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old days
i have been best friends with jess for 3 years now, she has had boyfriends before and ive been fine with them. but now the past 8 months shes been going out with this guy who im not fond of. we got in a huge fight for id say like 1 good month on and off because i was rude to him and stuff like that. we always used to be on the phone like every night for hours! i would be like call me tonight and she would no matter what, now she will promise to call me and she doesnt, or says shes tired. she slept over and wanted to go to bed so early, my mom said my friends needed to be gone by like 9:45 and she told her dad 10:15 then she says she might sleepover which i knew my mom wouldnt let me!
last summer we had so many amazing memories and since i had never had a real best friend it was the best time in my life!
shes not the same person since she started going out with her b/f i want to talk to her about it but i dont want to start another fight or bring her b/f into it, i just dont know what to say and i miss the friendship we used to have last summer!
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You really should try and talk to her about this. She is your best friend and I'm sure neither of you want it to end especially like this. She may not even realize that she has been changing, so bring it to her attention. Tell her that you care about her, that she's your best friend and you don't want to have another fight but that you notice she has been different lately. That she hasn't been calling you when she says she will and hasn't been giving you any attention.
I'm pretty sure she will understand maybe not right away but sooner or later she will come around.
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meet up with her and tell her like this:
now i don't want to fight about this, i don't want nothing to happen, i just want you to listen to what i have to say, so please can you just let me do that. so over the course of couple of months our friendship has changed so much. i remember hanging out all the time, being on the phone all night, just being best friends. but ever since you got with your boyfriend it seems our friendship has fallen apart, and i understand he is your boyfriend, but i was and still am your bestfriend. i know you know that im not really okay with your boyfriend because of reasons, but the biggest reason is that he is taking everything of my bestfriend away from me. and i just feel really down about that. so i just wanted to tell you that i really want everything to go back to normal, but i know must include your boyfriend, but i just want to be like old times. do you remember?
something along those lines. i hope i help, and she and you stay bffs
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