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No one likes me i guess
No guys like me.
I'm not fat, but im like the furthest thing from skinny.
Blonde hair and blue eyes.
Ive had the occasional liking me for a day thing, a long time ago.
Now, it seems as though all the guys that used to be my friends ..hate me!Or they dont talk to me like they used to , they would just say something kinda mean .
I know your gonna say, wait and the right guy will come along but if a guy does come along, he just leaves!
Theres one guy that likes me ,but i dont really like him.
please help!!!
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i dont really have advice, but let me just say that a similiar thing happened to me. i added this page to my favorites, because it helped me feel better about my situation. Except I had a crush on a guy who was shallow and didn't like me-like me just because I wasn't blonde and white. I used to be pretty upset, but after reading the replies of the nice advicenators, i know the guy was a jerk anyways, and you should feel the same way too about those guys. not all guys are jerks however. and the guy who likes you, dont go out with him unless you like him back. some people have liked me but i never went out with them because i didnt like them back like that. i guess im pretty picky. but like you dont need to have a boyfriend 24/7 or it could seme like your desperate if you'd do anything to get a guy as your BF. anyways, like i said before, people all have their flaws. and people change too.. its life, it sucks, but just find other friends who appreciate you better than trailing behind old friends who dont even respect you anymore. besides, its almost impossible to find a BFFL in real life. in the future, you never know, after you leave those loser guys, and you get some more confidence in yourself (im like you. im not really fat or sk, but just have confidence.. life life, have fun, i'd rather hang out with a fun fat person than a skinny bitch, and so would most reasonable people) your old guy friends may regret being mean to you like that. then its your choice if you want to forgive them.. but its best to forgive people, but w/e.
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Aw..no one is perfect. but let me just say..itsnot all about looks. Some of the prettiest girls in my school dont have boyfriends and guys dont like them. Seriously, when it comes down to it a guy would rather be with a girl he truly liked for her personality, you know he could laugh with her, etc. And I know this because my guy friends tell me all the time haha. Gorgeous bitches = hookup. average but pretty looking girl with a great personality = girlfriend. So, re-evaluate your personality a little bit. Do you tend to gossip a lot or start drama? Are you clingy, depressed, immature, or dont show a lot of confidence? All these things are things guys DONT like in a girl. Im not saying you are any of these because I dont know you! Im just saying if you look deep down and see if maybe there could be one reason why they dont like you, you can fix it and be a lot happier.
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Well, I don't understand how you could not be fat, but be the furthest thing from skinny. Not insulting you or anything... but it just didn't make any sense.
But to the problem: It depends on your age. If you're over 16, this is the kind of thing you should be worrying about. But if you're under, no serious relationships should be going on.
If you are over 16: Talk to your guy friends about stuff. If they pop up with something rude, ask them what made the say something like that. Maybe it's not your appearances, but something negative about your personality that's bothering them that you need to fix but didn't notice. Everyone has tons of problems that they don't know that they have.
Hang out with your guy friends. Be affectionate to them if you like them. In other words: Flirt.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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Get to know that wone guy that likes you. You might end up liking him. when you have problems like people making fun of you just calmly say.... "Thank you for your suggestion" and walk away.I have this problem at school and my advice works.
ALSO
ITS NOT WHAT PEOPLE CALL YOU......ITS WHAT YOU ANSWER TO! so if someones like "HEY UGLY" ignore them act like you didnt no because remember
ITS NOT WHAT PEOPLE CALL YOU.... ITS WHAT YOU ANSWER
TOO!
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Half of the problem is that you seem to have no confidence in yourself. You should never think low of yourself and find ways to bring yourself down. The other problem is that most guys are jerks.
Don't waste your time with guys that are mean to you and treat you like crap, you don't need them in your life. Stop looking for guys. the right one will come along, you just have to give it time. Don't think of all the negative things, look at life from a positive perspective. You don't need a guy to have fun. Go out with your friends and have fun and who knows maybe you'll meet a nice guy while you're at it ;)
Don't stress yourself out about this. It's not worth it.
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OK, well any of those guys are totally not nice at all!
Just leave them alone because they are so not you're type. Blonde hair and blue eyes makes such a beautiful person, and you said yourself that you're not skinny, but not fat. Well, don't try to change yourself just to get someone to like you. Trust me, i've done it and it just turns out to get even worse, because they'll start to like you, but then you'll start to act like your normal self, and then they'll just leave. So hun, what i'm saying is you're try too hard! I know you said that you don't want to hear "just wait for the right guy" but honestly it's true.
You know what? Why don't you try an activity, like a sport, and try to lose a few pounds, and then maybe try another activity like a club and try to meet a guy there. Just be yourself, and don't change who you truly are.
-volleyball2150
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