Question Posted Wednesday December 13 2006, 5:33 pm
i am very shy sometimes and i dont ever get hit on! but all my friends do when they are around me! now over xmas vacation i plan on changing my image! not because i want to get hit on or anything like that but because changing your image also gives you self confidence and that is something i definatly lack so should i go through with it? keep in mind im changing my image not my personality!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AliRae92 answered Friday December 15 2006, 10:38 pm: K well my opiniotn honestly is... How you look has nothing to do with self confidence. yeah you can feel like people dislike you because you look differently. but you yourself to make it so you are more self conciouse is not care what others think about you and that will increase your self confidence and you will not look at yourself so poorly. And i know you said you do not want a makeover to make it so you get hit on... but think about it, from the sounds of it, thats exactly why you want to look differently. and honestly, if any one is worth your time, they will like you because of you, not your looks.
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 11:16 pm: As long as its for yourself and not for other people. You should never change yourself for anyone but yourself. As long as your changing your image and not your personality its fine. A lot of people change their images every once in awhile. [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
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