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what do i do
I think Im pregnant and i dont know what to do. My boyfriend really wants me to have a kid and at times I do to but i feel like im to young and im not ready. I dont believe in abortion. What do i do!?
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what ever you do DO NOT get an abortion. Thats probly the most selfish thing ever. have the baby and put him/her up for adoption. that way everyone can have a happy life. and you dont have to deal with the guilt of killing a person.
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You say you feel that your not ready.
But, lets say you're definatly pregnant, you need to remember that you'd have support from everyone around you and your boyfriend.Abortion is bad things yes, so maybe giving them up for adoption(iif your not ready), that way they will be alive and happy and grow up having a better life.
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If you dont believe in abortion then theres only a couple things you can do. Keep the baby or adoption.
Sit down with your boyfriend, his parents, and your parents.
Talk about what would be best for you, your boyfriend, and the baby. Think about if your not ready to take care of another persons life 24/7. But growing up in multiple fostor homes isnt such a great life.
You just need to talk about it all and come up with the best answer. If your still in highschool, think about your studies and how that would complicate things.
Good luck.
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First off, make sure if you're pregnant or not.
Get three tests, this way you can be sure.
If you're still not convinced, see a doctor to be sure.
Now, if you are pregnant you are given three options. 1. Keep the baby. 2. Abortion. or 3. Adoption.
If you are young and you feel you can't handle a baby but against abortion, your only other option is adoption or giving the baby to your parents/relatives if possible.
As you know, your other choices are keeping the baby or abortion. I must say, this topic truly needs to be discussed with parents, your boyfriend, and your doctor. Even if its hard, you have to think of the baby, the baby's future, and your own future.
Good luck <3
Inbox me if you have any other concerns.
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First of all yuou have to go to a doctor or take a pregnancy test to see if you really are.. you don't want to get worked up over nothing if it turns out you aren't pregnant. If you are pregnant.. when you have the baby you could always put the baby up for adoption, it would be the best for the baby, and you could always meet him or her when you are both older.
Hope this helps.
Rach:D
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