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The overasked question!!!
Alright, let's call this guy coffee (hey, I'm staring at a coffee cup here)He's in 11th grade and I'm 9th grade. Well I really really like him and I think he likes me too. My friends keep on saying that he likes me a lot and he's hitting on me and that we'd make a cute couple. I know, grade difference...but I really don't think he wants to just get in my pants.
But anywhos, he's really super nice and sensitive to everyone's feelings and really sweet. We basically know each other through a good friend of ours...sorta I guess? Anyways, here are some things that gets me to think that he likes me:
He said he come to the strings concert (most people never come unless they're family or forced)He puts his arms around my shoulder in a nonpossessive way and walks with me to my classes. twice he did that, he almost got in trouble for not returning to class right away and almost being late. He made sure that I was okay when I was really upset and told me to cheer up and everything. He asked if I had a bf and if I did he'd feel bad about putting his arms around me. He talks about me (in a good way) to his friends and always introduces me to all his friends whenever it's possible. He calls me cute and pretty and compliments me all the time.
Anyways I really like him and do you think it's weird that I'm having this major crush on a 11th grader when I'm only a 9th grader? Do you think he likes me? And tell me the truth because I'm looking foradvice..not sugar coated answers. THANKS!
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haha... i knew a guy named coffee... personally i don't think there is anything wrong with that. It sounds like he is interested in you. I would definitely go for it.
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Well, if you want the TRUTH not sugar coated here it is...
It depends on the guy! Seriously. Being a freshman its kind of easyy to like an older guy..theyre more mature and theyre def. cuter and more experienced. You have to be careful because some guys in high school are just really nice..and can be confused with liking you. Then again, if you swear its different it very well could be! Iknow guys that are in 11th grade and they said they probably/most likely wouldnt date a 9th grader unless she was like really special..and who knows? maybe you are and he likes you :] just wait it out, and see waht happens. good luckk <3
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Yeah he definitely must like you...the things you say he does and says 100% give it away. And it's not weird for 9th graders to have crushes on 11th graders, or date them. I know a freshman going out with a senior. It's fine :) Well good luck, I hope thinks go well with you two!
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well first of all, it is definatly not wierd to like an 11th grader..i know plenty of people who are with/like people who are older/younger than them..that is not that big of a difference and the important factor is that you like him =)
i definaty think he has some sort of feelings for you..because actions do speak louder than words...and he is obv not trying to just get into your pants, because he woudnt come off as genuine if he was, and this guy seems to really care about you (which is great!!)..my advice would be to try talking to him and maybe bring something up about how you feel (or his actions, and the implications of the walking to class thing etc) or ask him to hang out one on one outside of school....it isnt strange for you to be the one to ask..because it isnt that you're asking him out its just you're asking him to hang out...i know a lot of guys like it when the girls takes the initiative to ask to hang out..plus that will show him that you're interested in cultivating a relationship with him (in whatever sense that means, gf/bf vs just friends). regardless, he seems like a really great guy and i think either way you cant go wrong..so just talk to him, hang out with him and see what happens..i'm always here if you need me <33
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