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Location: Scotland UK
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Age: 15
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my friend lies about everything she makes stuff up all the time and its starting to buyg me. its getting hard to just ignore it. like, if i tell her how i guy likes me, she has to tell me how some guy ive never heard of likes her. or she just lies to make herself seem more interesting. shes honestly the biggest liar ever.
what should i do? its getting hard to trust her.. (link)
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most people who lie a lot are insecure
maybe you should talk to her
though you don't want to say something to her incase she gets upset.
we all lie, some more than others, i would just try and deal with it, if not then maybe ask one of your other friends that know her if they notice it. If they do then you should maybe say to her
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hey im 14/f and this guy i likes 15/m and were a freshman at our school and homecomeing right around the corner for us. okay well to get to the story.
hes in my 5th hour. i set by his best friend (my best friend lkikes his best friend ha)okay so me and his friend talk all the time oh and his best friends name is andrea and the guy i lieks name is edmond. me and edmond talked for awhile on the computer and he asked for my number so i was pumped that he liked me or something so me adn him text all the time. and we went to a foot ball game together and it was very cold out side so i wore his jacket and then we started to hold hands and we were very close to each other. and we almost kissed!. okay so the week after that we always hangout in the halls and hug and were kinda all over each other but we dont text that much any more. after 5th hour every day he waits for me and holds my things its really cute. and he picks me up all the time. when we hug i get all happy and smiley. so friday right b4 class he takes me iunto the hall way and im thinking yes hes going ot ask me to homecomeing ha what a shocker he doesnt instead he tells me some girl says that hes useing me and that not the case bc we havent done anything but hold hands and hug. so hes like really pissed about this cause we dont even know who this girl is. so we walked in together and i was weraring his jacket again. so today i mean saturday i brought up homecoeming and i told him i was getting my dress hes like awwh tahts cute. whats it look like adn he asked who i was going with and i said no one but i have someone in mind and hes like oh okay. your too cute you know that and then we started flirting . and weve been texting hard core now. and he wants me to go to his house next weekend and get wasted with him!.! ive only been wasted once and i dont remeber that well. we have talked about oral be for and he doesnt want sex. but he wants oral but he says i dont have to if i dont want to but i wanna and i dont know what to do cause ive never done any oral things befor? whats it like?? is it funn? do i swallo his cum or anything? help me! (link)
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well it sounds like you just know this boy!
I'm not going to sit here telling you what to do but you should really think about this.
First of all your 14, which is a young age for oral sex especially when "wasted"
Be careful!
you don't want to have oral sex to then fall out to then regret doing it...
all problems aside
oral sex can be really fun, if it goes well
swallowing cum is really a personal thing
some girls swallow
others don't
if your not make sure you have a towel or something as it can be messsy
I know most guys like it when a girl swallows but at the end of the say it is up to you
hope i helped
and think this through
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so ive had my period for about 2 and half years now, and i still dont know how to put a tampon in. its really embaressing too because when i go away to camp [Im on the swim team at my camp] and i get my period, its embaressing to tell my friends/the coach that i cant swim because of it. should i know how to by now? its been 2 years! the thing is. i did tried this one time in 7th grade, my friends pool party which i was so excited to go to and wear my new bikini and then i got my period and im like okay putting a tampon in cant be that bad. omg it is. it hurtsss like idk why it bothers me. i just dont like that feeling of sticking something up me. why am i so weirdd haha. and i try again every now and then, but no luck. as soon as i try and put it in, even just trying to stick a finger in there, i flinch. like i just cant do it. what should i do??? my mom doesnt know what to tell me either, im worried. please help me (link)
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hey :]
right well entering a tampon is a easy task when you know how to put it in properly.
just use your thumb and middle finger to hold the tampon and the index finger to push it in.
somepeople find it easier to put it in when you have one leg higher. Ie. on the edge of a bath.
once in it will feel sore and weird. you feel like your walking funny haha!
i was the same!
try it for 2 days, changing every 4 hours (or less) and im swear it will get better. Try it on days you aren't busy and just kicking around the house.
