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Okay...are there ANY guys NOT like this?


Question Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 2:55 pm

The hottest guys I meet are too busy watching porn and girl on girl stuff(which is sick...okay...fine, guys making out can be hot but it's also very wrong!!!!) and shit like that and everything and it kinda makes me angry because like my friends(girls) don't go looking up pictures of naked guys or anything so like...I don't know if I can really trust guys a ton if they say that don't do that? GUYS...are any of you NOT like that? Answer truthfully!
And people have asked me to do some really wrong stuff on webcam too and I'm kinda concerned about that... >.>


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Diane_Delilah answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 7:03 pm:
You want the truth? Yeah but its unhealthy if they aren't I mean seriously. Guys need that stuff to sustain hemeostasis. It isnt their fault there want to be turned on every second. But it isn't a bad thing or something to consider lossing their trust in any way becasue it isnt what makes them who they are. I know this kid, realllly hott, skator, biker, snow boarder, surfer. ARg to die for, with a personalitly like no other. Hes sweet, nice, honest and I can tell him ANYTHING. But at the same time I was SHOCKED to hear during a game of truth or dare he admited to jerking off more than 6 times a day. Now that i'm over the shock of it I realzie it doesnt make him a different person jsut a horny one. Hope that helped. Good luck guys arent that difficult <3333

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Razhie answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:11 pm:
Having your own standards for behavoir is a great thing. Holding yourself up to them is wonderful. However, expecting everyone else to agree with and conform to your standards is going to make your life very very difficult.

A lot of guys watch porn, of course some don't, but not all the ones who do enjoy pornography are 'sick'. As a general rule guys get a great deal more enjoyment out of the visual aspect of sex then thier female counter parts. So alot of decent, hardworking, loving boyfriends/husbands/fathers, enjoy porn. As long as it's not an addiction, frankly, it is not your place to judge them for it.

You can choose not to speak to people who you know, or suspect, enjoy pornography, but that would make you a very judgemental person, and would narrow your socail group tremendously.

If you don't like what someone is asking you do to online, stop talking to them and block them, but if you don't approve with what they do in thier own private time behind a closed door, my advice to you is to get over it.

If a guy lies to you about watching pornography it might just have more to do with his fear of judgement then him not being trustworthy.

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andrewislovesick answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:41 pm:
ya im 14 and i hate guys that do that stuff. i don't look at porn cause its wrong. im a guy and my friends give me a hard time because i get uncomfortable when their girlfriends kiss.
im not gay or anything, i just dont like it

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Teza answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:40 pm:
I'm not a guy but I can answer your question if you don't mind. It's very normal for guys to watch porn, even for girls. Most guys like it and enjoy watching it and there is personally nothing wrong with it. If they say they don't, take their word but some guys lie about it. It's hard to know the truth about it though. Some of your girl friends might watch porn as well, even though they might not admit it. So like I said, it's normal and some people find it disgusting while others enjoy it. There are guys that don't like to watch it. They're just not into it. So to answer your question againg, not all guys are into it and like that.

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