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she want to break up with me?
im male
16 years old
ok well me and my girlfriend have been together for like a few weeks now and we started out going really fast like making out in my bed and stuff and like all of a sudden she wont let me kiss her goodbye or ne thing ans she sais she wants to slow down is this like a sign she wants to break up with me or sumthin yea i know im a guy and this is prob a stupid question but yea
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okay ive done the same thing with my boyfriend..in the beggining we went really fast and i started to get board with the relationship because we didnt really talk we would just makeout when we hungout or even at school..i didnt really realise that we had been going too fast until i was already a couple weeks into the relationship when i realised that i didnt know much about my boyfriend..i think your girlfriend is probally scared that if you guys keep going so fast you might get board with eachother or maybe even go too far and end up messing things up..idk hope i helped...keep me updated :]]
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Like you said, you two have been dating for only a few weeks. She doesn't want to break up with you, she just wants you to slow down a little. Try talking to her and asking her what's wrong. Tell her that you've noticed that you guys have been moving a bit fast. Instead of making out with her all of the time [i'm not saying that you guys have to stop], try talking to her about how school is going for her and oher important things like that. See if she drops hints of her wanted to start making out or getting intimate.
Hope I helped. Best of luck.
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okay im pretty sure of this one. all of a sudden you were going really fast, and she likes you and she doesnt want you to think shes easy by moving things along quickly... also she probally doesnt want you to think that she wants to have sex with you or other stuff...right away that will probally come eventually.she was probally moving along quickly at 1st because it was pure lust...but as she started to like you more and more she probally feels maybe a little more self concious about what you think. she also probally wants you to like her for her not for like purely physical stuff(not saying thats the case). anyways im sure its nothing to worry about.. also im pretty sure its a good thing
good luck with that:)
hollie
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This doesn't sound to me like she wants to break up at all. If she wanted to break up with you, she would've broken up with you already.
She really probably does just means what she says. She just wants to slow down. Since you two went off right away with making out and everything, she might feel like this is going way too fast and she doesn't want you thinking she's easy or something and that you two are going to have sex really soon or something. She probably just feels she's giving the wrong impression and wants to give you the right one.
Also she maybe thinking she wants to get to know you better. I don't know about this part, seeing as I don't know you and hers history if you've known eachother along time or just met recently or what, but if you two don't know eachohter ALL that well, she may be feeling instead of making out all the time, she just wants to talk and have a good time and just cuddle maybe and hold hands and whatnot.
But anyways, if it's not the second option, I'm pretty postivie it's the first. But I really think if you want to know the true answer, it's better to ask the source than a stranger. Just ask her what's going on, if she's having second thoughts on being together, or what? And just let her know that she can alwyas talk to you about things if she needs to, and just see what she says and what you two talk about. And see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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SHe just probably has a lot going on right now and when you advance in dating, you get nervous and start stressing out more and it could be affecting the rest in her social life right now or she doesn't know how to cope with her feelings for you and needs some time to figure them out. Good luck!
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Well, from what the information you told, my guess is she likes you just at first she was so caught up in her feelings for you she was not thinking and just made out with you but now that it has been a while she realizes that it was too fast and she just wants to slow down on the pysical part of the relationship not the emotional. My advise, let her choose what she wants and dont asume she wants it to be over and end it yourself before she gets to it, because chances are thats not what she wants.
hope i helped
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I'm a girl, so take it from me. Slowing down is not a prelude to breaking up. Well, not usually. In society today, a girl making out with her boyfriend or kissing alot or letting guys touch her is viewed as dirty.
LIke if a guy makes out with a girl, people won't whisper..."He's a manwhore!" but they will do that to girls. So, most likely, she's feeling guilty about doing sometihng that is taboo in families and considered sin by lots of people. Also, she may just want to think about if she really likes what's going on between you two or not.
The best thing to do would to follow her demands and not ask questions. If you really trust her, it will show and she will respect you more for it and most likely replenish all horny-ish feelings she has for you.
-Zeph
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Maybe her hormones were driving her guy crazy and then she came to her sense--what the heck am I doing making out in his bed without even going out with him for a month?!!?!
I'm not her so I don't know but form what I've done in the past...that might be a sign of her indicating that she wants some space (even if she brought this upon herslef) and that she really wants to slow down or it's over. So just give her some time to slow down. Just keep it to a kiss max and give her space and let her chose to pace you guys move at
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