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I am 16 years old girl and my boyfriend is almost 19, we are both not virgins but yet it is our first time together. I want to get pregnant but he wants to use a condom. Is there a way for me to get pregnant even though he is gonna wear a condom?

Yes if it bust or had a whole in it. But you are only 16 years old, getting pregnant is not all as great as it seems to be. Focus on getting to know eachother more and finding out if that is someone you truly want in your life for the rest of your life, it is very hard to go from being your one self to three. Not to be rude just trying to help.

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Hi I'm a anonymous female aged 14 ...So there's this boy in my school we're in the same grade and everything but not in the same class. I met him this year as we both started high school this year and we both came from different primary schools. He is in my best-friends class and she often gives me info on him and stuff,anyway so I have him on bbm and we have nice conversations but at school its all so different , we just smile at each other and say hello that's like it! I'm very shy 0f him but I don't think he knows it c0z I don't act like it in front of him,I also asked him if he is shy 0f me and he said no he is not but why doesn't he like talk to me at school like his other friends? I once tried to make small talk with him and it was a fail , all he said is no and smiled and walked away . . . I'm really c0nfused ! I've spoken to one 0f his ex school mates who has known him for years and she said he isn't really the type of guy who is interested in girls because for as long as she's has known him, he has never had a girlfriend she also said he is more interested in his guy friends and s0ccer , those are like his first priorities. I'm soo madly in love with him and I don't know if he even thinks about me , there's this mysterious side to him which I really want to get to know , but how I do I tell him I'm interested ? Will our races be a problem because he is white and I'm black ? I don't think he is racist because he has multi- racial friends . I really don't know what to do and so many girls like him and I really want to just want to let him know how I feel but I don't know how to . So how do I tell him how I feel ?

I would probably focus of getting to know him more and becoming better friends. The best relationships begin with really great friendships. Don't even worry about your color, but yes maybe that is why you are so attracted to him.

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Hey there(: i was just wondering how you tell if it is the real celebrity on Twitter or not? Like I know they have the little blue check mark, but there are two celebrities on my Twitter that don't have a check mark, but I htink they're the real ones one if you wan tto see for yourself is C. Thomas Howell, his picture is him with glasses like behind a bright light, and S.E. Hinton and it is a picture of her with her horse. They both seem like the real ones but i'm not for sure like for the C. Thomas Howell only becuase he like answers back to everyone who asks him questions but heck I don't know, but do you think they can be the real celebrities even if they don't have they blue check mark? Thanks(: :P

Most times they have the blue check next to their name that shows they are verified

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Some of the custom content I download to my sims 3 game doesnt show up, and some does.
Why is this?

you might not have put the custom content you download in the folder itself of sims 3 downloads

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15/f
So there's this guy that I like. Let's call him "George". George and I have known each other since 9th grade, now we're about to go to the 11th grade. George like me in the 11th grade, but he never told me, so I went out with this other guy. George and I still were friends and we talked in homeroom and stuff. This year (10th grade) me and my bf broke up. So, somehow this news spread. Now, George and I "flirt". He gave me his number, walked me to class, puts his arm around my shoulder, wraps his arms around my waist...etc.
Yesterday, I hadn't talked to George all that day. I saw him a couple of times though. And after school my ex came up to me and said, "I heard you were liking on 'George', but 'George' already has a girlfriend." I was dumbfounded. I was thinking to myself how could he have a girlfriend and act the way he does around me? I wasn't sure if I believed him, because another friend said George had a girlfriend but she thought I was talking about another George. So, I thought maybe he was making the same mistake. Then, I kind of believed him because, I texted George on Wednesday and he told me he would call me later, and I said okay call me at 9. At 9 my phone was dead... Then the next day I asked him if he tried to call me and he said, "No, I had to call someone else." And I told him my phone was dead anyways.
So, I'm not sure if I should believe my ex or not. I'm so confused...

Ask "George" if he has a girlfriend !
& don't assume things and just not believe your ex, that's not nice lol (:
Just ask.

