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how long??


Question Posted Sunday December 10 2006, 11:12 am

Ok well i had just been dumped by my boyfriend of about 5 1/2 months.. and well i think i already like someone... is that bad... cause at the ending of our relationship... things weren't really ne thing... and this kid is really nice to me.. and he seems like he is flirting with me.. but he is a year older than me.. but is it bad that i like someone already?? ahh i'm so confused! what should i do??

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Sima answered Monday December 11 2006, 5:59 pm:
There is nothing wrong with that. It just seems like you moved on, and that is a good thing. Forget about the past, and think about the future. If you like him, just see what happens!

Best of luck.

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L0CACiiTA answered Sunday December 10 2006, 4:51 pm:
NO! there is nothing wrong with liking someone new.. its called moving on and everyone has to do it eventually if the person makes you feel good and you like him there is no reason to hold back your feelings because of an old relationship. the way you feel is exactly that, the way you feel.

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vivalajam0x answered Sunday December 10 2006, 3:44 pm:
No, there's nothing wrong with this. In fact, someone I know just got dumped like 2 days ago and she already likes someone. In my opinion, and I'm sure others would agree, that it doesn't really matter how long it's been-all you have to face is that it's over. But, the thing is, I wouldn't already jump into a relationship. Wait a little while for that, and see what happens. =)

Good Luck & Hope I helped! =)

-Jam

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AliRae92 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 2:49 pm:
No it is not a bad thing. 5 1/2 months is a long time and i highly doubt your ex's thinks you are going to stay single the rest of your life and wait for him to come back, you need to move on so you can be happy. If he makes you happy, go for it!
good luck

=)

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lavender_chika16 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 1:42 pm:
It is a bad thing to like someone, especially when you're single. However, if you feel uncomfortable getting a new boyfriend just now, confront the boy you like and explain the situation to him. If he really likes you, then he will be more than happy to wait for you to come to terms with what is going on. If he is not willing to wait, then you should try to get over him, and do your best to ignore him. As the for age issue, this will, sadly, always be a problem because there are laws reguarding such things, but don't let that stop you from being with who you want to be with. Age should never be a question when it comes to love, even other people think otherwise.

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idgurl572 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 12:42 pm:
NOOOOOO do not feel bad at all. It isn't your fault that your feelings are in a different place. You should be happy you like someone else. Most of my friends that broke up from a long relationship went into a little depression but the ones that liked someone else and went out with the other person felt way better than they did in the previous relationship. You shouldn't care what anyone else thinks because they are probally just jealous that you get the good guys and you feel good enough about yourself to go and get a new boyfriends after the long relationship you had just came out of.

I hope I helped =D
~Briana~

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BlackAngel answered Sunday December 10 2006, 11:53 am:
Hey, don't worry about it. A lot of people break up in the first place because one of them likes someone else before the break-up even happens.
From what you say the relationship you had with your boyfriend wasn't really anything serious, especially when he ended it. It's perfectly natural to like someone else soon afterwards, and plus, it's not like you were married to your boyfriend or anything so you don't need like a mourning time or anything.
Basically don't worry about it.

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xWACKYJACKIEx answered Sunday December 10 2006, 11:46 am:
No, its not bad at all. I know friends who break up with their boyfirends after a 2 year relationship, and date the next day. Its not bad. Don't worry about it, do what you want. Pick a winner =]

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