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Hey guys my name is Jessica and I LOVE giving advice!! I'm prett good at it too, so ask away!

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--Jess
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Age: 13
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is there any way to download photobooth on a dell inspiron E1505? I dont have a webcam, but if i tell my parents i could download photobooth on a mac then i would be allowed :] thankss! (link)
You cannot download Photobooth on a Dell. Photobooth is made specifically for macintosh. There might be other software that does around the same thing on a dell but you just have to look.


my boobs are too small! okay basically they are probably a B or something [thats my bra size] but they do not look like a B at all! i definately do not need to worry about any thing not fitting me because there is nothing THERE! i mean there is, but there isnt. you know what i mean. i'm not really self concious about it i would say, but i'm curious on why. my aunt had to get reductions & my cousins [who are my age, and sadly younger] are way bigger than me. i used to be heavier before, but lost a lot of weight. now im kind of skinny and there isn't anything there. is this why?? luckily my bf doesn't care but i do. i know what you are going to say, no you can't fix it, be happy with yourself. it just does not make sense. so what would be the best bra i could buy?? no water bras, and no obviously padded bras. oh & there's no way i'm getting surgery eitherr. thanks (link)
Listen, how old are you? I know you didnt WANT to hear it, but you are gonna have to! everyone grows at different times, usually your boobs stop growing around 18. So if your only like ....15 or older or younger you still have a long time to grow! Have you looked around? Some adults have small breasts too! I'm 13 and have 28 B's, and they dont even sell those in stores so i'm going to have to order mine! To answer your question, go to a department store in the WOMENS section. Get fitted (even if you already have) and then ask the woman if she can help you find the right bra, trust me, they know what they are talking about even if they seem crazy! You didnt really seem sure on your size so just get fitted and get help from the lady! good luck


Is there any FREE downloadable music like limewire or Rhapsody? If so where can I get it? I need it to make a CD for my school dance.
Thanks (keosha) (link)
singingfish.com has some great stuff......or ....you could download wiretap, find a song and record it onto your computer but thats a little more complicated


I'm fourteen years old, but I'm small and I have a very young looking face. When people guess my age they think I'm twelve. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and very pale skin. If anyone had any suggestions on how to look a little bit older, they would be greatly appreciated =] I was also thinking that highlights might help, and if anyone knows about if that would help or not, I would love it. Thanks! (link)
Hey .....i'm kinda the same. I'm 13 and in the 7th grade. People always think i'm in the 4th grade or 5th. You and me sound alot alike. I used to have brown hair but i got blonde highlights (it did make me look older), i have blue eyes, and i am very pale too! I'm also really short so thats not too great. I just dont really think about it too much, just dont worry i guess haha someday you will be happy that you look younger than your age!


Hello my friend is an only child and her parents are going through a very ugly divorce and I really want to do something for her to make her feel better but I have no idea what to do can anyone help me please? (link)
The best thing you can do, is just hang out with her as much as possible, and be a REALLY good friend to her. Invite her over alot to keep her away from her parents so she doesnt have to see them fight. You cant do anything about her parents, but i'm sure it would make her feel better if you were a really great friend to her.


Are there any types of necklaces for best friends, like the ones with a heart that is in half and one has best and the other has friends? well are there any for 3 best friends? (link)
I dont know if you do, but if you have a Claires Jewelry store around yuo, they have friends necklaces there
(one says Best, another says Friends, and the last one says Forever)


so i need help please!! i got my hair highlighted in the summer blond some of it was like a pretty caramel and then i have some whitish strands of hair because the lady did it so light. i want to change the color of those strands but my sister said that it will dry out my hair and my hair will fall out if i do that. is that true? what can i do to take the white out of my hair? i hate it, it looks so fake :(

thanxx so much (link)
Nope, it wont fall out. just after you get it dyed, wash your hair with hydrating shampoo and a really good wash-out conditioner, and like after you can even put in a leave-in conditioner if you wanna. It wil only fall out if your 80 years old and losin your hair :-P


