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to girls...what do you think we mean when we say...
This is adressed to girls...
What do you think us guys mean when we say things like "I just want to be friends". I'm asking because my best-friend, a girl, told me she loved me, but I don't lover her, i like her as mayeb more than a friend, but i don't totally love her. Back to the point, I'm as king because that's what I told her and she seems to not want to be my friend at all anymore. Do you girls see that comment as a "leave me alone for a while" comment? Anyways, a little help plz.
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no,i see it as you dont want to have a relationship like that. but its weird...cause i would feel like i had built up all that courage just to tell you and then just fell. and then the akwardness starts. because now she thinks she cant tell you anything,thinking you might reject something again. i dont know ,its really weird. i dont see it as a leave me alone comment. she might though.
good luck just tell her you can still tell her anything and things might change.
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this typically means, "we need a break" its usually a break up line a guy gives a girl when he wants to no longer see her. maybe you could say instead, just what you said in your question. Girls would rather have someone who's honest, instead of using the same old same old break up lines every guy uses even if they are not true. Talk to her, smoothe things out!
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dear u,
she is upset because when you say just want to be friends it means that you are saying that it is over.Luck
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The reason why she's upset is because I just want to be friends is a line..Its been over used way too many times and people know it as a line. Kind of like "its not you its me." you probably should have said something like, "Youre a really good friend to me but I dont think we'd work as a couple but I really want to stay good friends. I wouldnt want to loose you."
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When a guy tells me "I just want to be friends" depending on the guy, I interpret it like it's said, he just wants to be friends.
Considering that she's your best-friend she should think the same way but like you said, she isn't talking to you. It's probobly that she needs some time to coop with the fact that the man she loves doesn't love her. Just give her about a couple days and if she doesn't come around, talk to her. Start acting like her friend again and being there for her when she needs it most.
As you said in your question you like her more than a friend but not quite love her, do NOT tell her this until you've totally figured it out and know for sure because this will all happen again and that's not good because a girl can only take so much.
I know I sort of went off topic but this needed a resolution and not just a "what do you think it means" answer.
Hope this helps.♥
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When you guys say you just wanna be friends, it either means you're not interested, or you just like us as a friend & that's it. Anyways...
Did you tell her you maybe liked her as more than a friend? I hope so, because she deserves to know. She told you straight out that she "loved" you, and if she told you that, you should've told her "I like you as a friend, but maybe more."
If you start to like her more, don't start flirting immeadiately with her because she'll get confused and she'll probably think you're weird.
She's not talking to you right now because you told her that you just wanted to be friends. She's obviously pretty bummed out & is probably trying to get over you. When a girl likes someone a lot, and they tell us they just wanna be friends, it kinda breaks your heart. Rejection is the thing girls fear most, besides being alone.
I'd give her some time to herself, she needs it. I'd talk to her sometimes though & ask her how she's doing, she'll know you care. And the worst thing you can do to a girl is lie to her, lead her on, but most importantly, cheat on her. Those are the 3 main things to cause a girl a broken heart.
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