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i. am. so. LOST. please please help.
This is so frustrating. Here's the deal:
I'm currently in a play. The lead, we'll call him Luke or something, is absoutely gourgous. Whenever we finish a performance, girls always flock to him. But you see, he has a girlfriend in the cast of 5 months. In order to speak to him, you need to gain her respect so she can approve of you. You see, it's really intimidating and hard to talk to him.
We're kinda friends, but I don't talk to him that much. We're acquaintances or whatever. Well, today I got really sick, and laid down and closed my eyes. It was during performance, so I sat out. A friend or two came in and asked me how I was doing after they left the stage. They sometimes would pat my shoulder then leave to change for the next scene. Well Luke came into the room, and I thought he was just going to ask how I was doing and then rush out. (you see, he is the lead, so he's always moving around) But instead, he asked how I was doing, then he bent down to my level and held onto my arm and kissed my cheek. The whole time, my eyes were closed so I had NO CLUE what was going on.
So... WHAT IS GOING ON?!
I'm going to see him and his girlfriend, for another month. What should I do? And was is just a friendly kiss or more?
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From what I can tell, he definately cares for you. Not too many guys would do that if they didn't. As for the kiss and it's meaning, your guess is a good as mine. Perhaps you should as him aside from everyone, out of earshot but in view so there is no rumors or jelousy going on and just ask him what it meant, but make sure you ask in a casual way or it may get awkward.
Hope this helps. ♥
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well that is definatly interesting, isnt it? first of all, i wouldnt jump to any conclusions just yet because you dont want to start thinking something and then get hurt if reality and what you're thinking dont match...this is a tricky situation, my advice would be to start to chat with him more than you do now, even talk to his girlfriend..i can completely understand how intimidating that would be..to have to go through her to get to him..but if that is how it works you cant do anything about changing it...so just work with it and go with the flow in that area at least...it is clear that cares for you, otherwise he wouldnt have come in to make sure you were ok and try to make you feel better..so just keep talking to him and then you can better learn his true feelings and then even bring it up <33
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This kind of seems like a friendly kiss, since you were sick and all. But you might ask him what the kiss was all about, in a friendly matter of course. If he says he likes you, remember that he has a girlfriend, and remind him that too! good luck
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Maybe in private you could ask him what the kiss ment.
HOpe you like my advice!! omg you are so lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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