hey there, I'm Lauren.
i have amazing friends who i love.
especially my best friend taylor. he's the bomb.
i love answering advice, so ask me a question some day.
i love dealing with other people's problems so i'm not focused on my own.
i dont usually have problems with people; i'm generally a nice person.
i'll probably like you.
xx Lauren
E-mail: ii_llove_yuu@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: cali <3
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... so i have pretty blue/grey eyes but you cant see them on any of my pictures becasue they are always red... how can i take a picture and not have red eyes??? (link)
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there's options on your camera where like you can take the flash off and such and the options are represented with little icons
there's one icon that's a little picture of an eye, so put that option on before you take the picture.
it makes sure there's no red eye
if you don't have that or something, just edit it in like photoshop, lol
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on myspace bands. do like there "people" like publicists et cetera go on the bands profile??? because i didnt think the band members would have time too. but im not sure so THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWERS! (link)
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it depends on the band.
if it's a local band or just a more underground band who isn't touring a lot or playing big venues, then it's most likely them.
now, big bands such as p!atd, or even singers such as jesse mccartney, are not actually on their myspaces.
at one point panic was, but i doubt jesse ever was, lol.
a lot of the time it's made by people who work for them in order to promote their music.
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Ok so i really need shirts, i have alot of summer clothes but not enough winter adn i feel as if i have been wearing the same things over and OVER again. I like to shop at A&F, Hollister, sometimes AE but basicly i dont know what to buy. I like cute girly clothes adn i really need some more color! I like layers too. This is kinda random but if you have ever seen phil of the future or hannah montana i like the clothes keily wears and Miley wears. they are cute and girly but some have an edge, anyways if you could like make me a few outfits that would match with jeans that would be awsome! i prefer direct links!THANK YOU! (link)
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delias!
lol delias is the best .. its definitely colorful and girly with an edge, lol i think you'd probably like it based on you're descriptions.
www.dELIAS.com
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Ok I got a MP3 player and I want to exercise with it but alot of my songs are depressing and it doesn't get me in the mood to give it my all.
One of my favorite songs that I love to listen to is Weekend Warriors.
I would like songs that don't have swears every other word but here and there doesn't madder.I dont care if it talks about drugs use or anything like that just good songs that make you want to get up and dance. (link)
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ok first off, weekend warriors is an amazing song, lol.
ok the best song ever to exercise to is called streamline by newton. it doesn't have lyrics but it seriously is amazing for working out.
as for words with songs,
hmm everything is alright by motion city soundtrack is okay for that.
umm i know a lot of people don't really like panic at the disco anymore, but some of their songs, such as London Beckoned ..etc, are fast-paced and might be good.
cupid's chokehold by gym class heroes
great escape [mainly the chorus], five minutes to midnight, and dance hall drug all by boys like girls. even if you don't like boys like girls for dancing, theyre just amazing if you don't already listen to them, lol
sorry if this wasn't very helpful, good luck!
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how do you make out? (link)
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i'm pretty sure that there are sites online that you can find out like step-by-step answers for this, but here's a quick breakdown:
okay, well you and the other person put their arms around eachother and just lean in for a normal kiss, but keep your lips parted. then honestly, all you really do is put your tongue in their mouth and move it around, pretty much in a circular motion.
i know guys like it when you go slowly and run your tongue along their gums.
a lot of people are nervous for their first time, so make sure you're completely relaxed and don't worry at all.
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Aliright. I know this is kinda a stupid question but i wanna ask anyway. Well there is this boy that really likes me and i like him back(i told him). I have never really had a boyfriend, and never had a first kiss(he also knows this). We are planning on hanging out soon and im pretty positive that he will kiss me. But im soo nervous! I dont know what to do. any tips are great thanksss! (link)
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okay first things first: stay calm. you'll be fine, i promise! make sure if you're going to hook up with him it's not planned because if if just happens it's always better. you'll most likely know when he's going to kiss you by his body language and it he takes you somewhere apart from others or just takes you on a walk. make sure you have mints or gum, and you should be fine. he knows it's your first time, so follow his lead.
hope this helps !
