ok......... i am 13 years old and i am in the 8th grade i like this 12 year old boy in the seventh i was going to 6th period and i seen him and i dont know what was wrong with me but somthing came over me and i grabbed his butt he started looking around and was saying all kinds of stuff i hurried to class but he figured out it was me and after the 7th period bell rung i got on the bus and i sat in the back he was in the last seat and he started to say i was a rapist and i had an std and all kinds of stuff he even got up and sat in the front and was going crazy and when the bus came to his stop he ran out of the door and down the street!!!! wow i really need him to trust me again plez help me i seriously dont kow what to do
DangerWench answered Sunday December 10 2006, 8:21 pm: ...
Saying you are a rapist is obviously over the top. What you did wasn't rape, it was sexual harassment. If you grabbed his butt without his permission, that's harassment.
Imagine it was the other way around. A 13 year old boy just suddenly grabs a 12 year old girl's butt without her permission. He could get into huge trouble for that, because it's wrong. You certainly couldn't blame the girl for being scared and freaking out. It works both ways.
If I were you, I would apologize to him and tell him that you realize what you did was wrong. Let him know you didn't mean to grab him like that without his permission.
He probably reacted the way he did because he didn't know how to handle that situation. Sexual harassment isn't something any young person should have to deal with. Hopefully your apology will help with that. [ DangerWench's advice column | Ask DangerWench A Question ]
piglet answered Sunday December 10 2006, 5:57 am: well its not you thas got the problem its him i think he needs to grow up ALOT going round calling people a rapist could get him in to very big troble i think maybe you should just forget about him and let him get on with his stupid little bad mouthing if his bad mouthing dose get worse then i think you should tell somone maybe a teacher or your mum or even a friends mum good luck hope it sorts its self out [ piglet's advice column | Ask piglet A Question ]
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