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this is just a random question i was thinking about today;
if you are traveling and are at an airport,do they drug test you?
i would think if they check your shoes for bombs, they would also do this,right?haha i dont know,thanks
Nope, no drug test necessary. However if you are caught with drugs in the airport they do have the right to drug test you. Keep out of trouble, and don't do drugs :D. xoxo DD
13/f
I've had a few boyfriends , but mostly we just hung out & stuff , no real dates.Today , I went on a date with the guy I've been with for like a couple weeks.I was just wonder how anyone else's first or first few dates were ?
Oh and we went to the movies.
Ugh, my first date was a wreck. I had been telling my best friend sarah about how I had fallen for this guy named Henry. Now Henry was one of the best looking guys in school and my friend sarah, she is like a total babe. So I figured maybe if she put in a good word he might call me. So I wait and wait and it was I think like a week later when I finally got a call. SO I see this weird umber and I pick up and this guy with a deep voice says "Hey is this Diane, it's henry." and at this point I am freaking out, like really freaking out. And he's like "I've liked you for a long time maybe we could go on a date sometime" and we continued to make dinner plans for a friday night. I was in ninth grade so I was scared I mean Henry was a junior and man I never thought with was possible. So lone and behold that friday I go to the restaurant and I'm looking and looking for Henry, and I see this nerd from my bio class. And he comes up to me and he's like oh hey looking for someone? And I'm like yeah.. And hes like hah funny so are we going to eat or what? And then I realized that was Henry Thomas I felt like SUCH an idiot. And I wasnt going to be mean so I went. It was just a big awkward mess. Man that night sucked. I must have ignored sarah for a month after that I was so awkward. I bet your date beat mine.
Haha Xoxo Diane
When is the right time to have sex??
Do you mean the right time to have sex like how to make the move or when in a relationship you should have sex?
Ill say that in a relationship have sex when you feel comfortable with it. Don't do it if you dont know him/her, or if he /she intimidates you. Don't do it if he/she keeps pushing you to, just do it when you feel right. It may be a little awkward but you will know if you want to.
14/f
i live in florida. so i tan outside almost everyday or if not that atleast 5 days out of the week. i never pealed but i am starting
too now. so the question is there anything i can use lotion anything that will keep me from peeling. the worst place is on my shoulders.
thanks in advancee! (=
if you use like a moisturizer like alovera it will help alot alot. Any kind of tanning oil with that in it will help alot too. Hope i hlped xox Diane.
16/f
Last night I slept over at this guys house. In the middle of the night, I woke up, and the back to my cartilage piercing wasn't there. I have 3 ear lobs piercings on each ear, so I just took out one of them and put the back on the earring. (Oh yeah I just recently got the cartilage peircing, and I dont want it to close up, while my lobe piercings I've had for a while.) Now, I have to change it though, and the back won't come off! It fits toooo tightlyy. So I was tryna get it off yesterday, and I wasn't even being that rough or anything, but it started bleeding, which isn't a good sign.
So how am I supposed to get it off to change and clean it? (I take it off to clean my earring, bc I've had it for like 3 weeks so I already change it and stuff -- I know your not supposed to but whatever I pierced it myself and yeah).
Thankss!
Go to the nearest jewlery store they will def help you for free you dont want to get an infection those can get seriously nasty. You probably don't even need your parent there. Good luck xox Diane
my friend drank half a water bottle filled with sprite, sky vodka, and some blue rasberry stuff. she said she was super drunk, trippin all over the place, and she said she threw up 3 times. and apparently the next day she had a reallyyyy bad hangover. i cant understand how this is possible...like getting that drunk n stuff just off what she drank. it was her first time, but my first time i took 5 shots of like hard liquor and chugged 2 beers, and didnt throw up, or get a hangover, or anything. why is there such a difference? (both 14,female, same size)
Some people just have a higher tolerance. But the big thing is what you ate that day. She probably didn't eat a lot and if she did she didn't really eat carbs. Also it depends how fast she drank it if you do it slowly it doesn't hit half as hard. Mixing also can make you sicker. Hope this helps xox Diane
my legs rub together when i wear shorts, and my in between my legs get really sore and red, sometimes cut up, because they rub together from wearing shorts. Any ways I can prevent this, or when it happens, I can make it feel better? thanks.
15/girl/usa
Well if I am running or something and wearing like cotton shorts ill wear spandex under then this eliminates it. Also moisturizing is the best way to keep it down. I would use more of an aloe than a cream because there is less friction. If it is with shorts that aren't cotton i would buy bigger sizes that will be airier. Hope this helps, good luck xox diane
15/m. ok, this is going to sound really stupid, but people always think im gay. I had this one guy ask me, "ur a puff innit? u like it up the batty?" i was all "wtf!?" he was all, "well you look gay, you talk like a girl".
