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Heyy. The names Sarah, bitches!I love makeup, boys, friends, summer and having a really good time. Im probably the craziest girl you'll ever meet in your life but I also have had so many experiences. So, whatever you have a question with I probably have the answer to. Plus, I love to give advice OR just get mail and talk so please leave me messages in my INBOX.
♥Love always, Sarah.
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I need some good date ideas that aren't totally expensive. I was thinking bowling and dinner, anything under 70 bucks a date - cause thats as much as I can afford right now..... I know, I'm cheap - but I'm getting a job soon, so that wont be too much of an issue soon enough.
Okay here are some ideas.
Just dinner (you dont always have to do something with dinner) Personally I think the whole dinner and a _____ movie, bowling, etc. is cliche. Oh and speaking of bowling..unless the person really likes it, its kind of boring.
Invite them over to your house. Hey, thats a free date! And its really romantic. Cook the person dinner..and light candles. Create your own little restaurant.
Movie. The movies are always a cheap, but good date. Its a little safe and overdone, but its a good place to go on a date before you get a job.
Whatever it is, its about being with the person, not as much what youre doing. Have fun. ♥
I don't know how to change my password on advicenators. Is it possible? I looked in the FAQ and couldn't find it. Thanks =]
Possible. Go to profile setting and close to the top it should say:
Password (only if you wish to change it) & there is a box next to it. Put your NEW password in the box and press submit. Then log in again. That should work. ♥
OK so, all of a sudden I feel hated by like everyone. I can't stand it, I feel like I'm not wanted [anywhere] anymore. Not even at home! Does anybody have a reason to this? .. Some comforting advice? ...
-Thanks
Oh dont we ALL go through these times? Seriously, all teenagers/people in general? I feel like that someitmes too..we all go through it. I DOUBT everyone just started hating you!! Sometimes if you are depressed though, it FEELS like everyone hates you or you arent liked and suddenly everythings darker and you dont enjoy things you once loved. I think you should talk to someone, maybe get a therapist to diagnose you and if you are for it, put you on anti-depressant medication. I seriously think this is a good alternative. I hope you feel better..good luck.
Alright...christmas is in 3 days...and i STILL haven't gotten my boyfriend anything! I have no idea wat to get him, and im really starting to freak out. I need some ideas as soon as possible!!!
thanx!!
Just some ideas for what I think guys would like..
- gift card.
- DVDs
- CD
- video games..like guitar hero! or ddr!
- Band tee shirt (hot topic is great for this!)
- Mix tape (acutally a CD made by you. Decorate the case :])
- sporting equipment (new tennis racket, new basketball..if he plays a sport you get the idea)
- nice watch
- cologne! i love jake from hollister. or buy him a diff. one. they have them pretty much everywhere like department stores and clothing stores too. OH and AXE is great, too. He'll love it!
- sweatshirt - the best are from hollister, a&f, pac sun or aeropostale for guys.
- concert ticket. kind of expensive, but its not a well known band, it might be $30! go to ticketmaster.com to look. and see what his favorite bands are.
- computer games.
- bake him something! food is always goodd
Can someone tell me what a chink is? someone called me that and none of my friend's definitions are good
bad name for a chinese person.
ok well im a f/14
yes im 5'1 an way 120
i don't look fat well i have some meat but im not like a sumo restler
but when i turn 16 i'm going to star modeling because that is my dream ya know . anyway i want to get skinnier
does anyone have any tips
i tried starving myself for a week and when i felt i was going to faint i ate a cheese cube (yes i know crazy but im desperate) any help??
DON'T starve yourself...even for a week! It slows down your metabolism making it harder to actually lose weight. Plus, if you get into the habit it becomes an eating disorder that will ruin your life. 120 is NOT that much. I'd say to be in the skinny skinny range you'd have to lose about 10-15 pounds for your height. But more towards 10 please! You still want some curves. ha. Eat healthy (Cut all the junk food out) Like Chips, etc. And eat a few small meals a day..for example eat breakfast! It speeds up your metabolism. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables. AND MORE IMPORTANTLY excercise!
how do i get my make up to look like hers?
http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/pic/MMPH-AI/IMG_0106~Carrie-Underwood-Posters.jpg
Steps:
First her makeup looks pretty because her eyebrows are cleaned up..So, I would get them waxed or tweeze them. Of course you dont have to, just a reccomendatin.
For the makeup,
1. Foundation
2. Powder
3. Bronzer
4. Clear gloss
5. Silver eye shadow on eyelids.
6. Brown eye shadow above eyelids. (underneath eyebrow)
7. LITTLE bit of blush
8. Brown eyeliner (it will look good)
9. Mascara on all of your eyelashes
Okay, so I'm a cheerleader. For practice one day, I let one of my friends whos in a grade lower than me, borrow one of my shirts. My favorite american eagle shirt. She wore it to cheerleading, then brought it home to wash it. She didn't bring it in until like a week later and she put it in her locker. Something spilled in her locker and got all over my shirt. So she had to bring it home and wash it again. Then today, she wore it to school! I was so mad. I've mentioned to her a few times that I'd like the shirt back, but I haven't gotten it.
