I had sex with this boy
and I like him still.
This was during the summer, when school started he was okay and nice.
Then I moved out of his area , but I still go to his school.
He started being a complete jerk to me , and calling me fat and ugly and stuff.
yet, he stares at me constantly.
What the heck is this all about?
I dont understand at all.
duckieh20lol answered Sunday December 17 2006, 4:08 am: dear u,
I think since you and him are not dating he has lost respect for you. i think he calls you fat and ugly because he is afraid to admit it in front of other people, he is trying to keep it a secret.
xsarrahh answered Saturday December 16 2006, 8:04 pm: Its definitely not about you. He just regrets having sex too soon with you and feels guilty. So hes trying to distance himself to try to forget about his mistake. The only reason he's calling you fat and ugly is because he knows it will get to you and make you upset..Im sorry hes doing this, its really immature but try to talk to him about it in PRIVATE. dont come up to him in school or call him when you know his friends are over. also, maybe its because hes trying to impress his friends which guys do. they can act really different in different environments such as school to fit in. [ xsarrahh's advice column | Ask xsarrahh A Question ]
Cuzisaidtrustme answered Saturday December 16 2006, 11:11 am: Well, (others may agree with me) if you aren't wise about who you have sex with, especially if you aren't dating, once you do it, that person will stop respecting you. I've seen it happen time after time again. Thanks for asking! ~Erik [ Cuzisaidtrustme's advice column | Ask Cuzisaidtrustme A Question ]
coolchic12000 answered Saturday December 16 2006, 8:42 am: he still likes you but is keeping it a secret it is what boys do he deos not realize that he deos lik you because he deos not spend as much time with then he did. [ coolchic12000's advice column | Ask coolchic12000 A Question ]
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