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Hey everyone! Well, I need boy advice!!! Ok, I'm in 8th grade this year, and about 4 months ago I started to like this guy A LOT. And he talkes to me and I talk to him and whatever, but I don't feel close enough to him. I want to get to know him better and I want him to get to know me better. How can I do this? You guys probably don't even understand how much I like this guy. Like, this weekend (this may sound really weird, but its true) I spent my whole weekend thinking about him. And I get really sad because I don't think that he likes me, which he probably doesn't but you know. And another question I have is- what does a boy do when he flirts? What are the signs of flirting, how can I tell, and how do I flirt back???? This may seem like a lot to ask, but I need a lot of advice. Like, we play around with each other, such as kicking each other (not to hard though, lol!) and sometimes when he walks by my desk he will knock my pencil out of my hand or kick my foot or something, is this flirting? Its not like hurting kinda kicking, but like, just playing around. Its hard to explain, but I need help! Please help me guys! I'm soooo confused!!!!!! Luv ya guys!!! <3 <3!!!!!!
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This is going to be a very interesting question to answer! Thats because I know EXACTLY what this is all about.
First of all let me tell you that a guy usually comes to know if someone like him or not (Ok! Maybe I am saying too much but I know! Atleast most guys who 'notice' a bit of the happenings around them if not clearly, for once sometimes have an idea if someone likes them). When he does notice something, if its a normal guy of this age, would tend to feel happy and just 'let the events unfold.' As I understand, you are already quite friendly with him. So, the only thing which can be done here is that you must increase your number of conversations - but its important you never show very much affection for him in the beginning(I am not saying don't show it at all). It might even be a good idea to appreciate him for something. He would like it.
Now for your second question, as I understand, yes, he IS showing signs of flirting. Another few ways you may notice flirting is that the guy's voice tend to soften when he talks to ou esp if you two are alone. He often looks at you straight in the eye. And of course he 'plays' with you, hits you (lightly of course), keeps smiling at you a lot and in brief 'enjoys' being with you.
In my opinion, this case just needs some time - its all set!!! hahahaa
Best of Luck!
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Yes he is flirting with you. I know how you feel there was once a guy I liked like that. But don't play around to much cause guys get annoyed. Just get to know him and if he is always talking to you like everyday then he probally kinda likes you.
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