Should I be mad at her? How else can I hint to her that I want it back?
Thanks!!!
I wouldnt bother hinting and beating around the bush..Id straight up tell her. This is seriously RUDE and inconsiderate of her. Dont do this online or on the phone. Find her in person and say, "____(name), you know how I let you borrow my American Eagle shirt? Well, I really want to wear it soon, so I was wondering if you could give it to me tomorrow. Or I can just come to your house and pick it up if thats easier for you. But anyway, Id really like it back."
The whole "Ill pick it up" thing is just an option. If you really want the shirt back, you have to be willing to actually go get it because that will make her more willing to give it back.
No guys like me.
I'm not fat, but im like the furthest thing from skinny.
Blonde hair and blue eyes.
Ive had the occasional liking me for a day thing, a long time ago.
Now, it seems as though all the guys that used to be my friends ..hate me!Or they dont talk to me like they used to , they would just say something kinda mean .
I know your gonna say, wait and the right guy will come along but if a guy does come along, he just leaves!
Theres one guy that likes me ,but i dont really like him.
please help!!!
Aw..no one is perfect. but let me just say..itsnot all about looks. Some of the prettiest girls in my school dont have boyfriends and guys dont like them. Seriously, when it comes down to it a guy would rather be with a girl he truly liked for her personality, you know he could laugh with her, etc. And I know this because my guy friends tell me all the time haha. Gorgeous bitches = hookup. average but pretty looking girl with a great personality = girlfriend. So, re-evaluate your personality a little bit. Do you tend to gossip a lot or start drama? Are you clingy, depressed, immature, or dont show a lot of confidence? All these things are things guys DONT like in a girl. Im not saying you are any of these because I dont know you! Im just saying if you look deep down and see if maybe there could be one reason why they dont like you, you can fix it and be a lot happier.
14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee.
Hanging out with guys doesnt make you a slut! If you were like having sex with all of them you'd be a slut, but if youre just friends with them those girls are wrong to think youre a slut. Some girls just get along better with guys over girls (I sometimes feel like I do because girls are really catty and bitchy.) Theyre just JEALOUS. Ignore them or if you think its right, tell them youre not a slut. Just know this is giving them a reaction.
At night I get REALLY scary dreams and I wake up terrified.In every dream I die. Not a peacefull death I mean murdered.Well I do't know what triggering these dreams im not watching scary movies and I havent resently, and before i go to sleep I eat a sandwhich.I've had about 4 diffrent dreams but have the same dreams multiple times.The one that accurs the most is the one I hate the most.I'm trapped in this house a house with like 9 other kids at any age.In the house we have to find a way out of the house and the guy that has us there planted maps and clues on how to get out.So kids are ripping things and its just a mad house but theres one girl i think 7 she has herself huddled in a corner crying, I try to talk to her and she never talks back she only looks up with these huge eyes and I can't help her.The first time I had this dream I never saw her and I just ventured off on my own and when I entered this room I woke up and I knew that I was killed.
Another dream I'm in this cage at the bottom of the ocean and im locked in it and i have to find the certain key to unlock myself and the other kids get out long before me and the same girl that was huddled in the corner in the house.I have never seen this girl before and in every dream she's there and I feel so helpless cause I cant even help myself.
This question is really long but theres more.
I dont know if there a similarity to my dreams to my actual life.I stayed back last year and I have no friends now and when I go to school im in hell and i feel helpless there too so i just wanna know why im having these dreams and how to prevent them from happening.
I'm sorry its so long but if you would please help me.
The little girl actually represents you, it seems to me from the dreamm..Maybe the friends thing in school has left you feeling alone and depressed, like no one can help you anymore. Maybe your dream is telling you that people are trying to reach out to you but youre very isolated and scared and dont take their help. I think the only way to get rid of the DREAMS is to get rid of the problems inside. Which could mean talking to a parent or a friend or family member, but it would help MOST to talk to a therapist. I hope that helps you.
I need a dress for my sweet 16 party. I'm looking for a "cocktail" style dress...preferably pink...and it mustt be above the knee. Can anyone tell me where i can buy a good dress. OTHER than Debb.
Thanks so much!!
Nordstrom.com..I ordered a dress off the website once and it was soo adorable!
i know discharge is really grose and stuff,
but is it okay if you get it everyday inbetween the days you don't have your period?
