I am like the only person that doesn't have a boyfriend. And I have never actually had a kiss i mean i just turned 14 but it is so embarrassing. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
OoOhaileyOoO answered Sunday July 16 2006, 6:10 pm: Ok calm down.. A lot of people about 14 never had a bf (for instance= me). There's no reason to be embarrassed. So what if everyone else has a bf?! So what if you haven't had a real kiss?! Enjoy being a teenager while you can! You can worry about handling guys later (no offense to the other people out there). And if you don't have a guy out there who you like then think about this... if you go to a party you can flirt all you want, you don't have a bf.
~~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~~ [ OoOhaileyOoO's advice column | Ask OoOhaileyOoO A Question ]
MissxMurder1 answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:36 am: ur not the only one... theres alot of people in ur situation... i had my first real kiss when i was 15, im 17 now... dont worry it will happen, probably sooner than u think... : ] [ MissxMurder1's advice column | Ask MissxMurder1 A Question ]
caramella answered Friday July 14 2006, 3:34 am: BIG DEAL ok lady wait a lil its ok youll find your right guy one day and mabey hes infront of your eyes and you dont know its him!im 15 and dont have a boyfriend and im cool [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
ii_llove_yuu answered Friday July 14 2006, 2:01 am: this is so not something to worry about! i had my first kiss when i was 12 but just got my first hookup, and i'm almost 14. i was soo afraid i wouldn't hookup before highschool, but when you least expect it there's someone who wants to hookup with you. just talk to a lot of guys because girls can be very flirty in the summer and not be considered sluts. if you really want to hook up badly, you can try going to a teen club type thing because anyone could find a hookup there. if you're not interested in random guys, which i totally don't blame you for, then if you get embarressed when asked just say you're waiting for someone you really like. or you could always lie, but you don't want to have to lie to your friends. i'm sure you're pretty and have an awesome personality, so just be more flirty and talk to any guy you'd be interested in kissing. i hope i helped.
<3 Lauren [ ii_llove_yuu's advice column | Ask ii_llove_yuu A Question ]
oOoCourtJesterOoO answered Friday July 14 2006, 12:44 am: Argh. I'll skip the speech about 'your time will come, blah blah blah.' That's the one all my friends in a relationship tell me so I'll back off and they can go be with their 'lover'. =P There are lots of people who have never had boyfriends or kisses, myself included. -sigh- And you know, I'm going into the 10th grade and I'm really starting to get curious...like what's it feel like? Well, I guess we'll all find out sooner or later. And don't worry. You know, later, when boys find out you've never had a boyfriend, they'll like you more. It means you're picky and don't just date the first guy who looks your way. Well, it may not seem like it now. But it's true. I'll end my rambling and say, make some guy friends! Too often does that escalate into romance. Give it a try! [ oOoCourtJesterOoO's advice column | Ask oOoCourtJesterOoO A Question ]
SummerKisses answered Thursday July 13 2006, 11:55 pm: dont worry, i just turned 14 too, and i just got my first bf, and i havent had a real kiss yet. if your really embaressed you can lie bout it.lol. but its really not a big deal. just try talkin to boys more, and since its summer, you'll be seeing ah-lot more boyz on vacation and stuff, so try flirtin wit them.
goodluck! [ SummerKisses's advice column | Ask SummerKisses A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Thursday July 13 2006, 11:30 pm: In my school, I'm one of the few girls who has had a boyfriend & kissed someone. I'm 14 too. Its not a big deal, when the time comes you'll get a boyfriend. Just start talking to guys more. & getting to know them. [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
BlackAngel answered Thursday July 13 2006, 11:14 pm: Trust me, you're not "the only" person who's never had a boyfriend. I didn't have on 'til I was 16 (not because of my parents or anything, I just didn't want one). I have friends who still haven't had one and are 18 and older. It's not a big deal really, and you have no reason to be embarrassed about it. There're some guys out there who would rather not date people who've had boyfriends since they were 13 and 14 years old.
if people say things that make you feel embarrassed about never being kissed or having a boyfriend, tell them you're waiting for the right guy to have a first relationship with to come along.
:) [ BlackAngel's advice column | Ask BlackAngel A Question ]
mLpengie123 answered Thursday July 13 2006, 11:12 pm: Hey! it's not true! I'm 15 and I don't have a boyfriend, nor did I ever kiss a boy. Don't think that your the only one that doesn't have a boyfriend. There are lots of people older than you that don't have a boyfriend. So don't worry about it! Your not alone! ^_^ [ mLpengie123's advice column | Ask mLpengie123 A Question ]
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