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Hey does anyone know any bands that are indie/reggae rock/folk type?

I like:
Dispatch
Regina Spektor
I'm From Barcelona
Sufjan Stevens
The Low Life

I love indie heres some you may like ;
The early november,Lydia,The spill canvas,brand new,the hush sound. I love underground stuff.

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okay so im on birth control that gives you a period every 3 months.. this last week and a half i have been having discharge... i am not suppost to have my period for 3 more weeks but this is my first 3 months on the pill. Did any one else have this problem? Thanks!

Are you just discharging a little bit or having full fleged periods when you arent supposed to? Spotting (slight bleeding) is very normal when on birth control. Just make sure you have some panty liners with you at all times. Just incase you spot a little more than usual.

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If I'm 5'2 and I weigh 108 now how big do you think i would get if I was pregnant?

Different people change differently with pregnancy a girl i work with is about your size the only place she got real big at was her belly. She didnt gain to much anywhere else shes still little and skinny. Are you pregnate or are you just thinking of the what ifs. If you are pregnate dont freak out about your weight alot of it will go away after you have your baby make sure you eat very nutritional.
//catiemiller//

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quick question.

i want to streach my ear hole, but the hole i got when i was a baby the 1st piercing its a standerd earing probly done with a gun.
what guage is a standerd ear piercing????


thanxx
i want to up to a 00 gauge but, from a standerd ear piercing, what guage shall i go up too the 1st time i use the tool to streach it?

srry if this is confuseing

Ha my ear is a little bigger than a 00. Myne is a half inch. I kinda regret it though. Gauges STINK!! like once you get them to an 8 or so youll understand. But to answer your question about the streching, there is a gage that looks like a little claw its the easiest way to gauge . It streches your ear slowly, they are called talons.
http://www.navel-rings.net/talons-horns-claws00.html
this page has a few you need to get a much smaller one though. It streches your ears fast. I went from an earing size to a zero. then two months later went to a 00. and just last year i went to a half inch.
Good Luck.

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Hello everyone, (14/f)

I really need to fix my eyebrows! I want them more arched but i am not shure if my eyebrows will ever be able to. Heres a picture of basically what my eyebrows look like now if you need an idea:

http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/ap/5dab2197-86f9-4e60-b840-0c0dd2e912fa.widec.jpg

And i want them more arched like this:

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/blogs/content/shared-blogs/palmbeach/streeter/media/photos_fergie2_html_fergie128.jpg

I heard that you can get an arch at home, just by holding up the tip of your eyebrow. I dont think thats true, but is there anyway i get my eyebrows more arched? Hair doesnt really grow on top of my eyebrows to make a shape, so i dont know what to do.

Thanks!

You do not need an indian haircutter. You have a nice arch already. If you take the picture to a beauty salon they can wax them for you. Waxing is amazing its fast and looks good. They do that string plucking in jail lol. (seriously though). But anyways if you would like to do it your self hold your eyebrow up at an arch and pluck up in the direction of the arch. I think your eyebrows look great if they look like kelly clarksons and they look alot better than the one your wanting. ( not to judge your opinion or anything ). Don't pluck too much cause you could end up with no eyebrows at all ha.. Good luck with this hope i could help.
ps.waxing is also about 7$ and another way is to get an eyebrow pencil (very light color) and darken the arched part it will bring out the middle and bring out the (arched) look your going for

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I'm going to be a junior this year, and i'm taking Algebra 2. My question is what kind of calculator will I need for this course? A scientific or a graphing?

You will deffinately need a graphing calculator. A really good one that will help you will all kinds of tasks is the TI 83 its the best. We use them at my school

http://education.ti.com/educationportal/sites/US/productDetail/us_ti83p.html

They may be about 90 dollars but it is well worth it i promise. Good luck on your junior year.

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im 13 and im 5'2'' im skinny like super skinny i think. i just want nicer legs =\. i think i have chicken legs. and i have people say it to me, even my dad. and guys i like check out other girls who have nice legs )= and i guess it lowers my self esteem a little? i wanna feel confident when i where shorts and skirts. knowing i have nice looking shaped legs .. i want my legs a little fatter. cause i think i have chopstick/chicken legs with no shape.

how do i get nicer legs? down there is a picture .. if you wanna help me (: im the black one lol

http://i16.tinypic.com/61txzqu.jpg

Sweetie your 13... your going to shape up so much within the next few years. I also had chicken legs when i was 13! I am now 18 and my legs look great and i have done nothing too them. Your going to get taller and get hips your going to fill out beautiful. Just dont worry about it okay.
Hope i could help.

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I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. I grabbed a tissue and got up to throw it away..I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled at him he was all smiling at me oh and prior to that he wispered something to his friend...

my big question is do you think he was trying to flirt with me?

do you think he's interested?

what should i do now?

