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When is the right time to have sex??
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hey hun you cant really answer that bc sweetie you should have it when your ready how will you know your ready, some people know and some dont some ppl miss up and regret it but whenever you do dont dont regret doing it because you wont get anywhere and according to everyone its at different points in your life to do it but you cant tell someone to do it at this time or this. that all depends on your choice you make try to make the right one if you cant then just try to not regret it. hope i helped hun and do what you feel is right sweetie!!! good luck...
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Depends on who you ask.
Your friends: Now!
Your family: Marriage!
Your parents: 40 or married or college, or whichever comes last!
Your religion: Marriage! Reproduction!
Truth is, theres rarely a "right" answer to that question for anyone.
Though, if you're under 17 or 18, the answer most definitely slants severely towards "not yet"
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This question is really not as difficult as one may think in the beginning. It sounds as if it is complicated to figure out when the best time is for a person; however, it is very simple.
When you are prepared emotionally, physically, and financial to have children then it is the right time to engage in sexual activities. Children can be accidents, birth control is not always effective, and it's best to be completely prepared. A parent-to-be needs to make major decisions while being stable enough to handle the worst. You should be able to answer some questions like:
1. What if the baby has a defect--physical and/or mental?
2. What if I lose my current job? How will I support myself and another being?
3. Am I in a stable environment? Will I have a safe place to come home to with my child?
4. Who would tend to my child while I work to support the family? Who can I trust this well?
5. If I am a woman, can I my body handle being depleted of vital nutrients? Am I in good health? OR--Is my partner in good health? Can my partner's body handle carrying a child to full-term safely?
6. In a few years, will I be able to start answering a child's question about life, sex, drugs, and even responsibility? How would I handle this?
7. If my partner decides to abandon me, becomes extremely ill, or passes away will I be able to cope and remain stable for the sake of the child in question?
Personally, I know many people who became impregnated the same night they lost their virginity. Some were on birth control even so that alone shows the ineffectiveness of it. Some were prepared for such things and some were completely lost and had to scrap their entire life-plans to raise another being.
Personally, I'd like to be prepared so that I could give my offspring the best chance at life possible. I wouldn't want to raise a child that wasn't capable of making it in life because I wasn't ready to put down my life for his/hers.
When you are prepared for the worst and know that with your mate you will get through it together. Many people contract STDs/STIs on their first encounter from a partner that was simply unaware that they were a carrier. Many virgins have STDs from their parents and were never taught that the symptoms they experience are not healthy.
You need to be as educated as possible before engaging in sex. This means knowing all of your facts--good and bad. Many people like to pretend that they are not at risks for STDs and then when they are diagnosed they are confused, lost, and completely uninformed. If they had been responsible and researched beforehand they would have been able to cope a lot easier.
Many people now leave their partners for silly reasons. They may leave the person with all of the burden and responsibility. The person may have contracted an STD from an unfaithful partner that they will now have to live with and inform other possible partners about (embarrassing). They may have to rear a child completely on their own because of the selfishness of their past mate. Many people are in such a hurry now that they don't take the time to figure out if their partner is true and loving to them, and so they rush into things entirely too fast and get caught into a horrible mess.
To help you out some, here are a few links you should definately check out while giving this thought:
Here is a link about pregnancy costs to know about:
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Here is a link that has some really freaky STD facts:
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Here is a link to photos of STDs you should research so you're aware of what they look like on the body:
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And here is just something simply for you to read and think about. I read it and thought it was pretty neat and gave some good points:
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Here is also a link on some things about virginity. I think it has some neat points and gives examples to explain what they're talking about:
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In short, it's right to have sex when you are prepared in every way possible. Think about all of the possibilities--good and bad--to having sexual relations and answer them all honestly.
I hope I've helped educate you on this and you'll be able to make the right decisions in life. If you have any more questions regarding this matter, please feel free to ask me :)
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When to have sex.. is differnt for everybody
It really depends when you are ready to.
When you first have sex, you shoul oose your virginity to someone you really do think you love are know you love them, and you shoul be comertable around them.. Never let anyone force you to have sex, be ready yourself.
an make sure your comfertable around them.
Your only ready when u feel reay with the right person.
Eveyone is differnt
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Do you mean the right time to have sex like how to make the move or when in a relationship you should have sex?
Ill say that in a relationship have sex when you feel comfortable with it. Don't do it if you dont know him/her, or if he /she intimidates you. Don't do it if he/she keeps pushing you to, just do it when you feel right. It may be a little awkward but you will know if you want to.
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