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what should i do =[
well lastnight, me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didnt have a condom so he promised me he'd pull it out before he came. well after we were finished he asked me when my last period was, like he had accidentally came inside me. he denied that and said he had taken it out before then. today my breasts hurt and i dont feel very good, but im not completely sure ( i had a drink lastnight )im just wondering if it's just nothing, just a hangover, or if i could possibly be pregnant.
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please help!
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I don't want to come off sounding preachy but questions like this sadden me. Young girls grow up so fast these days but still don't know basic sex
facts any better than I did in the 70's. So I am making your answer for all girls reading this. Especially the younger readers.
I will give you a link on pregnancy symptoms at the end. They would not show up this soon so for now it is something else. Doesn't mean you aren't pregnant but today's symptoms are no indication.
OK. First of all any guy with a hard on...even the nicest guy on the planet, is not to be believed when they tell you "I will pull out before I come". They may have good intentions, they may think they can, but most of the time they cannot do that. Young men have a serious lack of control. It comes with practice and maturity. You believe them and you might get pregnant.
They can also come at the drop of a hat. If you believe because he was only there for a minute he didn't do anything...you are sadly mistaken. Those with a little experience will take a little longer, but you get hold of a guy who hasn't been around and it doesn't take much. You could get pregnant.
I know you want to please your guys. If you feel you have to be sexually active MAKE THEM USE PROTECTION! You, not them are the ones who will
get pregnant. Protect yourself. If you must do it be safe and smart.
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As soon as a penis becomes hard, it begins to leak a fluid known as pre-cum. This contains a sizeable amount of sperm, so you CAN get pregnant even if a guy does pull out before he cums.
If your boyfriend pulled out before he came, you should have felt his cum hit your stomach - or felt/seen the wetness on the sheets. If there wasn't any wet patch, he probably came inside of you.
To put it simply, there is a chance you are pregnant.
However, you would not be having any symptoms of pregnancy at this point. More likely, your mind is kicked into overdrive by the worry this has caused, which is why you are probably paying more attention to every little thing than you normally would. If you are expecting your period soon, these symptoms can also be PMS.
All you can do now is wait and see if you get your period. Be aware that anxiety and stress can cause your period to be late. If your period comes, fantastic. Get yourself down to a clinic and talk to a doctor about what sort of birth control would best suit you, and use condoms as well. Let your boyfriend know that you are unwilling to have unprotected sex - and then follow through on your words.
If your period does not come, you can take a home pregnancy test. If it is negative, reread the instructions to make sure you did it right. Retake it if needed. If it is positive, again you'll want to speak to a professional so you can find out about your options.
I wish you the best of luck.
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Its probably from the drink, but the pregnancy test is seriousss. Get someone you know to buy you a pregnancy test asap if you are too scared to do it yourself! Or just buy one at the local drug store. Its really important you find out if you are pregnant right away so you can figure out what to do.
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The stomache ache you are experiencing is probably from the drink. There is no way you would be experiencing pregnant symptoms this soon.
I doubt you are pregnant. Don't stress. If you stress your period may come late. Which means even more worrying. Next time, use protection. Guys don't have self control.
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Well there is a thing that is liie pre sperm, so he might not have done it in time. But also when you orry about stuff it sometimes makes your body believe something that not true. So you could just be feeling this way cause you are worried. You will just have to wait and take a pregnacy test.
Jess
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well all boys have a little pre-sperm come out before the big hit. It is possible that it did get in but you still have a smaller chance of getting pregnant. Sometimes when you are nervous about that stuff your body does act wierd but you shouldnt feel sick until a little ways further. I would still get a pregnancy test just to make sure.
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well, first of all, sperm entering vagina in any way at all = possible pregnancy. and from what i've herd, some guys don't have all that much control. i know i'm not real experiance in this kind of situation but i try to help out where i can. and him asking you when was the last time you had your period was most likely and indication that he did slip a bit. i would get one of those home pregnance tests if i were you. but then again, it may be your body playing tricks on you cause your nervous that you are pregnant, add the handover in there and it all could just be nothing. but i would take the test just in case.
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alyssa
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