1. i have a deep voice
2. how could i possibly look gay? i have facial hair..quite a bit of it. so long story short, people think im gay. what could be giving them this idea, and how can i change my appearance/ speech so i dont "sound gay" even though i dont in the first place? cheers
First off you shouldn't care what lame self conscious boy think.
Then you have to let people know you aren't, maybe get with a girl? I don't know do what you feel is right. Make sure you aren't being style conscious with other guys/girls or following any "gay male" sterotypes. Just stop caring what people say and be yourself and I'm sure no one will question it. A lot of guys just oppress their questioning of thier own sexuality on other guys especially in highschool. Good luck xox Diane
Okay so me ad my boyfriend have been dating a year, i love him id do anything for him hes been a best friend for me through so much stuff and i cant imagine things after us. Lately he was distant and last night he asked for a break because he didnt know what he wanted all my friends think hes a "douchebag" and i can do better. not just because of this instant but because of many. but i dont anyone else, as much as he says hurtful things i still love him and i know he loves me too. we decided not to talk for a week and see where that leaves us at first he says its going to help and then he says not to be hopeful. im so confused i want him so badly he says he doesnt know if he wants us, he says time has taken a toll. im really lost with all this and i cant stop crying and i dont know what to do.
please help me
thanks
H
Don't cry he seems like he has really changed in the year that you've been dating. If your friends see something in him they don't like they are probably right because all they are trying to do is watch out for you. And as different you may think he is when it is just you two its just as important for him to treat you right in front of your friends. He is probably saying that the break will be helpful because you will be use to not talking to him as much, which makes me find him even more lame. If i were you I'd take the bull by the horns and break up with him. It will make you feel fresh and give you a single outlook on the situation. And if he says that would upset him you will know he cares and i know you know he loves you but he's doubting it and being a jerk...You deserve better and I know you know that Good luck xoxo Diane
So I have been dating this guy for 10 months now, and he will be leaving in Sept for school overseas, the thing is... I know I'm going to be So hurt and in tears almost everday for about a month... I don't want to be like that!! I want to be able to end the relationship with a smile, don't go on any rebounds and just be happy that I was with someone SO great and NOT cry and break-down, you know?! I want this because we BOTH know when he has to leav, and so it shouldn't be so tough, right?! So any advice would REALLY help!! :P Please... Thanks!!
If I were you I would have the best possible summer I could with him, not make any moves yet. But in the end have a talk with him, a serious talk about why you dont think it could continue. He should understand your needs and see how it is ideal for the both of you. And Just give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him it was fun while it lasted. He will understand but for now just have fun and enjoy him while he is there. Hope I helped xox Diane
A boy likes me but I don't know if i like him back. Others say we should go out. Does that mean on a date? I'm confused.
It just implies girlfriend/boyfriend - you dont have to go on dates it basically just swearing of all other guys untill you two break up. It also means he can kiss you, help your hand, play with you hair and all that without you freaking out. You should def give him a chance dont worry you can always pull a "this isnt working out"
i love ALL of her books.
and i also love ALL of meg cabot's books.
can you name some more good authors like these two?
or just some good books.
& yes. i've read the twilight series.
and the gossip girl series.
Have you read Sarah's new book lock and key? It was also amazing.
I don't know if you like deeper books but the seas by samantha hunt was very good. Also sloppy firsts and second helpings were two very good books and very like sarah dessen's writing, Good luck xox Diane
Lately my love life has gone to hell. I've been hurt so many times and my ex wants me back. I love him, but not as much as I used too. I am single now and thinking of closing my heart to everyone because so far its just been hurt. Help me if you can!!
I know what it's like to be hurt, and it sucks. And I don't why or how you and your ex broke it off but it seems like you probably need some time to clear your head. My advice is you should probably turn a new leaf and look for someone new. Have you ever realized that when you try on a million different outfits you can never figure out what to wear, but when you throw on something fresh with barley any thought it always looks the best? Maybe what you need is a relationship without confusion for a while. If I were you i wouldn't swear off boys completely, just look for love in new places. I hope this helps xox Diane.
i really like this guy (R) and i think he likes me back but his best friend (G) was in love with me and told him to stay away from me. now G has a girlfriend but still doesnt want R to like me.
he never talks to me and always looks sad when he sees me. the thing is that i want him to talk to me but im too shy to do it myself lol
so what can i do to get him to talk to me? because i mean his friend has a gf now anyways so i dont get it.
heeelp :P
I think that talking to his friend seems like the easiest way.
His friend seems to care about you and know you, even if he does have a gf so you shouldn't feel intimidated to talk to him. And i understand that you don't want to go up to "R" and say man I have a crush on "G" and it would be real nice if you could back off but you dont have to do it that way.
