are kissing is that you are a bad kisser.
1. It may be obviouse that you have never made out before, but i doubt your boyfriend will care. the first time i made out my boyfriend had had expirience and i was nervouse but when he found out i had never made out beofre he was glad that he was the first guy and he was more that willing to "teach" me! yeah it may sound weird but its very true.
2.I do not think you will be horrible but you will not be great and the only want to get better is too have practice.
3. How do you make out? well honestly everyone makes out differently. youll just have to learn how he makes out.
where do your hands go.... around there neck, you could play with his hair while making out, some guys like that. again it all depends on yours and his preferences.
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=] I remember I was exactly like you, I was soo nervous. Like its such a rush I promise. Just go with it, if he knows what he's doing your finee. You dont even have to think about it.. It will just come. And HEY! if you two are close even if you suck and you know it crack a joke make him laugh ya know ? RELAX RELAX RELAX.
TIPS !!
a)Your hands, rest it on his shoulder, his cheek or like ruffle it through his hair ;)
b)Only let him go as far as you feel compfortable, dont let him do anything you dont want him to do.
c)Just relax and enjoy =]
- LYYYSSSAA !
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don't sweat it! it really isn't as scary as you think. heck, i never had until me and my current bf started going out. and the first time happen kinda on accident. but just follow his lead and it should just come naturally. like i said, i never had done that either, but it just all came naturally. even the first time, i would do something while we were kissin and he'd pull away and say something like "omg! wow!" or "that was really hot!" and he didn't know i hadn't had experience...i even eventually told him he was the first for that he was like "nuh uh, you're a bad liar" or w/e. so just don't worry...like i said, go with the flow, follow his lead, and if you're still nervous, don't make it obvious!! be confindent...the more confident you are, the better you'll be! if you wanna know anything else just hollar back! =]
i'm adding some in. but some things i might have done were if you got control of his bottom lip, lightly "bite" *not bite hard, that would hurt lol* his bottom lip. that alone could be a wow factor, and once you get comfortable with that and get more experience *because it could turn out wrong if not done right*, you'll get your own little touch *mine was a little suck of the lip right before i let go...that was what made my bf actually have to catch his breath and say "wow"*. and EVERYBODY loves kisses on the neck. i believe the way he phrased it was "those make me melt" you gotta remember though, some guys might have a different preference, but those were a few of my tricks.
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1. No
2. No, follow my tips in the previous answered question.
3. Slowly and at a pace you are comfortable with. Know your boundaries beforehand and talk about them with your partner beforehand! Carry protection if you plan on having sex...hopefully not for at least a few more years.
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1) You can never know how obvious it may be. I think that if you and your boyfriend are close enough, you should tell him, in private. I told my first bf and he taught me.
2)Practice makes perfect.
3) Your hands: Depending on where you are, if your standing up, put one hand on the side of his neck, and move it around the back of his head (just do it i know it sounds stupid).
Your tongue: Thats what you will have to figure out for yourself.:)
Boredom issue: Depending on how well you get along and how far you are willing to go is the answer. Don't do anything you aren't ready for.
--Syd
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yeh duude thats exactly what i felt expet i wasnt going out with any one but what you do is he's ganna wanna put with tounge in ur mouth so you open your mouth not big but just an open space and just repet what he's doing its easyyy i was in your posion to but when i made out with thisone kid it was like fine
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Hey there;
The more you tense up, the worse off you'll be.
Just relax, kissing/making out is supposed to be fun.
Take it slow at first, just start with kissing. Then you can try sucking on or licking his lower lip. From there, he'll most likley put his tounge in, welcome it, don't fight it. Put your hands around his neck, on his face, or run them thru his hair. When you put your tongue in, you can lick his teeth, or you two can sort of rub your tounges together, or he might even suck on it. Don't let him have it all at once, slowly put your tounge in, then slowly pull it out and repeat everyone in a while. Try not to slobber too much, lol.
And trust me, I asked dozens of questions like this before I first made out and when I started making out, I didn't remember a single thing I had read, everything just sorta goes away.
If he's any good of a boyfriend, he won't care as much how well you kiss, he'll me more glad to teach you :)
Good Luck <3
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Whoa calm down man.
1) It will be totally obvious that you've never made out b4 if you keep panicking and refuse to calm down. Just relax.
2) No. You wont be a horrible kisser.
I don't think he'll mind making out with someone who hasnt had experience. In fact, I would say that he'd be honoured to be your first; he'll gladly show you how to do it.
When you make out, your hands can go anywhere you like. You can put them around his neck, hold his waist, put on his lap, etc. If he circles his tongue in your mouth, do it back. If you don't know what to do, just mirror what he's doing. Just let him guide you; I guess it's impossible to be bored from making out. Don't worry too much bout it. You'll know what to do when you're doing it.
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