If it still gets sore after 3 days of trying go see a doctor or ask your mum or a trustworthy female.
do not use lubricant though, it can cause problems i have heard
hope you well xxx
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How do I explain to someone that I love very much that also loves me, that I'm going to commit suicide? Please don't give me a list of reasons why I shouldn't, I only want advice about the question I asked. (link)
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well i don't think it's a good idea to commit suicide in the first place
but lets not get into that
i'd say get them and sit them down face to face and say that [whats ever causing you too feel like commiting sucide] is really getting to you and that you have thought about killing yourself, and that you need them to know, and to help you...
best way is to tell them straight
Hope you the best and dont do anything that you may regret or that will effect other people in a way they would not like to be effected
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15/m. ok, this is going to sound really stupid, but people always think im gay. I had this one guy ask me, "ur a puff innit? u like it up the batty?" i was all "wtf!?" he was all, "well you look gay, you talk like a girl".
1. i have a deep voice
2. how could i possibly look gay? i have facial hair..quite a bit of it. so long story short, people think im gay. what could be giving them this idea, and how can i change my appearance/ speech so i dont "sound gay" even though i dont in the first place? cheers (link)
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Never change for anyone.
My friend has the same problem. He has learnt to just stand up to these people. If they ask you if your gay. Look straight at them and say "no i'm not gay" in a powerful voice. It will be hard to pass this but it can't continue forever so cheer up and stand up to these people.
Hope i helped a wee bit
Thereisaholeinyourlogic
16/f
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16/f, I REALLY REALLY need help. I get along with everyone in the entire world except for my parents. They treat me well by giving me a nice home, clothing, other things, etc. but don't always consider my feelings. Ok, so I think my dad has some problems. He comes home from work every day cranky and moody. He takes out his anger and bad moods on my brother and mom as well, but most of all, he takes it out on me. It happens on almost a daily basis. I try to just walk away but I can't. My feelings and anger take over and I fight back. I feel like it's unfair for me to be treated this way by him. He's not nice to my friends either. Then there's my stupid, predictible mom. She sides with him over everything no matter what, all the time in any situation whatsoever. She agrees that he's moody and never does anything or says anything. She never protects me in any of these situations even when she knows I'm not being treated fairly. I talked to her about it once, and she's like, "I'm not getting involved in these stupid fights you have with him" When she knows for sure that I'm being the one attacked she stands there and doesn't say anything. But she totally contradicted that statement last night. What happened was, my dad was trying to figure out how to use his new camera and we were gonna watch a video on it and I told him to rewind it to the beginning and he said he didn't know how so I told him I would do it (all in a nice, pleasant tone) and the next thing you know he's screaming at me for bothering him. What's really, really funny is that when my dad was screaming at me, my mom looked at ME and yelled shut up. So that tells you something right there. She's so very much in denial about this and I can see through her like glass. Also, didn't she say two weeks ago that she's not getting involved in any fights? After the video thing I completely lost my temper and there was a huge fight. I know I shouldn't have done that but it's not fair!!!! The fact that my mom NEVER protects me hurts me more than anything. I've tried to talk to her about it countless times but nothing works. She's a brick wall. She's so unbelievably quick to yell at me but never at him. When I was in sixth grade I would get into fights with my dad a lot (on a much huger scale than now, though). My mom decided that I have problems and I need to go to therapy. So I did for a few years, which actually helped me get through a lot of other things in my life besides my family and then stopped because things were going ok. But now, of course my dad has issues and is my mom sending him to therapy? NO! She's not doing anything about it because she's in COMPLETE, UTTER, DENIAL. I even asked her if we could go back to the therapist and she said no, probably because she doesn't want to hear the truth. My parents; attitude toward it is, "I'm the father I can say whatever I want You're the child, your feelings don't matter. And they're like, if this continues, you'll be punished big time. It's not fair that I'm the scapegoat for my dad's actions. I try to walk away and ignore it but it hurts too much. I've disliked him since I was in fifth grade. If he just went to therapy things would be better. Do you really think it's fair that just because he's the "adult" and I'm the "child" he can treat me how ever he wants? It's not fair!!!!!!!!! I cry so much over this and I'm desperate for help. I don't know any dads like this and any moms who don't defend their own children. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE help me!