(everyday, besides the days you actually do have your period)
Yeah its normal, if its heavy wear a thin pad. :]
I can't find my clit! Where is it located?? Err. I want to masturbate with my clit, but i can't find it. Diagrams arn't helping!! Please help!!
umm its right on the topp of your vagina..its ball shaped and smalll. Feel around and you'll def know if you find it
I'm reading Dreamland by Sarah Dessen right now, and I've become kinda confused. They talk alot about 'lighting the bowl' or 'preparing the bowl' when referring to smoking pot. I'm not a pothead, nor do my friends talk to me about it, so I'm confused as to what you do to smoke pot. If you could please explain the 'bowl method' so I could better understand the book, I would greatly appreciate it. :]
You put a piece of tin foil in the hole on the bowl (look it up on google images if you dont know what a bowl looks like. haha) and then you get a piece of weed and you make it small and pinch it together and put it in the bowl..then you light it on fire ha its not too long or confusing..hope that helps?
Alright, let's call this guy coffee (hey, I'm staring at a coffee cup here)He's in 11th grade and I'm 9th grade. Well I really really like him and I think he likes me too. My friends keep on saying that he likes me a lot and he's hitting on me and that we'd make a cute couple. I know, grade difference...but I really don't think he wants to just get in my pants.
But anywhos, he's really super nice and sensitive to everyone's feelings and really sweet. We basically know each other through a good friend of ours...sorta I guess? Anyways, here are some things that gets me to think that he likes me:
He said he come to the strings concert (most people never come unless they're family or forced)He puts his arms around my shoulder in a nonpossessive way and walks with me to my classes. twice he did that, he almost got in trouble for not returning to class right away and almost being late. He made sure that I was okay when I was really upset and told me to cheer up and everything. He asked if I had a bf and if I did he'd feel bad about putting his arms around me. He talks about me (in a good way) to his friends and always introduces me to all his friends whenever it's possible. He calls me cute and pretty and compliments me all the time.
Anyways I really like him and do you think it's weird that I'm having this major crush on a 11th grader when I'm only a 9th grader? Do you think he likes me? And tell me the truth because I'm looking foradvice..not sugar coated answers. THANKS!
Well, if you want the TRUTH not sugar coated here it is...
It depends on the guy! Seriously. Being a freshman its kind of easyy to like an older guy..theyre more mature and theyre def. cuter and more experienced. You have to be careful because some guys in high school are just really nice..and can be confused with liking you. Then again, if you swear its different it very well could be! Iknow guys that are in 11th grade and they said they probably/most likely wouldnt date a 9th grader unless she was like really special..and who knows? maybe you are and he likes you :] just wait it out, and see waht happens. good luckk
ok i kinda like just started goin out with my bf, but yea what could i get him, i dont wanna get him like any of those fragrence things cuz that seems too..idk. but what should i get him??
gift card, CD, nice watch, clothes, ball like a basket ball for whatever sport he plays, DVD, band tee shirt, mixed cd you made.
sometimes i wanna go shopping with my mom, but everytime i do my mom just has to bring my grandmother along! i love my grandma,and she lives wiht us too..but it's just so embarassing and inconvenient to have her! whenever i see someone from my school i feel like a complete dork because im shopping with my 85 years old grandma..i know this sounds horrible, i'd gladly spend time with my grandma doing other stuff but not shopping at our trendy mall! she's sooo slow and my mom has to hold her and stuff,and it's just so embarassing i'm sorry. but my mom gets mad at me b/c my grandma never goes out and she doens't have time to take both me & my grandma out different times. what do i do? im SO sick of this!!
You can rate me a 1 if you want, but my grandmother used to live with my family when she was about 85, too. I used to get so upset like you when we had to take her places like vacations! Even worse. We took her to Disney World and I thought I was going to die. I know how you feel, but then my Grandmother died..and I miss her so much. You need to spend all the time with your Grandma as you can. She probably wants to go the mall with you because she wants to spend as much time with you as she can. And the people at your school probably dont care. No ones gonna be like, "ew im not hanging out with her because she goes to the mall with her grandma" if they do, theyre CRUEL because we all have grandparents.
well lastnight, me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didnt have a condom so he promised me he'd pull it out before he came. well after we were finished he asked me when my last period was, like he had accidentally came inside me. he denied that and said he had taken it out before then. today my breasts hurt and i dont feel very good, but im not completely sure ( i had a drink lastnight )im just wondering if it's just nothing, just a hangover, or if i could possibly be pregnant.
=(
please help!
Its probably from the drink, but the pregnancy test is seriousss. Get someone you know to buy you a pregnancy test asap if you are too scared to do it yourself! Or just buy one at the local drug store. Its really important you find out if you are pregnant right away so you can figure out what to do.
This is adressed to girls...
What do you think us guys mean when we say things like "I just want to be friends". I'm asking because my best-friend, a girl, told me she loved me, but I don't lover her, i like her as mayeb more than a friend, but i don't totally love her. Back to the point, I'm as king because that's what I told her and she seems to not want to be my friend at all anymore. Do you girls see that comment as a "leave me alone for a while" comment? Anyways, a little help plz.
The reason why she's upset is because I just want to be friends is a line..Its been over used way too many times and people know it as a line. Kind of like "its not you its me." you probably should have said something like, "Youre a really good friend to me but I dont think we'd work as a couple but I really want to stay good friends. I wouldnt want to loose you."