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Ok so this may seem a little random but me and a friend were talking about this the other day and its made me wonder. How do you know if you're a good kisser? Coz I know when someone else is or isn't, but I don't know how good I am! And if you ask people after you kissed them, unless they're mean, they say yes but how do you honestly know?
Thanks! (link)
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i would say you could have your friends ask his friends because he would be honest with his friends. but i really don't think there's such a thing as a bad kisser, people just have and prefer different styles of kissing. =]
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I am like the only person that doesn't have a boyfriend. And I have never actually had a kiss i mean i just turned 14 but it is so embarrassing. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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this is so not something to worry about! i had my first kiss when i was 12 but just got my first hookup, and i'm almost 14. i was soo afraid i wouldn't hookup before highschool, but when you least expect it there's someone who wants to hookup with you. just talk to a lot of guys because girls can be very flirty in the summer and not be considered sluts. if you really want to hook up badly, you can try going to a teen club type thing because anyone could find a hookup there. if you're not interested in random guys, which i totally don't blame you for, then if you get embarressed when asked just say you're waiting for someone you really like. or you could always lie, but you don't want to have to lie to your friends. i'm sure you're pretty and have an awesome personality, so just be more flirty and talk to any guy you'd be interested in kissing. i hope i helped.
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I like this guy and we are going out on a double date this Saturday [ so please reply soon! :)]
If he puts his arm around my shoulders should I put my arm around his waist? Or what?
And what about if he puts his arm around my waist?
This is a silly question, I know. I'm just kinda confused about the basics haha.
THANKKSSS SO MUCH!
- Emily
Female / Fifteen (link)
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haha, it's not a silly question it's something like everyone wonders about. okay, well my boyfriend last year would always put his arm around my shoulders so I would put mine around his waist, and he told me he loved how I did that. so, if he puts his arm around your shoulders, I suggest you put your arm around his waist, but only if you're standing or walking. if you're sitting, like in a movie theater, and his arm is around your shoulders, just rest your head on his shoulder and lean into him. if he puts his arm around your waist, you can put your arm around his waist or not do anything at all. it would be weird for you to put your arm around his shoulders. once again, only if you're standing or walking. you should be fine and this shouldn't be anything you worry too much about. i'm sure your date will go fine !
i hope this helps !
good luck with everything =]]
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so there is this boy..and he is one of my bestest friends. && we get along really well. and like seriously, whenever neither of us have a boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever we always end up liking each other!! and we've never actually gone out but pretty much have at the beginning of the school year.. && right now i'm single, and i had told one of my best girl friends that i will always kinda like him a lil bit and stuff and then now him and his girlfriend just broke up. and his girlfriend (well now ex) is a good friend of mine too!! and she broke up w/ him and he's really sad and stuff..and we are totally here for eachother so everything is all good..but i don't know if we are gonna end up liking eachother again, or anything. and i don't know if i want to like him or not, because he totally likes long term relationships and i don't always last the longest and i totally don't want to ruin our friendship. how do i keep myself from liking him? or do i just like him and see how stuff goes? or what??? (link)
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well, something similar to your situation happened between me and my best friend. i took a chance going out with him, and it was so awkward. for several weeks, we didn't talk after we broke up. what you need to consider is how much do you care about your friendship now? take it frome someone who has been there .. things will not go directly back to normal once you break up. you also need to picture yourself with him and think: does it feel right? as for keeping yourself from liking him, you cannot control what your heart wants, but you can try and find another guy to like and focus on instead of thinking about your friend. i'm sure whatever happens will be for the best, so good luck!
i hope this helps,
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I dyed my hair black.. I dont like it. Is there anyway to get rid of it in a few days?
Does shampooing do anything? (link)
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This happened to my friend. She had her hair 3 different colors in 3 days .. she said she bleached it and dyed it back to the original color. Shampooing won't help immediately .. so if you really hate it .. dye it again.