14/f
i would really like to become a veggitarien. but i really like chicken.lol. so i dont know how to start being a veggitarien. i dont know how to still get protien. i really dont know much about it at all. i could really use some step by step help. and if anyones a veggitarien themselves i'd really love to talk to you about it. thank you. (link)
Well i'm not a veggitarian, so i might not help that much, but i can answer one of your questions (sorry!!)....
Since your not eating meat you wont get protein, so you can drink those protein shakes, or special foods with protein in them. One of my friends was a "part-veggitarian" like she would eat all meat besides pig, so you could just eat no meat besides chicken, that way you could still enjoy it and get protein! I'm sorry that i couldnt help that much!!


I started my period for the first time on December 3, and it ended December 11. Also, i was supposed to start again on December 30, because it was 4 weeks later. However, i haven`t started yet, and it`s been a week. is it normal for 5 weeks and a day to be between my periods?
Thanks. (link)
Yes this is deffinitely normal!!
For the first year, your period comes at all diff. times so just be ready! but then after the first year it should get normal (every 28 days)

Just dont freak out everything will be fine!
jessie


Hey I have a qusetion. My friend told me to go become a lesbian. How do I do that? (link)
Um...okaaay
1) YOUR FRIEND IS WACKO

......dont listen to her! unless you have an attraction to girls then you arent lesbo, so just dont worry about it.
Why is she telling you to do that? shes crazzzzzy!!!


well theres a boy in my class name anthony i have this big giant crush on him and my friends thinks he likes me because he stares at me and waves at me and bothers me in a fun way but he has a girlfriend i think he wants to break up with her but maybe he thinks i dont like him HELP ME PLEASE (link)
Just one day go up to him and tell him that you like him! Tell him you dont want that to interfere with his current gf though. Then he can decide if he wants to stay with his gf or go out with you
:-)

Jess


is there any way to make my boobs grow? haha i know this sounds weird but.. yea thanks. (link)
Nope, sadly there isnt anything! ahah but if your still like younger, then you have plenty of time so just dont worry!!



im 14/f.
i used to get headachs all the time and i couldnt do anything they kept me out for hours. my mom would get so mad when i would ask for advil. i dont kno wyh tho. i hide when i get hurt and i try to handle things on my own becuase she always gets mad. if the hurt was my fault or not. something is worng with me now. not physicl but mental. i dont know how to tell her this and ask for help. i tried once by atempting suicide but my friend stoped me and she blew it off as teenage hormons. now i cut myslef but i cant control it. she doent notice and i dont want to die but when i get in my moods thre's no telling what i will do. how can i show her what i am going threw and ask her to please help me, without her screaming her head off. any hintS? (link)
Make sure your calm, and in a good mood, and make sure she is in a good mood. When shes sitting down watching tv or relaxing or something sit down with her and say "mom .....theres something we need to talk about" tell her that you dont want her to get mad at you, because this is serious and you need help. If she gets mad at you, you need to talk to another family memeber because this is very serious, and you NEED to get help ASAP!!!

-jess


16/f
OK well whenever I go to a sleepover, my friend and I always give eachother breat massages (she is also a female) under blankets and stuff. We aren't lesbians, we both have had boyfriends and like guys right now. However, this doesn't make me a lesbian right? And also, the same old rubbing of the breat gets boring, how can I make the breat massages better? (without making it too noticable that I am touching her breast?) (link)
Ok, first of all not this does not make you lesbian, unless you want to be lesbo lol.
Second, maybe use two hands? I'm sorry i cant really answer the second part because i've never done it before!