Yes he was probably flirting with you. Hopefully he didnt do something bad to the strawberry though and was tricking you ( thats a worst case sanerio though) :] How much older is he than you. If he's whispering to his friend and smiling at you he was probably talking about you. I think he was trying to flirt with you. Thats just my opinion though. Do you like him? Just because someone flirts with you doesnt mean you have to act on it. Just next time you feel hes flirting with you strait up ask him ( Are you flirting with me) That will catch him by surprise. :]
hope i could help

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ok i loved this song and i heard it agian in the mall and it like a song that kinda sounds like a song ski sweedman would sing.and goes something like i wanna be the girl you write songs about.you want to know what turns me on


please help me

i Researched those lyrics on google and the only thing i could find was avril lavigne (girlfriend) Ive never heard it so i dont know.
hope i could help.

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ok, so i think my neighbor is really hot. and when i see him i get these urges where i'm like i want to have sex with him really bad. thing is we've never talked and he is like maybe 5 years older than me..but im not a minor so it wouldnt be illegal if things were to happen. but its drives me insane that i keep getting these sexual thoughts about my neighbor and i dont know what to do...can anyone help??

Have you been just getting these feelings about him? It may just be your hormones. Also people just get sexual urges for people out of the blue there isnt anything wrong with you. Are you planning to act out on your urges if you do meet him. Maybe after you talk to him your feelings with change. Unless you dont want them too. If you do talk to him dont come off like a horney teen hah. Just start off by saying hi. What ever happens from there happens :]

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alright. im 17 and my boyfriend is turning 20. just for back ground details.
for his birthday i want to make him dinner. i just dont know what to cook for him. im not a pro chef or anything but i guess im not that bad. he likes italian food a lot...soo any ideas?

and then any ideas just for like setting up the dinner its self? i was kinda thinking of setting up a table outside on my deck because it will be a nice summer night and i live on a lake with a good view of the sunset.

ohh sounds nice :] Is there any case he likes barbeque? For my 18th birthday i had a bbq it was so amazing.
Vistit http://www.italianchef.com/
there is a couple of good recipies there. You might also want to take him out (so you can both relax and enjoy) Either way good luck with the birthday planning.
hope i could help

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how many holes are girls supposed to have ?

Okay girls have a hole they urine out of (hard to see very small) they also have a hole which is visible this is where sex,menstral cycles,and pregnacy takes place from. And then they have the one every other person has and that one is strictly #2 buisness :] Hope i could help.
so including the anus there is 3 holes.

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every girl on advicenators that has ever had sex before i was just wondering...at the time that you had sex had you shaved all of your pubic hair off or did you just trim it?

Well if you have a permanate partner you can ask them what they like. But if your planning on having sex casually it is best to do what you just feel comfortable doing. Personally i shave everything! I just dont like hair. And most guys dont either. But its your body dont let someone judge what you do with it.

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15/f. i have this really annoying dark hair around my belly button. it is long, but i bleached it but now some of the hairs are starting to become dark again.

it is really gross and i hate it but i dont know how to make it go away. can anybody help me??

This is normal. (dont shave it) It will grow back longer and darker. If its really a problem for you, you can continue to bleach it. Also if you get a little tan it will camoflauge the apperance of dark and unwanted hairs. Good luck.

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My younger sister is pregnant,and I am so excited! Upon finding out this great news, I started to plan a baby shower, as I feel it is my place to give the shower plus I want too. At some point my cousin called me to let me know she was giving the shower and I could help her. My sister and cousin are not close. They have spoke twice upon learning of the pregnancy. Once at my daughters graduation, the other at a funeral. I called my cousin and told her it means alot to me to give my sister and new niece this baby shower. With alot of attitude she agreed that I could plan it, and requested that I plan it around her volleyball schedule and her brothers birthday. I think she is being rude, and I am soooo annoyed. Am I overreacting?

You are not reacting at all she might want to throw the showing in a way to get closer with your sister and is upset because you intruded on that. It is totally your place to give your sister a shower. Even if your cousin is upset she will get over it. And if she doesn't than oh well you still get your way :] I mean if you were pregnate you would want your sister to throw it and not your cousin right??

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We'll, let's see I'll start off with my age and gender. I'm a seventeen year old female. I've had a rough time with this thing called "love". I thought I had loved two people within the past four years. The first was too controlling so I forced myself out of that relationship, got over her meaning I never really did "love" her. The second was abusive and controlling, this time I wasn't the one to end the relationship. I stuck around getting hurt for six months with this girl, I fell for her within the first week or so, and she broke up with me. I know that wasn't love because as much as she may ahve hurt me she taught me that love is a two way street. Each person has to return the favour. In my case she lost interests in me. Now I also believe that anyone can "fall in love" but it takes two to "be in love." Now I've got a new girlfriend. I've been with her for a month in a week from now. She's not abusive, she's sweet, adorable and actually treats me equally. My only problem here is, she has an ex girlfriend. Whom was the only girl she ever told she "loved" and meant it with all her being. They dated for about four months and the girl dumped her without any hints I'd suppose. Then was majorly harsh to her. Sadly, the girl isn't a threat, she passed away about two year's ago from an OD. But my current girlfriend still loves her. After just leaving my last relationship, and thinking I was in love has me confused about what love really is. With this newer girl I feel so comfortable around her, and sometimes just feel that I love her, and the feeling comes to just say it naturally. But of course, I don't, knowing for sure she doesn't share those feelings back. I'm worried I'll "fall in love" with this girl, and if I tell her she might leave me or something because of her past. I'm also afraid to get hurt again so close to just getting hurt. I'm not sure whether or not to tell the girl I'm with all of this, and wing it, at least then she'd know. Or sit around not telling her, and see if her feelings for me grow any stronger.