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Hey all music lovers!
I'm in search of new music in my speakers. I love hearing new sounds. I love rock, punkrock, indie rock, rap, weird songs! You name it!
Any suggestions on any good bands? (link)
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hit the lights
cartel
semisonic
smashing pumpkins
all amazing bands
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Tomorrow is a trip with my friends to a really fun theme park. We've been planning it for a long time, as a celebration of our graduation. Now I'm on my period and I really don't want to have to miss the trip! It was my idea and it's going to be so fun! Mom says I can just avoid water rides and I'll be fine but the water rides are the best part!!! And I usually feel really gross & sick when I'm on my period. Besides, everyone will pressure me to do it & call me no fun if I won't ride them. I'm embarrassed to say "oh I'm on my period" in front of my guy friends. That's nasty. I'd use a tampon but those never work for me. I leak every freakin' time! So I don't know whether I should skip it or go & feel left out & sick. I'm so afraid the day will be diappointing. I hate being a girl. (link)
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ugh .. that totally sucks. we have a school field trip coming up to boston where we room with other people and i think i am going to be on my period and it's going to suck, and there's not much u can do. but here's what i will suggest:
although you don't think tampons work, wear a tampon with a pad underneath. if it looks weird with your bathing suit, just wear shorts with it and bring a spare pair just incase.
also, you can tell your girl friends in advance bcause if it's a big group it's likely one of them will have the same problem. they won't pressure you to go on rides that way, and if the guys try to then your friends will know how to help you out so they don't know.
and for feeling sick .. i suggest taking midol before you go and bringing some extra, just incase you don't feel good. drink a lot of water, and if you have it today just exercise a lot today in order to make it go faster. i hope this works for you!
good luck !!
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i have medium brownish/reddish/golden colored hair with brown eyes and slightly tan skin. i have trouble finding the right clothing...everything looks boring on me! what are some good ideas for fashion styles/colors that would look awesome on me?? (link)
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well, depending on your body type there are many different kinds of clothes you can wear. but color-wise, i think light blue and green sometimes look good on people who are on the tan side. and for styles, i always thought those "baby-doll" shirts from abercrombie/hollister looked cute with denim skirts on girls with similar features you. here's what i mean ..
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_279353_-1_13062
^ that type shirt with any denim skirt, and it's always cute to accesorize with a belt. i dont know if that's your sort of style, but i always thought that looked cute =]
i hope this helps you! and good luck
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Im Graduating on the 6th of June and i need help to figure out a song. What song should it be? I want something about saying goodbye and probably upbeat but slow is cool. (link)
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There are a lot of graduation songs, but I would suggest Here's to the Night by Eve6. The main chorus part is like
here's to the nights we felt alive
here's to the tears you know you cried
here's to goodbye .. it's not super slow or really upbeat. it's a good song though. I hope I helped =)
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I think I have depression, and I want to see a counsellor. I walked passed the room today but i couldn't go in, i just felt like i would be wasting their time and that I don't really need any counselling.
I have been feeling like thi for about 3 years, i used to self harm about 2 years ago but i got that under control - i still want to when i get wound up.
I often think about what it would be like when I'm dead, I wonder who would miss me, who wouldn't miss me.
A few months ago, I was going to commit suicide, i started to write a letter to my mum, but I couldn't finish it, I jut burst into tears.
I need someone to talk to. But I can't bring myself to walk into that room.
How can I overcome this?? Why can't i bring myself to walk into the room?
