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my grandma!
sometimes i wanna go shopping with my mom, but everytime i do my mom just has to bring my grandmother along! i love my grandma,and she lives wiht us too..but it's just so embarassing and inconvenient to have her! whenever i see someone from my school i feel like a complete dork because im shopping with my 85 years old grandma..i know this sounds horrible, i'd gladly spend time with my grandma doing other stuff but not shopping at our trendy mall! she's sooo slow and my mom has to hold her and stuff,and it's just so embarassing i'm sorry. but my mom gets mad at me b/c my grandma never goes out and she doens't have time to take both me & my grandma out different times. what do i do? im SO sick of this!!
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I know you're probably sick of her, but wouldn't you feel bad if she wasn't there. Sometimes I wish my grandma was still here so I could bring her with me to do stuff. You shouldn't be embarrassed of your family. Wouldn't she be sad if she read this right now?
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You can rate me a 1 if you want, but my grandmother used to live with my family when she was about 85, too. I used to get so upset like you when we had to take her places like vacations! Even worse. We took her to Disney World and I thought I was going to die. I know how you feel, but then my Grandmother died..and I miss her so much. You need to spend all the time with your Grandma as you can. She probably wants to go the mall with you because she wants to spend as much time with you as she can. And the people at your school probably dont care. No ones gonna be like, "ew im not hanging out with her because she goes to the mall with her grandma" if they do, theyre CRUEL because we all have grandparents.
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Ask to bring a friend along- that always helps. Don't be embarrassed though, i don't know anyone who likes to shop with their grandma so if i saw someone with their grandmother i wouldn't think anything of it. If you're allowed to ask your mom if you can go shop around by yourself- that works sometimes. Talk with your mom about it though, tell her how you love her.. it's just embarrassing and that you would rather not go than be with her (but muchhh nicerr)haha.
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next time you want to go shopping ask if you can go with your friends and then your mom can hang out with your grandma
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Just simply ask you mom if this one time you could leave her home. The worst thing she can do is say no. Just explain that it might be easier to get something dome because she is a little slower then both of you, maybe promase to hang out with her some other day so shes not getting left out.
Jess
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