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On projectplaylist.com, I can't find Mo City Don (freestyle). So when you search it, if you scroll down you'll see "Can't find what you're looking for? Click here" So I did that. But I can't get it to work? Can anyone try? Pleassseee.. and if it doesnt work i guess, can you tell me some songs that are like Mo City Don (Freestyle) By Z-Ro.

i love that song yo (: but umm just look up z-ro and trae they got good music and they alike

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i'm obsessed with lil wayne and his music, but i only have a few of his songs. i don't know where to find anymore because they don't sell most of them on iTunes and most of my friends don't listen to his music and they are never on the radio. sometimes i just discover them myself on like limewire and stuff but i want help this time. the songs that i have by him or that are featuring him so far are: Upgrade U Freestyle, Sky's The Limit, I'm Me, You Ain't Know (with Birdman), I Run This (with Birdman), fireman, pop bottles(with Birdman), lollipop, Cannon RMX, It's Me...Remix, We're Taking over Remix,Fly In, fly out, love me or hate me, duffle bag boy, apologize remix, stuntin' like my daddy(with birdman). so if there are any songs that if i like these listed songs you think iwould like them too, please tell me them. any songs where he is featured in they are not necessarily by him are definitely good too. thankssss

haha i am just like yu! but i no like ALLL his songs lol a real hot one out right now is A Millie.
a couple favorites are
Pump that bass
brand new
welcome to the zoo
*bitch make me rich
ask them hoes
smoking section
smile
*workin em

lol yur welcome

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13/f
ok im going tubing down the guadalupoe river and im scared. like is it deep??
what are the pros and cons??
plz and thx.

texas??
some parts its deep
but its very funn!
lol its the waters kinda cold but you get used to it
buhh it gets very hot like the sun shining on you
so sun screens a must
just stay in your tube the whole time! lol
they have water shoots like by sliterbahn or whatever
and those are fun :]
lol its really fun if you stay safe!

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i am trying to find a hotel in new york city for around $100 a night? it must be IN THE CITY... any reccomendations?

you will most likely not find something right in the city for that price! im not saying you wont, but it will probably be a rinky dink place

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Okay , so i like this guy and hes soooo cute. Its one of those crushes where all you talk about is them, all you think about is them. Heres the problem: i cant say ; all i talk to is him. We talk online. And we nnneeevvverrr talk in school. its so weird. like he knows i like him but.. i dont know..

I guess you can say were shy.. or im shy... I wouldnt really know..

How do i spark a conversation without making it seem awkward? Or uncomfortable.


-miss notalk.

AHHHH!! deja vu!
okay yeah don't make the mistake i did
i never talked to him and then we stopped talkingg. but like when yall talk on the computer tell him something like "i need to get off but whats your number so i can call you later cause i really wanted to talk to you"
or something like that. and start talking there and tell him you shy i bet hell understand. but don't just go up to him one day with all his friends around and start talking its VERY awkward and embarassingg i know :]
need more help just ask

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i no this might sound stupid but is soulja boy one person or a group and if they are a group how many people are in it?? thanks in advance -Lesha

He's one person but most of the time you may see him with his bestfriend "Arab" and his dancers. His myspace is myspace.com/souljaboytellem and his site is souljaboytellem.com

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Hello ! =]

Well tomorrow i have an interview at Hungry jacks and i'm really nervous and really shy lol,
does anyone know what sort of questions they ask ?


MuchLOVE !
xoxooxoox

Smile alot!
FIRM hand shake but don't hurt them
Try not to seem nervous
Come prepared
Don't say umm and like so, filler words like that
Do your best and try to have fun!
:]

GOOD LUCK

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hi,can you still have sex if the condom dose not fit..cause i got some to day and its my first time puting one on..so can you have sex if it dose not fit??thanks

You can but that is not the best idea. It is just a call for it to fall off and then lead to things that I think for sure you aren't ready for. So you should just not have sex at all or buy new ones that do fit.

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school is starting soon and i want a boyfriend! like way in the winter-ish we have this thing called "Winter Wonderland", which is like a special dance around Christmastime for 8th graders. and you can go with your friends, but its kinda better if you have an actual guy date! i want somebody special.. but some people just get in relationships really easily.. for me its either that I like them, but they don't like me back, or the opposite. I guess I can be picky at times, but I want my first boyfriend to be someone I wont regret. Plus, I don't know what my parents would say or think.. and if they'd want me to be hanging around this guy a lot, especially if we go on dates and stuff. but I want my first boyfriend to be a good friend of mine, not JUST a boyfriend. and also.. when is the right time to ask a guy out? how do you know if he likes/dislikes you back? haha i know this is too early to think.. I mean school hasn't even started yet, but I want to like be prepared! ;)

13/f

A guy you don't know like he's new or something or you just never spoke to him:
-Get someone you know who knows him to introduce yall
-Talk for a week or two, but don't talk to much
-Ask him about homework or tell him you have a question to ask but seem busy and say, "Can I call you later and ask?" And see what he says if he's like yes say," Alright what's you number?" but not agressive or anything don't rush, or pull paper and a pen out right away lo.
-Call him talk to him at school and on the phone for about another week or so but flirt a little don't make it seem like you just want to be friends
-Ask one of you friends to see if he likes you or just ask him straight foward "who do you like?"
-If he ask you don't come out and say "you!" but be like idk, someone nice or something that describes him, and shyly say you

somethings like that lol it worked for me :]
i hope i help
have a good school year and ask anything else if you need more advice

