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im loosing my best friend
im a 13 year old female.
me and my best friend have been fighting alot lately and we have been getting on eachothers nerves alot, and when we are at church, we basically ignore eachother until i have to take her home and i really dont want to loose her, she is my bestie and i consider her my 2nd sister. and if we like werent friends anymore, then my real sister would be upset cuz my sister only likes my best friend, she hates all of my other friends and i just dont know what to do anymore, but this kinda happened to my sister and her best friend and they are still friend but the thing that they did was they too a break from eachother and didnt hang out for about a week and they didnt really talk or anything and now they are just fine but they know now to not hang out as much as they use to and im not sure if thats what me and my bestie should do.
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I used to go through this with my friends. Actually i still do. Especaily with my besties. I figured out than i get annoyed and we tend to fight a lot when were together for to long. Maybe you should talk to her about taking a break. If you guys are true friends everything will be okay.
I took a break from my bestfriends because in the summer we were together a lot. I felt really refreshed afterwards and things went back to normal
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since your 13 your probably in middle school or maybe your a freshman. in these years you lose lots of friends and you gain lots of friends too. the people who are true will stay and they wont git on your no matter how much you hangout with them. if shes gittin on your nerves talk to her about it. tell her some of the things she does annoys you. she'll understand if shes a true friend and she'll try not to git on your nerves. hopefully i helped.
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heyy!!! i just saw my friendship life flash before me when i read your question. wow i was in the same situation. I only answer peoples questons when i honestly think it can help them. I want to tell you my story : i have been friends with this one girl since i was two, and i am now 13. Ever since 7th grade we have not been best friends, only friends. This happen with two of my other best friends. You are probably thinking something is wrong with my because i lost three of my best friends. Wow i know i it feels to be ignored and be upset about losing someone. it was hard because she is the one you would go to when something is wrong and now who can you go to? look losing my best friend was the hardest thing i think a teenager can go through. mann it sucked big time.. im not going to lie to you. It is going to be tough. if you honestly think that you two are meant to be friends, honestly, just dont say yes right away bc i want you to honestly think about. If you two are meant to be then things will work out, if your not, im sorry to say that you will not be best friends anymore. i bet most of your answers will be things like ohh just talkk to her things will work out. but when people said that to me i knew they were lieing. they are just trying to be nice and do a little white lie butt goshh the true friggin hurts. i honestly believe everything happens for a reason, and if your not meant to be then you are not meant to be, just think about that. i really hope i helped you understand the meaning of friendship. please feel free to im me on AIM or email me because i would really like to talk to you more.
p.s. sorry i like wrote you a book 0=] hehe
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