I'm 15 in 10th grade and My girlfriend says that she doesn't wanna go out right we should wait a while, she wants to be single, she's not ready for a boy friend, ect. does ths mean she doesnt like me or what i just want kwon because i love her i wanna be with her and i just dont understand could some one pleas help me.
TinkerbellsHelp answered Monday December 4 2006, 6:50 pm: It depends. It could mean that she just doesnt like you and she doesnt want to hurt your feeligns or it could mean what she says. Either way, she doesnt want to go out with you anymore. Sorry bud. [ TinkerbellsHelp's advice column | Ask TinkerbellsHelp A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Monday December 4 2006, 12:16 am: This doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it means literally what she said. She just doesn't feel like being in a relationship right now at the moment, which actually makes her quite a smart girl. It wouldn't be fair towards you or for her if you guys're dating and she feels she doesn't want to be in a relationship at that moment. You wouldn't want to be dating her, with her feeling that way, would you? I think not.
Trust me, whenever she's ready to date, it'll be great. You just have to wait awhile, if she's worth the wait, that is.
Just don't keep asking her if she's ready to date yet, or try and guilt-trip her into it or push her into it. This is only going to make her upset and feel pressured to do something she's just not ready to do. And this might ruin your chances of dating her in the future.
So like I said, she likes you, and if she's worth the wait, then wait for her. Just keep talking to her, and just flirt with her maybe to just remind her you're still interested and you haven't lost those feelings for her ; but don't lay it on too heavy.
HectorJr answered Sunday December 3 2006, 11:44 pm: It means that she's mature.
Just wait it out man. If you wait for her to come around, and don't push her into it, then that shows how much you really do like her. It's not you, so don't worry. Smart girl actually. Wait a bit and still be her friend. Good things come to those who wait. Don't push her into it. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
vomski10 answered Sunday December 3 2006, 10:35 pm: sweet heart don't worry. she does like you but right now she prefers to not be tied down. but she does like you. so i hope it works out for you =) [ vomski10's advice column | Ask vomski10 A Question ]
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