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Okay, theres this girl Cara, we used to be such best friends about 1 year ago. Then Well call her, B. B comes along, After B came along, cara and i drifted, I hate B with a passion, i know hate is a strong word, but i hate her. B started being rude to me, again [shes a backstabber, i hate her, and btw, cara and B go to diff schools, us 3 go to diff schools.] and cara and i drifted, i feel like im putting more effort in being in a friendship than she is with me. I im her, i call her to make plans [which never work out because of b] and all this stupid stuff! She never tells me anything, i used to be her secret storer and we knew EVERYTHING about eachother, i told her i got a new kitten, she was like, oh oh my goddd! no way! .. i got the cat over about 2 months ago. and she had a boyfriend, we promised to tell eachother our crushes and EVERYTHING..... 2 weeks ago im like your going out with [r]? she was like yeah, i thought i told you, i was like no, we havent talked in 1 month. but, after b went to Brazil, we started to talk more. do you think its just B or do you think were drifting? im so confused,

*** i was with my friend [c] and we were talking to her on the phone.. well i "wasnt there" and she asked if she hated me she was like no i dont why do you? and [c] said no i dont, she thinks you do because you dont talk to her or put effort into a friendship for her. and cara said well, tell her i dont. ***

what does all this mean? i mean i love her and all, but should i dump her as a friend.. or should i wait for her to talk to me....?

I would tell Cara straight up that since she has been hanging out with B, I feel like the third wheel, and really don't like that. And since B has gone on her trip you started talking to me more again but i feel like I'm the replacement until she gets back.

And see what happens from that on.

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well this is sorta hard to write about because it hurts a lot. And I'm always worried that people will just tell me that it wil change and stuff. That's really not what I want to hear. I dont mean to sound mean but I'm VERY sensitive about this subject and will make me cry if someone says something rude about it or myself. Sorry im just really emotional about this situation. Well today in school .wow. this is really stupid. But here it goes. today in school my ex best friend who talks to me every once in a while but has switched to a new friend. Now she talks to her new friend Abby all the time and it makes me want to cry. Because I don't understand what happened between us that now she wants another friend and I'm old to her. We used to hang out as much as possible. all the time. now she's hanging out with abby. as stupid as this sounds it makes me cry every time she talks to Abby instead of me. Well anyways Abby had a party today. And of course I wasn't invited but she had a really mean way of saying I couldnt come. She was like no one at my party knows you and you'll be a really left out. and then she said we are not friends anyways. So yeah I went in the bathroom at school and cried for at least 15 mins. I was soo upset and I still dont know why. I mean ok my ex best friend doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. So ill just deal. But that's not where it ends. I just feel like everyone doesnt like me because im me. I'm stupid and ugly. Well people say im beautiful. but girls that are really pretty usually have a million friends. I went through this last year. nobody liked me anymore and they still dont want to hang. I really am lost here. I think i'll lose a lot of weight and then kill myself. I'm over thinking that guys and girls will start liking me. Never gonna happen. even when I'm in 10th grade. Everything wil be the same. guys wont like me and girls wont either.

Maybe you should talk to the school counselor or ask your parents to see a psychiatrist? That could help, and make new friends, and hang out with them a lot, but not to much to make them get sick of you. If you need help I'm here.

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My Mom keeps saying she's leaving. She's so selface and blames everything on me. Jason and Scott( my brothers) ones a drunk the other can't hold a job do nothing wrong and when they do they shuve it onto me. I got an air conditioner and I have to share my room with My brother Jason. He broke my alarm clock, my light, destroyed my favorite books and I just want to go a night without crying. Im 14 I want my own room.. he messing with my pads and tampons, whips my bra's at me so I kicked him out and he broke my door! And they dont even care..
My cousin Laura said a while ago when she got her new apartment Id always have a place to stay. She lives 2 towns away tho how am I gunna get there? ANd she has a kid anda boyfriend and a life that and at the moment Jason and Her both work at the same place so It wouldnt me like its a secrete I live with her and my Mom might flip if she knows Im planning on leaving. She wants to so why cant I. Im thinking about walking there.. I have a bank accont with some money in it.. but Ive saved up and Its not really my money I have a neighbor I grew really close with and shes dont alot for me and her names carolyn. Shes already said she would take me in, but my Mom would like call the cops about a runaway and get Carolyn in trouble and I wont let that happen so I was thinking that because I was with family maybe my Mom can't do that. I know I cannot stay with Laura long, she has her own life, and I would only be getting in the way. Shes kinda understanding but I was never really close with her but she offered so If i ask about spending a couple nights to get away from the family.. I cant stay with friends, not a lot of them because If my family doesnt ask questions there going too and I dont want my problems pawned off to other people.. So if i pack a bag I have a cell so anyone could call me but running away doesnt solve anything.. And my dad basicly blames me for my Mom wanting to leave. This is long but is there anyway that if i ask laura to spend a couple nights to get away and id babyset, clean do laundry for her all for free...if my Mom can get her in trouble i wouldnt want that soo PLEAse I dont need that happening so If someone who answers this is a cop Id love that : ) or just give your opinion on the madder on how I can slove this.. I dont have a talking relationship with my Mother never have never will so please dont say just talk to her because I tried that and it didnt work!My family doesnt care about me, there selface and want only there way so they would to things in spite and to hurt me (not really a family I knoww)
Please give your opinion and im sorry this is so long but i havent gone a night in about maybe sence school closed without crying.. so anything is helpful! Thank you!!

