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first boyfriend!
school is starting soon and i want a boyfriend! like way in the winter-ish we have this thing called "Winter Wonderland", which is like a special dance around Christmastime for 8th graders. and you can go with your friends, but its kinda better if you have an actual guy date! i want somebody special.. but some people just get in relationships really easily.. for me its either that I like them, but they don't like me back, or the opposite. I guess I can be picky at times, but I want my first boyfriend to be someone I wont regret. Plus, I don't know what my parents would say or think.. and if they'd want me to be hanging around this guy a lot, especially if we go on dates and stuff. but I want my first boyfriend to be a good friend of mine, not JUST a boyfriend. and also.. when is the right time to ask a guy out? how do you know if he likes/dislikes you back? haha i know this is too early to think.. I mean school hasn't even started yet, but I want to like be prepared! ;)
13/f
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Yeah. I think you're too young to have a 1st boyfriend. Just go out with somebody you like. You're too young to be getting serious with someone. You need to worry about school and friends. Not guys! Not yet! I"m 14 and I've never even gotten close to having a boyfriend and I'm not ugly. so yeah. You're only 13 so just slow it down a lil bit there.
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A guy you don't know like he's new or something or you just never spoke to him:
-Get someone you know who knows him to introduce yall
-Talk for a week or two, but don't talk to much
-Ask him about homework or tell him you have a question to ask but seem busy and say, "Can I call you later and ask?" And see what he says if he's like yes say," Alright what's you number?" but not agressive or anything don't rush, or pull paper and a pen out right away lo.
-Call him talk to him at school and on the phone for about another week or so but flirt a little don't make it seem like you just want to be friends
-Ask one of you friends to see if he likes you or just ask him straight foward "who do you like?"
-If he ask you don't come out and say "you!" but be like idk, someone nice or something that describes him, and shyly say you
somethings like that lol it worked for me :]
i hope i help
have a good school year and ask anything else if you need more advice
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