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Ok we are always moving and we never Get ANY THING planed I just want to get my mom to understand how hard it is to get attatched to people and then move.
And How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner?
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im not going to say i understand how yo feel but i can sertinly relate.maybe sometime you cn write her a letter if you cant sit down and have a conversation with her. One thing your mom needs to understand is that the moving around dosnt just affect her.but dont froget either way shes still your mom so dont come down to hard on her,shes the one that puts a roof over your head
let me know how it all works out
lots of love
lizzie
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i know exactly how you feel. i moved to missouri about 4 years ago and we were there for a month then my parents started lookin for new jobs again. luckily we stay there for 4 years. now i live in kentucky and i just got into a serious relationship and im afraid hes gonna move or im gonna move or something. if you and your mom have a good relationship like where u talk. then sit down with her and explain how you feel. tell her you dont like moving. tell her that its affecting you relationships with other people. dont let her know its a boy just say other people. lol
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You need to tell your mum how this is affecting you and you can email friends phone them e.t.c
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You need to discuss this with your mom and explain how hard it is for you.
You can still be close to someone even if you move, if your ok with a long distance relationship.
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I'm sure your mother understands how hard it is, I would be surprised if she was that clueless. Problem is, I imagine she has a good reason(s) to be moving like this, so relationships have to take a back seat. You can talk to her, and she'll probably feel sad that you are going through this. But, is there anything she can do other than simply stopping moving? Usually a reason that makes you move very often is a pretty good reason; for example, if she moves because of a job, it isn't easy to tell her "Mom, you need to quit your job, I'm tired of moving".
Rather than thinking "How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner", try thinking something else. Like:
"How can I NOT let myself take a chance on someone, even if I might move soon? Don't I owe it to myself to keep dating, and look for someone to be happy with?"
IMO, you shouldn't let the moving stop you from dating. Just date as best you can, if you meet someone that you want to be with long-term, deal with it when you move. Don't worry about it now. If that person likes you enough for things to be serious, he/she should be willing to work something out long-distance.
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just be like mom you would go crazy to if you moved alot i finally like it here why you wanna do this to me and put me threw it?
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