okay so heres the story.. My boyfriends best friend is his ex girlfriend and he has left me for her then comes back to me. but his ex is his best friend and i am always a little worried on what could happen.. because he is always at her house but i dont want to accuse him of anything. what should i do about this? is there anything i can say to him with out him getting angry? (link)
Someday when he is in a good mood, sit down with him and tell him that you like him alot, but you are worried about him when he goes over to his ex's house. Make sure you dont look or sound angry, but make sure he knows your concerned. If he gets mad at you, then hes a jerk.


i want him to know i like him but he flirts with other girls but he always makes the effort to talk to me yet our conversations are sooo awkward cuz i never know what to say what can i talk to him about? other than like boring stuff like school and blah. he also alwayssss touches me like on my arm, and whispers in my ear and gives me hugs and winks and gives me "THE NOD" if you know what i mean. but he does it with other girls too, so how do i know if he's for real or not? how do i make him want me? how do i get him interested in me and ask me out? i just want him so bad. i want to hook up with him. ahh helpp! -- 14/f, he's a 15/m (link)
Many guys do this, and they dont realize it can hurt people because they are flirting with soo many girls, and they might not realize that one girl realllllllly likes him! first things first, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM!! if you dont tell him your feelings, he'll never know, so tell him!! If he likes you back, just tell him that the flirting thing bothers you.

----jess


This is so frustrating. Here's the deal:

I'm currently in a play. The lead, we'll call him Luke or something, is absoutely gourgous. Whenever we finish a performance, girls always flock to him. But you see, he has a girlfriend in the cast of 5 months. In order to speak to him, you need to gain her respect so she can approve of you. You see, it's really intimidating and hard to talk to him.

We're kinda friends, but I don't talk to him that much. We're acquaintances or whatever. Well, today I got really sick, and laid down and closed my eyes. It was during performance, so I sat out. A friend or two came in and asked me how I was doing after they left the stage. They sometimes would pat my shoulder then leave to change for the next scene. Well Luke came into the room, and I thought he was just going to ask how I was doing and then rush out. (you see, he is the lead, so he's always moving around) But instead, he asked how I was doing, then he bent down to my level and held onto my arm and kissed my cheek. The whole time, my eyes were closed so I had NO CLUE what was going on.

So... WHAT IS GOING ON?!
I'm going to see him and his girlfriend, for another month. What should I do? And was is just a friendly kiss or more? (link)
This kind of seems like a friendly kiss, since you were sick and all. But you might ask him what the kiss was all about, in a friendly matter of course. If he says he likes you, remember that he has a girlfriend, and remind him that too! good luck


hey well i have this friend that is really getting on my nerves because shes talking all this smack that istn even true or anything like that. she keeps talking all this stuff about my other friend and i tell my friend wat she is doing because its not only hurting me its hurting all my other friends because none of us know if we can trust her anymore or anything like that.. so some one pls help me should i just confront her or should i just leave her alone and let her keep talking all her stuff... (link)
If you really care about your friends, don't let her keep doing this to them! Go up to her and tell her that she needs to stop doing this or you are going to do something about it. If you leave the subject alone, she is going to keep doing it, AND your friends will keep getting hurt!

--jess


theres this guy i really really like. like his smile and laugh brightens my day and he has the best personality ever. you cant really say we're friends but its not like the "he doesnt even know i exist" crush cause if you said my first name he'd know who i am and say yeah he knows me. but my main problem is i'll catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye and when i turn around to look back he'll quickly look the other way. does anyone know what this means? what are the chances of him liking me? and how can i get him to like me ? i don't know any advice with help im so confused.

HELP PLEASE. (link)
He probably likes you! If you catch a boy staring at you then he either likes you, or you have something gross in your teeth (just kidding). I cant really give you a percentage, but just go up and talk to him and after you get to know him better, and if he talks to you you might want to ask him out :-D
--good luck and tell me what happens!!!

jess


should i wait for my boyfriend to come and talk to me or should i go make the first move and talk to him. (link)
go talk to him!!! Don't be scared! Just go for it, because if you dont make the move, then who will? obviously hes too scared right now so show some bravery!




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