If I was you I would talk to "R" and be like it is so weird "G" wont even look at me anymore do you know if he is mad at me or something? And if he denys it and says something like "yeah he is really mad at you dont talk to him" be like weird and confront "G" about it.
I can understand you being scared but seriously what is the worst that can happen?! Good luck xox Diane.
im 14 and ok im kind of a prude and believe no sex before marriage and you should wait for someone special before going out with them... especially when you're young... and my best friend is turning into a hoe. she got her first boyfriend, and i was reaally happy for her, but then on their first date they made out, and other people were around. they werent even going out for a week, and they didnt even kiss normally before that. then she wanted me to grind with her at the last dance, and i was like NOOO. i would only grind with a guyyy and if i had been going out with him for a while.
i know this is how like old people think, but i want a guy who cares about me, not just a guy that wants to do stuff with my body. and i dont care if i wait for that. but my friend is alwayss bringing up her bf and its soo annoying. she hasnt been a good friend for the past year either, although she says im her bff... shes been ditching me for her other group of friends a lot, but hangs out with me mostly in schol.
i am really sick of her and im afraid shes going to do something that she regrets... should i keep being friends with her, try to help her, or ignore those problems?
thats sweet and all that you care, but she isn't you. And most people find stuff like that normal. And maybe if she isnt a good friend and doesnt share your morals oyu arent ment to be, so dump her and move on. Hope i helped.
does anyone know where i can get a hoodie that has stars printed all over it? anyonee? or something like it,just some stores that have that style.
Hollister. White with yellow- orane stars. Its cute but tight.
ok well me and this guy...lets call him bob...bab and I got close and after being friends I gave him a H.a.n.d.j.o.b. and we were both seeing someone;therefore I couldn't tell anyone at the risk of both our mates finding out..so now he's gone to camp scince yesterday.he hasn't told anyone.I told my bffl and she didn't tell anyone but someone overheard us and told EVERYONE.Now...what should I do because he won't belive it...he'll think I told everyone...maybe so I dunno what I should do to get him to forgive me if he's mad...he gets back from camp on Monday the 25 so what should I do ?
tell him the truth I mean you really don't have any other choices expect to start telling people its not true and hope no one tells him before he leaves. As for you never cheat on anyone asshole if you are in a realtionship atleast have the decency to be decent. seriously.
Would a 14 year old girl and a 17 year old guy workout in a relationship?
I realllly hope so casue I'm 15 and made out with an 18 year old last night hahah. BUT in all seriousness a relationship isnt about age isnt about what you put in to it nd if you try to make it work it so can. freshman and junior? typical case go for it.
The guy I like finally broke up with his girlfriend. My friends, family, and other peeps like schoolmates think he just went out wiht her to get back at me because he asked me out like three years ago but I said no...do you think he got this girl to make me jealous...because it did. Now they broke up. When I talked to him like 4 days ago he talked to me about the situation and he went in septh with it and usually he always wants nothing to do with me but now he does. Much help is appreciated, I want the truth as well.My question basically is do you think he got this girl to go out wiht him to get back at me and will he ask me out soon? ((dont say ask him out because i am a very shy person)).
Well I can't say for sure, and I don't really know a guy who holds a three year grudge..but maybe. But I don't want to encourage wishfall thinking. I know you want to hear that he did but its not so likley but at the same time you were one of the 1st few people he told and that means alot. Obviously he is seeing if he can keep his trust in oyu and if it would work again. What I suggest you do is flirt with him and talk to him and keep the connection becasue if you do he WILL ask you out soon. But make a move quick before someone else does. Good luck really and tell me what happens I lovee this stuff :) GOODD LUCKK
The hottest guys I meet are too busy watching porn and girl on girl stuff(which is sick...okay...fine, guys making out can be hot but it's also very wrong!!!!) and shit like that and everything and it kinda makes me angry because like my friends(girls) don't go looking up pictures of naked guys or anything so like...I don't know if I can really trust guys a ton if they say that don't do that? GUYS...are any of you NOT like that? Answer truthfully!
And people have asked me to do some really wrong stuff on webcam too and I'm kinda concerned about that... >.>
You want the truth? Yeah but its unhealthy if they aren't I mean seriously. Guys need that stuff to sustain hemeostasis. It isnt their fault there want to be turned on every second. But it isn't a bad thing or something to consider lossing their trust in any way becasue it isnt what makes them who they are. I know this kid, realllly hott, skator, biker, snow boarder, surfer. ARg to die for, with a personalitly like no other. Hes sweet, nice, honest and I can tell him ANYTHING. But at the same time I was SHOCKED to hear during a game of truth or dare he admited to jerking off more than 6 times a day. Now that i'm over the shock of it I realzie it doesnt make him a different person jsut a horny one. Hope that helped. Good luck guys arent that difficult