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choosing between two guys
i have a confusing situation, so this might be long. first of all, i have a boyfriend of almost two years and i love him a lot. things are great, and i could see myself with him forever. but i have a problem.. i've known this other guy for six years, and he was basically my first love. things happened, and we lost touch and grew apart. a few months ago, he came back into my life and we still love each other. now this might seem like every other love triangle, but the twist is that the other guy (not my boyfriend) knows me from the internet, and we've never met. so i need advice on who i should choose? should i stay with my boyfriend and leave it at that, or leave him and be with the other guy? don't say that the last idea is crazy just because i haven't met the guy, we've talked on the phone and we've had YEARS of history together. what do you guys think?
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I say.. follow your heart. If you honestly think you could see yourself with a guy you have never met and just talk to on the phone, then go right ahead. But you said you could see yourself with your boyfriend forever and i wouldnt risk that for someone you have never met in person.
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well im not gona tell you what to do im gona tell you what i would do and i hope it helps first off the reason im not gona tell you wwhat to do is because only you can make up your mind and only you no how you feel about these to boys so this is what i would do ....................
i would stick with my boyfriend you say you love him and things are going great so why spolly it for someone eals but do stay in touch with the internet boy but just be shaw the boy on the internet is who he says he is ok good luck
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First you need to tell them about each other. You've been with your boyfriend for 2 years. He has the right to know about this other guy. The other guy should definitely know you have a boyfriend too. It's just unfair if he doesn't. Don't tell your boyfriend you're thinking about leaving him for this guy of course, but at least tell him that he exists and that you might have some feelings for him. From there see what happens. It depends on their reactions what you do.
My advice and opinion:
Stay with your current boyfriend. You are happy with him. If you leave him you are risking everything. You will not be assured of the same happiness if you try another guy. You have worked so hard to get your relationship to where it is today. Don't just throw it away. If you go back to him (if he even lets you) it will never be the same. Maybe you could be happy with this other guy. However, there's nothing wrong with the guy you are with. If you are seriously considering leaving him, you may have some committment problems. Not that you can't committ to someone, but that you are willing to break that committment for the excitement of a new, hot prospect. Never dump someone for someone else. That is a terrible reason. Your boyfriend is so good to you and has done nothing wrong. Someone else isn't going to be any better. Different maybe, but not better. People aren't all that different from each other. You will be disappointed because your expectations for the other guy are so high.
Whatever you decide make sure that it is a decision you can live with for the rest of your life. Good luck. :)
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