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This is a hard problem
especially on you
i know you have tried to talk to them about it but i would say try getting them together and sitting down and just go over whats really bothering you. Dont say everything just a main point. Dont act angry or upset just say it in a tone and look straight at them. If your dad begins to shout etc then just let him boil down. Dont fight back. No matter how much you want to. If he doesn't calm down, slowly ask him to please calm down. Dont cry. Dont shout. just try your best to calm him. Ask your mom to help. Look her straight in the eye and ask nicely to help.
If not why dont talk to a close friend or someone you trust about the problems, i know they would be no therpy but maybe talking about it could help.
Hope you have some luck dear
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I found a product in the local Food City here called Wash 'N Curl. I read the label and it pretty much says that it helps your hair to curl and adds volume. It also claims to be good for dry and damaged hair.
I found the website here:
http://www.washncurl.com/
I have very thin, straight hair with lots of dead ends. My hair is pretty stick-straight naturally so I'm really unsure if this could help bring some wave to it and/or help me with curling it. (link)
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they dont really work on people with naturally very straight hair. More for people with a natural wave. If you want curly hair, use straightners or curl irons.
ive you want volume try blow-drying your hair with your head upside down, or scuffing it as u dry it then using straightners to fix untidy bits.
hope i helped a wee bit
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A boy likes me but I don't know if i like him back. Others say we should go out. Does that mean on a date? I'm confused. (link)
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To go out usually implys being girlfriend and boyfriend. Meaning you go on dates, hang out etc...
hope i helped a wee bit
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Lately my love life has gone to hell. I've been hurt so many times and my ex wants me back. I love him, but not as much as I used too. I am single now and thinking of closing my heart to everyone because so far its just been hurt. Help me if you can!! (link)
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Maybe you have been just picking the wrong people?
If your ex wants you back and your considering it then make sure you are careful! dont rush back into it or do anything you may not be ready to do.
You shouldn't close your heart, you just havent found Mr/Mrs right. Try being single for a while, go out and have fun. Love is an amazing thing, you can't close that out.
Hope ive helped a wee bit
and GOOD LUCK finding the right person for you and i wish you all the best :]
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i really like this guy (R) and i think he likes me back but his best friend (G) was in love with me and told him to stay away from me. now G has a girlfriend but still doesnt want R to like me.
he never talks to me and always looks sad when he sees me. the thing is that i want him to talk to me but im too shy to do it myself lol
so what can i do to get him to talk to me? because i mean his friend has a gf now anyways so i dont get it.
heeelp :P (link)
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Why don't you try getting his msn address, myspace, bebo, facebook, something which might make the whole thing easier to talk to ?
i know you say you are too shy to go over to talk to him but i mean what is the worst that could happen?
Just try to talk about every day things. Im not meaning start a converstation on the weather or what-not but talk about music or basic questions like "hows you, been upto much lately, what you doing at the weekend?"
and Smile, sounds stupid i know, but show a basic interest, smile and try eyecontact. It can help
Hope i helped a wee bit
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What subjects at school and university will i need to do, in order to be a cop?
Thanks for your help in advance.
Kronix (link)
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to be in the force you will most likely need
Physical education
Maths
English
and a basic sience depending on what sort of police force you wanna join
i got told by the careers teacher to take P.E, Maths and English then join the police cadets at 16/17
im guessing you live in the USA due to the fact you called them "cops" rather than "police" so i don't really know if the subjects still apply
but i do know you need the above in the UK police force
i cant see them being too different
hope i helped a wee bit
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I always see a bunch of these "how to apply false eyelashes" tutorials but thats only for the top. Has anyone ever tried putting them on the bottom? Do you use strips or individuals? I tried it but I can't seem to keep them on and feels awkward too.. Anyone wanna share their experience and teach me how? (link)
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most people just apply to the top
as bottom can sometimes make your eyelashes look really fake and weird looking
if u still want to put them on the bottom individual ones will be better as the strips are made for top eyelases, you can by individual ones that are smaller in length, they might look a bit better but to be honest fake eyelashes are for the top eyelash
hope i helped a wee bit :]
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