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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks
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It is DEFINITELY normal. Everyone goes through this with their ex's, so don't worry about it. The best advice I can give you is to think more about your boyfriend than your best friend. What I mean is when you're feeling a little hurt and jealous, think about your boyfriend. You said he's great, so just imagine how lucky you are to be going out with him. You may still have feelings for your ex, but you like your boyfriend more. You're not abnormal. Just don't let these feelings show because your boyfriend will become jealous or hurt, but don't worry about it. I'm sure you're just as pretty as that other girl, and if you really need a confidence booster .. he dated you first !
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Yea this is completely normal. I felt the same way you;re feeling a few months ago. Me and my bf broke up and he got a new gf and we was still friends but i had also moved on and really liked my new bf. Well when i found out they was together i compared myself up to her. That was a mistake that i made. Dont compare yourself to her.And this feeling you're having isnt that you still want him but you dont want him with anybody else because he was yours before he was hers. Every girl goes through this atleast once. Good Luck!!
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Yea girl what your feeling is totally normal!! You have a disease lol it's called: "I don't want him but don't want no one else to have him" disorder Don't worry honey every girl has gone throu this at least once in her life. You had precious moments with this guy and even thou you both know it's over it's still going to hurt just because of the memories yall have shared together.
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it may hurt you because it's not because you still like him or anything, you may just miss what you two had together, thats normal in relationships
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Dear IDK,
Yes, it is perfectly normal. It deals with ones inability to move on after they themselves have moved on. Everyone holds some sort of an attachement with a past relationship, the strong the relationship the strong the attachement. And when you watch the person move on to another you will critize yourself harshly because now you feel as if you were just a means to get someone better. Just don't think on it, its a little jealousy and it goes away. It also happens when you feel that person is now good enough.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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it perfectly normal. me and my ex are best friends too and i sumtimes git jealous when he goes out with other gurls or tells me he likes other gurls. its just sumthin inside you tellin you that he was once yours and now hes just a friend and since u know that he was once yours you dont want him to go out with other people. i know exactly how you feel.
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hey, dont compare yourself to her. thats not good. Just relax maybe you are hurting because this was once your b/f and you don't like to see him in any other relationship, because you could stll have a little bit of feelings for him..not that you do. just saying its possible, and yeah its normal, so just chill and forget all about this other girl.
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Yes it's normal.Alot of girls feel like that about an ex not all but many do.The only thing you can do is be honest with him and talk to him because he can feel the same way about you because most ex's always have a little thing for each other. x-o
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yes,this is normal.I think I kind of know how you feel becouse recently mom made me break up with my bf now ex bf and he has a new gf already and I feel so jelouse,but I think If you just tell your bf how you feel and see if he feels the same way about you.
I hope this helps.
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