Please help me. x (link)
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When you start to get upset, think about happier things. Good things. And thinking about dying .. if you ever come that close again focus on the people who would miss you. I would suggest talking to your friends because I'm sure they would understand. You need to focus on what you're upset about and try to fix it or overcome it. I think you need to bring yourself to see a counselor because they are professionals who train for these exact situation. They really do help. I know you don't know me and I don't know you, but if you feel so alone and close to anything like that again, I'm here for you. I'm sure eveyrone on this site is. Just focus on things and people that make you happier, and I hope you do okay .. :/
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I met this guy about 2 years ago. We clicked instantally. He had to move a week after asking me out and so I broke up with him. He came down to see me for xmas and we went to the movies etc. But when he left, we lost touch again. I figured he didnt care. But recently, i have been going through a hard time and I checked my email one day while waiting on a crisis to be solved... and i had gotten an email from him. Later that week, i got a phone call from him! I really like him, and he says that he really loves me too. I asked my friend for advice about this and she said that "if we are apart we are apart. If we are together, we are together." Should i persue a relationship, or what? he is over 1,000 miles away. If i do go for a relationship, am i putting myself up for hurt? (link)
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Well, I wouldn't say you're completely putting yourself up for hurt. True, there is a good possibility, due to the distance, that he may cheat on you. Being a jealous person as I am, I would probably get jealous just thinking of him hanging out with other girls. But since you haven't seen him in awhile and he suddenly emailed you, I would definitely say he is interested. He probably couldn't stop thinking about you. It all depends on the trust you have whether you should go for it. I would say go for it, since you really like him. If something happens, it will hurt. But no matter what relationship you go into, it's very likely the end will result in hurt. So I understand hesitating, but I would just go for it. If you do get hurt, at least you won't have to face him. Well, good luck. And I'm sorry about whatever it may be you are going through, and I really hope things start to look up for you. =]
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I like this guy named Eric but like hes supposably a "geek" in our school but I dont care. I just dont know what to do. I mean hes a really good friend of mine but what am I suppose to do just go up to him and be like i like you. Um no. Theres a semi coming up too and I really want to go with him.. but I dont know how that would happen. Im just confused and dont know what to do (link)
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Well, whether he is geeky or not does not matter. Social status is so not important if you really like him. I would say, since you two are close, ask him who he likes. If he replies no one, chances are there is someone he doesn't want you to know, so it may be you. If you are embaressed to tell him you like him, yout may want to have a friend do it for you. What you also may want to consider is how important is your friendship? Would you rather keep the relationship you have now or have an intimate relationship with him? I know from experience when you go out with your good friends, everything does not go back to normal when you break up. If you really like him, I definitely say you go for it. If not .. you may want to reconsider. But the best thing I can suggest is find out who he likes or have a friend tell him. I hope this helps .. :\
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Well there is this guy Alex and I like him alot and he likes me alot.Well on Friday he was about to ask me out, he was all like"(J.)..... would u like to be my.......o nevermind." I was stunned so this Friday I am going to flirt with him as much as I possibly can. What are some ways that I can let him know it is ok to ask me to be his girlfriend??? I am definatly not asking him out so dont give me advice like that. If possible can you go into details. Please. I need this as soon as possible. Thanks in advance. I rate 5s!!!
J. I am a 13 year old female just to let you know.
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Okay. I know you don't want to ask him out, which I cannot blame you for I would never, but it may be better that way. 90% of guys like it when girls make the first move, but I so will not pressure you to do that if you're not comfortable asking him out. I would say flirting with him is a good idea. Does he know you like him? Well, if not, make it obvious you do. Hug him, talk to him a lot, and be extra flirty. Most likely, if he came that close, his faith will be restored and he will be sure you're going to say yes. After all, guys are afraid of rejection. I'm sure he was afraid you might say no, so make him positive you won't! Hope this helps, and good luck!
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Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!
Hev (link)
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Okay, Hev. DO NOT hate yourself over any guy, ever. I totally get where you're coming from. I've had this happen to me before, so I know the feeling. But if he doesn't like you, then he is so not worth it. And at the moment may be indicating he might like you soon or has in the past. Be thankful he didn't say "ew" or "oh great" or anything like that. I know it sometimes seems better for you to tell your crush you like them yourself, but it will be okay. If someone told me they didn't like my friend at the moment, I would take it as they were thinking about it. He doesn't totally hate you, and there is a good possibility this may result in him liking you.
Don't feel worthless!!
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