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his best friend is his ex girlfriend
okay so heres the story.. My boyfriends best friend is his ex girlfriend and he has left me for her then comes back to me. but his ex is his best friend and i am always a little worried on what could happen.. because he is always at her house but i dont want to accuse him of anything. what should i do about this? is there anything i can say to him with out him getting angry?
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well, do you love him enough to trust him?
because if you... then you shouldnt be worried because he CHOSE you.
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Let me see... this guy is hanging out with his ex-girlfriend. He has, in the past, dumped you for her and then come back to you. You say he's "always at her house."
What's in it for you? You don't trust him. How can you have a relationship without trust? Why worry about angering him? If you can't speak with him about his relationship with his best friend without him getting angry, he's probably defensive because he's guilty. I think you should let him know that you are not getting what you need from the relationship and you should move on. There are many, many guys out there who do not keep bouncing between two girls and breaking their hearts. Protect yours until you find someone worthy of it.
Sabine
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Someday when he is in a good mood, sit down with him and tell him that you like him alot, but you are worried about him when he goes over to his ex's house. Make sure you dont look or sound angry, but make sure he knows your concerned. If he gets mad at you, then hes a jerk.
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-tell him to be honest
-tell her to back off or you'll beat her down (lol)
-warn her
-do something to him that he'll never forget
-spy ask friends to help you
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