Sweetie you cant stop yourself from falling in love if you fall in love with her it was just meant to be. You dont have to compete with the deseased. Let your girlfriend know how you feel she may be worried about the very same thing i also know where you are comming from. I've THOUGHT i was in love twice. I had a 3 year relationship and the other was 7 months. I really got to the point where i didnt think i could live without that person but you know when that person is gone you tend to grow farther from them. You will never really know what love is untill you find that one that just really stops your heart. After those two relationships i thought i could never fall in love again. (the truth is actually i didn't want to fall in love again) I was sick of being hurt. Two years later i met an amazing guy, i expected us to just date for a little bit and it would be over. Well we are going on our 3rd year now and i truley know what love is. The moral of this story is just dont be afraid to fall in love again, dont shut someone out just because of your past experiences. Who knows you may really have the love of your life right now. Just dont force it. Love falls into place beautifully and when your truley in love you will know.

*catieannmiller
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Thanks but its not about me :], i hope everything works about for the best for you. If not DON'T give up. LOVE will find you when you least expect it.

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So there is this guy, he's my 2nd and he lives far away. he might be able to come to where i live soon and i recently asked him how far he would go with me and he knows that i want him to go to second i wanna know what bra [eg back close, front close], t-shirt etc would would be best to wear for make-out sessions
13 female if that helps
seriously i love this guy, the only reason that we would break up is if he broke up with me

I think your a little to young for this but it seems this generation is growing up faster than i did. (im 18) Your saying hes your second meaning (kiss) or (sex) If you are having sex please be carefull. ALWAYS HAVE A CONDOM. What clothes you wear really doesn't matter just make sure you have fresh breath haha :]
but seriously be very carefull

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14/f

i lost alot of weight the healthy way. alot of people were concerned about me and i just was happy to loose so much. i dont skip meals, throw up, anything. I eat, sometimes not enough, real healthy. i exercise too. i pretty much just take good care of myself. i got blood tested, and went to the doctor. i am healthy completely.. my missed period is beacuse being active, my blood is normal, liver.. everything, i just lost alot of weight. i am 5'3 and weigh 102. my doctor told me to eat more, which i try. most of the time i just feel guilty of eating, but then i'll be like, "i should eat". mainly i just try to stay the weight i am now, but when i wake up and weight myself it shows i lost weight. i dont really want to loose weight. it's not easy to eat more though because i am mental sorta about it, scared to get fat. i might have a little eating disorder in my mind, but not in my body. like ive chewed and spit out food before, i obsess over calories, i work out obsessively. but not as bad anymore. i just get so pissed, when i buy clothes .. a month or not even later i cant wear them because they are too big. all my clothes don't even fit, and my jeans are down to about 3 pairs i like that fit. it sucks and i dont' want to be thinner, i just want to stay my weight. help!

Your overworking your self up about this. Its natural for your weight to shift up and down exspecially after you've lost a great amount of weight. Your body is just trying to find a state that its happy at. Worrying too much can cause you to loose weight and also can cause you to skip periods. It is mentally not healthy at all. Somewhat you do have a weight disorder. Not nessasarily meaning you have problems eating but when you stress over things your body can cause your food not to digest like it should. Try to calm down and relax. Dont worry about getting bigger. Sounds to me like your extremely far from becoming overweight. Dont worry about calories or sizes. Dont focus on the scale. Just Keep eating HEALTHY and you'll be fine..
Hope i could help.

ALSO you said your 14 sweetie your constantly going to be changing weight. Your body is growing. And your way to young to be worrying about stuff like this.

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That girl had no right to rate you a 1. I'm going to report her. she cant ask a question and expect you to guess the answer she wants. if she knows the answer then she shouldnt be asking the question in the first place :)

Thank you soo much. Im a strait forward person and im not going to lie to her and give her more reason to cheat on her boyfriend to me that is very wrong. Thanks so much.

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Ok so I went to the doctor took some blood test and said in to weeks he'll give me some type of medicine to help me get pregnant.The medicine is called Metformin or something like that.Does anyone know about how long it will take for me to get pregnant.I'm so impatient since I've been trying for ever.PLEASE HELP ME.

Metformin is actually a medicine for diabetics.
It may help you from having a miscariage but its not going to make you get pregnate. It may slightly increase your chances but not by much. It could be at anytime if your going to get pregante
Read this; It is conversations of people who have been on metformin they explain how long it took for theh to get pregnate..

http://www.pregnancy-info.net/QA/answers-METFORMIN/

Let me know if this info helped

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