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15/f. i've recently found out that i get crushes on people waaay too easily and quickly. like today we had a field trip and on of the guys that was new this year who is friends with a lot of girls i talked to the first time. he is really nice and funny and we stayed together the whole time on the field trip and sat next to each other for two of the presentations and at lunch. it is so weird because i just basically met him but i've started to like him. i know that he doesn't suspect anything because he is friends with like a lot of girls because he is easy to talk to. and we got each others numbers and screen names, but that doesn't really mean anything to him. what can i do to stop getting crushes on guys so easily.
also i started out being friends with this "punkish" guy that is bi. he is so nice and even though i'm kinda girly, i've kinda started to like him. i know that i have no chance with him because 1) he likes older people, and 2)people would probably make fun of us. what can i do to stop liking him. i'd much rather just be friends with him.
thanks!
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Well first of all.. about the bi guy, do you honestly care if people would make fun of you, if your happy thats all that matters, who cares what other people think. And i know exactly how you feel about the you get crushes on people way too fast, i am the same way. But think about the future and if you could see yourself being there girlfriend. Ask yourself if you actualy like them in a romantic way or if you are just like Awww hes nice and sweet.
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the thing about being 15 is, thats what we do! we get crushes on people we barly even know or people we have a strong connection for one day..thats perfectly normal.guys are a very important part of our lives and looking for the right one and hoping he'll be the one you want all the time makes a lot of sense because smart girls like us know that they really could be the one we want! keep doing your thing...its the only way to find someone you truley care about and beleive me,when you do its the best feeling in the world!!!also, when you find that person,you'll stop looking and falling for those other guys. until then,enjoy the fact that you are free to date and go out with whoever you like that way!!! thats half the fun!!!about your guy friend, you just have to tell yourself it won't work..that is,if you truley beleive it won't. personally, i wouldn't care about what others think...i mean..why should those people care..its your life,ya know! i also know that although he may like older people that he won't nessisarily always go for them. if you really don't think its worth a try, exept it and move on. you can't help who you like but once you except it,time heals everything..and thats a promise!hope i could help!
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Try asking him just to be your friend. EASY THING TO DO. OKAY
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