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his best friend...
i really like this guy (R) and i think he likes me back but his best friend (G) was in love with me and told him to stay away from me. now G has a girlfriend but still doesnt want R to like me.
he never talks to me and always looks sad when he sees me. the thing is that i want him to talk to me but im too shy to do it myself lol
so what can i do to get him to talk to me? because i mean his friend has a gf now anyways so i dont get it.
heeelp :P
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I think that talking to his friend seems like the easiest way.
His friend seems to care about you and know you, even if he does have a gf so you shouldn't feel intimidated to talk to him. And i understand that you don't want to go up to "R" and say man I have a crush on "G" and it would be real nice if you could back off but you dont have to do it that way.
If I was you I would talk to "R" and be like it is so weird "G" wont even look at me anymore do you know if he is mad at me or something? And if he denys it and says something like "yeah he is really mad at you dont talk to him" be like weird and confront "G" about it.
I can understand you being scared but seriously what is the worst that can happen?! Good luck xox Diane.
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Why don't you try getting his msn address, myspace, bebo, facebook, something which might make the whole thing easier to talk to ?
i know you say you are too shy to go over to talk to him but i mean what is the worst that could happen?
Just try to talk about every day things. Im not meaning start a converstation on the weather or what-not but talk about music or basic questions like "hows you, been upto much lately, what you doing at the weekend?"
and Smile, sounds stupid i know, but show a basic interest, smile and try eyecontact. It can help
Hope i helped a wee bit
xx
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his friend shouldnt still like you even though he has a gf. thats just rude and not fair to you. its also not fair that this guy wont let the guy you like go out with you. what i would do is tell him that you like R and you wanna hang out with R and he cant stop you OR R because you both make your own decisions. it doesnt matter if he likes you or not, if he was really that good of friends with R he'd let R be happy.
or just talk to R and tell him what i just said. maybe R will find some balls and tell G off. :)
anyways, i hope it works out! take care! :)
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