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plz help me i have not clue wat to do !!!!!
well her is wats happening this i am a freshmen and i am going out wit a guy in a lower grade level than me....i kno it seems kinda stupid but o well.....anyways some guy that is in a upperclass asked me out today n i think that im kinda starting to get a lil bit of feelings for him and loose feelings for my boyfriend wat should i do?
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If you feel you're liking this guy and you want to be with him more than your boyfriend ; do both of you the favor and break up with him.
If you think there's someone else you're gonna like more and think you'll have a great time with and have the greater relationship with, why wouldn't you go for it?
Also, breaking up with him is in a way doing him a favor ; it's sparing him later pain of getting dumped, because the quicker you do it, the less emotional attachment there's going to be. If you wait another like 5 months and he's now in LOVE with you, then it's going to be alot harder. Also, if he ever were to find out, cause trust me, people have ways, he'll be hurt to realize that it was kinda just like some pity relationship for that whole time, and you were sitting there liking someone else.
So just break up with him, and see what happens with this senior guy.
I hope I helped.
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listen to your feeling... but make sure you are not breaking up with your boyfriend because you know someone else likes you and you now think you can do better. make sure you are going to break up with him because you do not like him.
But if you know your feelings for him are not as a boyfriend make sure you end it before its far in the relationship.
follow your heart.. if your gut tells you to break up with him then do it.. but if i says no, then listen.
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You didn't have these feelings before he asked you out. Sure you may have noticed him and stuff, but you didn't have these feelings, plain and simple. That means that you just like him because he likes you. This is a VERY common phenomenon. It happens to just about everyone. When someone likes you it intrigues you and excites you and you want to find more out about it. I think that you should stick with your current boyfriend. Of course your feelings for him will fade with time. That happens to everyone too. If you just skip on to the next person you will never end up in a stable relationship. You'll go through a ton of guys and you'll never be happy. Break up with him for a valid reason, not just because your feelings are fading a bit because some new exciting prospect is in the picture. Good luck. :)
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Listen to your feelings. Make sure your not breaking up with your 'oldish" boyfriend JUST for this new guy! Get to know the older guy a little better if you already haven't, and if it feels right, break up with the other guy. Mostly you just have to listen to your gut and do what you think is right.
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iif yu think yu have feelings for another guy i sugest yu break up with yur boyfriend now cause its not fair for him and i say yu give this other guy a chance. fallow yur heart
hope i helped =]
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