The only option if you absolutely positively are ready to leave, and can not stand living in that house anymore, is to call some of the hot lines below for wrong living conditions, and call yourself. If they ask tell them you have other options and places to stay at, but you are afraid to leave to put other people in jeopardy and get them in trouble.

Here are some numbers:
National Youth Crisis Hotline
800-442-HOPE (442-4673)

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
1-800-4ACHILD

Girls and Boys Town National Hotline
800-448-3000

1800 RUNAWAY National Runaway Switchboard
1-800-RUNAWAY

National Runaway Hotline
1-800-231-6946

Covenant House Nineline
800-999-9999




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hey okay fellow african babe girl again.thanks so much for the advice! but- don't groan-i have some more questions!

how long do extensions last? my mom doesn't want me to get extensions because according to her, they get worse-looking a lot faster than braids, what i usually wear. & basically, if i get them in september, i NEED them to last until thanksgiving break (november) or even winter break (december)

what do you need to do to care for extensions?

can you curl them/straighten them as you please?

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i really like these styles:
http://nambuckeye.smugmug.com/photos/56953313-M.jpg
(gabrielle union) those curls are gorgeous!

Good that you asked that.

Extensions last about 2 months when you get them sewn in. But it depends on the stylist, so you would have to ask her but usually they do or longer.

The curl 'em/ straighten 'em question, is a good one too. You have to get human hair if you want to put any sort of heat on the hair. Synthetic hair with either melt or burn which we don't want. You can get curl human hair like Gabriel Union in the picture, it comes like that and then you can just straighten it when ever but you would probably have to wash to get it curly again which will probably make the extensions come out faster or just curl it with a curling iron.

So yojust take your picture to the stylist to ask her what kind of hair you would need to buy and the color, matching your color hair. Ad ask her how long she would say it stays in, but sometimes some hairstylist will tell you less time to get you to come back earlier and make more money just keep that in mind if you get that impression.

Hope I helped again!

-Briana

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i have been best friends with jess for 3 years now, she has had boyfriends before and ive been fine with them. but now the past 8 months shes been going out with this guy who im not fond of. we got in a huge fight for id say like 1 good month on and off because i was rude to him and stuff like that. we always used to be on the phone like every night for hours! i would be like call me tonight and she would no matter what, now she will promise to call me and she doesnt, or says shes tired. she slept over and wanted to go to bed so early, my mom said my friends needed to be gone by like 9:45 and she told her dad 10:15 then she says she might sleepover which i knew my mom wouldnt let me!
last summer we had so many amazing memories and since i had never had a real best friend it was the best time in my life!
shes not the same person since she started going out with her b/f i want to talk to her about it but i dont want to start another fight or bring her b/f into it, i just dont know what to say and i miss the friendship we used to have last summer!

meet up with her and tell her like this:
now i don't want to fight about this, i don't want nothing to happen, i just want you to listen to what i have to say, so please can you just let me do that. so over the course of couple of months our friendship has changed so much. i remember hanging out all the time, being on the phone all night, just being best friends. but ever since you got with your boyfriend it seems our friendship has fallen apart, and i understand he is your boyfriend, but i was and still am your bestfriend. i know you know that im not really okay with your boyfriend because of reasons, but the biggest reason is that he is taking everything of my bestfriend away from me. and i just feel really down about that. so i just wanted to tell you that i really want everything to go back to normal, but i know must include your boyfriend, but i just want to be like old times. do you remember?

something along those lines. i hope i help, and she and you stay bffs

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how do i take a screenshot?

click the button on the key board that says PrtSc and a line under it then something under it saying SysRq, and after you press that button open up something like paint, or psp, or ps. and click paste or ctrl+v

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