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am i a slut?
14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee.
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well, i would like to tell you that what you are going through is nothing then your peers being immature and unable to accept your choice of friendship, possibly due to their jealousy and feelings of inadquaces. but, sadly what you are going through may very well be an obstacle that you will have to overcome for the rest of your life.
i am sorry that some girls think less of you, but girls are going to do that. all you can do is develop a tough skin, and make sure that you are conducting yourself in a friendly manner, not a flirty manner.
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you are deff not a slut
and girls sometimes tend to hang out with guys more then girls because they dont start so much drama
but maybe the girls are jelous of you, hanging out with someone they maybe like or want to hang out with
hope i helped at least a little
you can ask me something else maybe i didnt understand your question all the way.
well good luck with that xoxo. kendraa<3
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You are not. You just like to hang around boys there is nothing wrong with that. They are cool. Those girls you said that are probably just jealous that you get to hang out with the boys and they don't. Just forget them and do what you want to do.
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U certainly arent a slut!I hang with guys all the time! Their really cool and fun and u shouldnt be considered a slut for that. If people think your a slut then they're just JELOUS! Dont worry bout what they think as long as the guys are your friends and you know your not a slut!
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No, absolutely not. I myself, have many guy friends, but that doesn't make me a slut. In order for you to be a slut, you would have to be having sex with them. Since you are not, you don't have anything to feel guilty about.
These girls are obviously not your friends, so I would just ignore them. As my wise friend always tell me "Kill evil with kindness."
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Hanging out with guys doesnt make you a slut! If you were like having sex with all of them you'd be a slut, but if youre just friends with them those girls are wrong to think youre a slut. Some girls just get along better with guys over girls (I sometimes feel like I do because girls are really catty and bitchy.) Theyre just JEALOUS. Ignore them or if you think its right, tell them youre not a slut. Just know this is giving them a reaction.
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No, just having alot of guy friends and hanging out with them does it, in any way, make you a slut. You haven't hooked up with them or anything, it's perfectly harmless.
They're probably just calling you one because they have their own insecurities within themselves, and to see you sitting there, talking and hanging out with guys with ease is probably making them majorly jealous because they can't talk to even ONE guy probably without blushing or freaking out or something.
I hope I helped.
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NO you just have friends who are guys, and if the other girls say stuff, their just jealous.
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its not slutty
their probably jealous because they want to hang out with guys like you do but cant
your not slutty unless your hooking up with everyother guy all the time
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You are only a slut if you are actually "messing around with the guys" but just to be hanging out with them. NO there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a lot of guy friends..I use to be like that..at least until I got into a real real serious relationship..thats when it starts to look kinda weird..hope I helped.
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I am a boy. I hang out with girls. it is my hobby xD sometimes it embarrases me. But its cool because the guys think its coool im hanging out with girls. But also remember when they call you a slut..
its not what they call you... its what you answer to... you hear me? You remember dat
Good luck ! :)
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no i love chillen with the boys, because im a tom boy and because id rather be around them more then girls. nothing slutty. you are not a slut
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Dear am i a slut,
I hang out with guys all the time, it doesn't mean that you're a slut, it just means that you get along with guys. Think of it this way, the're just jeleous that you know more guys than them.
-Beanie
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No, that does not make you a slut one bit. I understand where you're coming from cause I hang out more with guys then girls because honestly girls start too much drama and talk to much shit.
Let them say whatever they want to say, they're just jealous. Don't let it get to you, they are just words.
♥
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No there just jealous. They think you're trying to steal all the guys, probably, so they get offensive and judge. Just play around with it, i think it's fun when girls call you a slut and they know nothing about you.
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Nope. Only if you were doing stuff with them.
they are just jealous. Haha.
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Unless you are having sex with them all you are not a slut. Just hanging out with boys doesn't make you one. They are just jealous. Please don't let it bother you. :)
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