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no boyfriend, ever.
im 14, a freshman, and have never had a boyfriend. its odd. i feel so left out since so many people have lost their "IT" (lol) already. i mean i dont want to do that. but i want a bf and plus, i've never kissed anyone either, i know its because of my looks, i mean i've tried everything. i've even tried annorexia. i KNEW it was the wrong answer, so i stoped while i was ahead. oh im a girl, but i guess you caould have figured that out.
sorry if it was stupid.
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first off 14 isnt an odd age not to have a boyfriend.....and fourteen really isnt that stable of an age to lose virginity at either. nothings worth hurting your self over anorexia isnt pretty..good that you stooped that indicates to me that your not stupid infact your smart. but what you dont realize is you have to love yourself before others can love you. im sure you dont look as bad as you make it sound. confidence is one of the biggest beauty secrets. have you ever heard the saying dont believe it unless its from the horses mouth. what it means is dont believe a certain thing about that person unless they have said it there self about them self..now if you announce to the world that your stupid ugly and so on..then what do you think the world is going to begin to believe its not gossip its what you said about your self. if you need me to go deeper then ask me a question.
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it is not stupid at all just be yourself thats all you should ever be! and if boys do not like it than so be it
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Well, think about it. You're FOURTEEN YEARS OLD. That's not even 1/6th of the average lifespan. Does that make you feel young? As it should! Your friends, probably around the same age, have lost their innocence. You still have 5/6ths of your life left to do dumb stuff like have sex. I never say this, but I'm proud of every single person on this website who doesn't succumb to peer pressure and lose their virginity.
Or maybe I'm just bitter because I'm a virgin :P
Seriously, concentrate on schoolwork and friends (preferably friends with good morals). That'll get you into a good college, where you can meet lots of great geeky boys. Trust me on this one, if you don't regard any of the rest of this answer= FOCUS ON YOUR SCHOOLWORK IN YOUR UNDERCLASSMEN YEARS. I wish I'd known that, now I'm a flipping janitor, basically, because my grades were crap because I was focused too much on pretty girls and cute boys.
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It just means that you've missed out on getting hurt a hundred times or so, think your self lucky.
I wouldn't worry anyway because it just means you haven't found true love yet, its better to have found true love in one go then to sleep around in a hundred goes.
You need to learn to be more independent then you will be happy with who you are.
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Okay, so don't worry, Just be yourself, because if you do get a boyfriend, you want him to like you for who you are not who your trying to be, and they will come to you. don't lower your standards for anyone, you are fine the way you are. a lot of people haven't had boyfriends, and when the times right, things will eventually fall in the right place, its a little thing called..fate.
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okay dont look 4 a guy he will come to u god has one pickd out 4 all of us.
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