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Last night my best friend (lisa) totally blew me off. (or atleast that's what i would call it)
She called me up the night before and said we were hanging out.. so i call her that night to make sure and she's like yeah i'll call you in an hour. 2 hours later she calls me and says she's going out to dinner with her other friend (katelyn), because some boy had called katelyn to go out and katelyn didn't wanna go alone.
what i'm mad about is that lisa she just agreed to go with katelyn without even asking me or telling me when she first knew. (at least then i could make other plans!)
i love laura to death, and i do everything for her. the other day i cleaned her car when she asked me to and i pay her like 20 dollars a week for gas money since she has to buy everything on her own. i've helped her write papers when she stressed out and i spend soo much time talking to her/reassuring her about her problems when i have a ton else to do. i cover her so she doesn't get in trouble with her parents at risk of me getting in trouble, i go to her soccer games, i buy her stuff just cuz i know she'll like it, i let her borrow my ipod/clothes/money for weeks. i wouldn't mind doing this, i mean its just being a good friend, but i don't feel like she's always a good friend to me.
for example, i live 8 min. away from her. and she always uses it against me how she goes way out of her way to pick me up. if i only give her like 10$ of gas money a week she gets pissed at me. like she told me she didn't HAVE to pick me up to go to this party (that *I* told her about and got her invited to) but she did cuz "she's a good friend." ... she flips out at me for forgetting stuff, when she wostuff like that.
but when she's nice to me, she's so nice. like she offered to drive me home when my parents got in a huge fight w/ me and wouldn't drive me anywhere.. and shes bringing me to a concert for my birthday and paying for the ticket and stuff. and she's hilarious and we're like the same person.
... i just feel like she's using me.
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Sounds like you got a case of a using friend...when she needs something she comes to you and is friendly...but then stabs you in the back when it suits her...she isnt a true friend if she is back and forth on you all the time...i dealt wit the same thing and i blew off my best friend cause i realized she wasnt a friend 2 begin with. So talk 2 her and tell her how you feel, if she doesnt listen give her the short end of the stick sow her how it feels.
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ok so im a guy and i was jus wondering if many girls like to get their anus fingered or not? haha i know its weird but i cant help but be curious
thannnkksss (link)
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well i guesss i cant answer 4 all girls but...a guy did it 2 me once and i enjoyed it...but maybe other girls arnt like me.....so do what u think is the right thing and c how it turns out.
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I have a crush on this guy at my school and I guess we are friends but I just want to know how to make friends with guys, I mean I can hardly talk to boys. I hang out with a group of girls and like only one boy in our group. So I just want advice on talking to guys. I can hardly talk to my crush and I am shy. Well I'm not shy with my friends. I am really loud and outgoing but thats how I really am with people I know. I know a lot of guys but we don't talk very much. I just would like some advice on that. Thanks! (link)
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Look i have the same exact problem you do. Im very outgoing, but when it comes to guys i am horribly shy...so what i did was i hung out with cousins...and boy relatives my age...so that gave me some input on "guy info"....and you could also hang out with this group of girls and talk to that guy when they r there....that will take some nervousness off knowing that friends r near by. hope i helped out a little...♥advice1551♥
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okay i want to be in swimming [at school] but theres a problem... :
what happens when im on my period?
im not aloud to use tampons
and i started my very first period one week ago so im not regular and its still to early to use a tampon
so idk what to do
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I don't know what you have been hearing but it is never to early to use a tampon....Practice using them. Because that is what you need to waer when you go swimming...because pads definatley wont help.
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i have friends who don't act like they are really my friends for example one girl told some other people her "secret" then one girl is telling me she is like i can't tell anyone. it's like they don't trust me, i am boring or i wera a scarf for religious reasons,my sis has friends who trust her and she doesn't wear her scarf i had the same problem with me in my last school even though i didn't wear a scarf.I can't also seem to make any friends because i don't hv any thing to talk about and i am kind of shy! (link)
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The best thing to do is to confront them and tell them whats wrong, but if they dont respect you and your thoughts they arn't really your friends....maybe it is time to meet some new people. I dont mean just from your school...i mean from many other places....Whats the point in having friends if they don't act like it.
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