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my boyfriend
behind my parents backs...its been about 10 monthes now and my boyfriend and i are still together...he's turning 20 in 2 days and i just turned 16 so yea theres a 4 yr age difference. my parents flipped out when they found out over the summer. they hate the age difference and swore they'd get him kicked off FDNY....i can't afford to risk that for me but we're just so in love and i dont know what to do anymore. i hate sneaking around and lying to my parents.
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Hey.. Just so happens, I am in a similar cituation.. I am 14 almost 15 and my boyfriend is 18 almost 19.. and At first, I thought it would be best if my parents did not know, and I kept it a secret for about 3 weeks.. and then hell broke loose. my mom found out. I got grounded.. and at first my parents were stuck on No I Could Not Be With Him, and after days of my mom seeing me upset, hurt, cry, she realized that she should get to know the guy and see what it is he wants in a younger girl and to my surpise after she got to know him and spend some time with him. She realized he is a great guy and now she lets us hang out all the time and she loves him, we have noe been together for 3 months... yeah its a little shorter than you and your guy. But same situation.
My advice.... Although you think things will turn out for the worst if you tell them, they might actually turn out good. And it would be better to tell them and have them find out then to not tell them and have them find out you have been lying to them.
Well If you have any Q.. Feel free to messege me.
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You have to tell them because they are bound to found out sooner or later. They cant force you to break up, they're probably going to be furious but atleast it's off your chest and a hude weight is lifted off your shoulders. You cant always tell you parents what they want to here, but you should tell them everything no matter what. Good luck!
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