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Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!
Hev
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You're not totally worthless, and it's just not right to totally hate yourself. Just beacuse he said that he doesn't like you "at the moment" which is he doesn't like you right now, doesn't mean that he's never going to like you. Maybe you should take a break from liking him and find another guy, or you can continur to like him until he might like you. So time is basically the best answer.
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Okay, Hev. DO NOT hate yourself over any guy, ever. I totally get where you're coming from. I've had this happen to me before, so I know the feeling. But if he doesn't like you, then he is so not worth it. And at the moment may be indicating he might like you soon or has in the past. Be thankful he didn't say "ew" or "oh great" or anything like that. I know it sometimes seems better for you to tell your crush you like them yourself, but it will be okay. If someone told me they didn't like my friend at the moment, I would take it as they were thinking about it. He doesn't totally hate you, and there is a good possibility this may result in him liking you.
Don't feel worthless!!
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Hey there Hev, Maybe at the moment means that he didn't like you right then and there at that time of day. Maybe he was having a bad day and didn't want to be bothered with that stuff. He might really like you but didn't like you then.
You might have a great chance. Just go with the flow.
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hey, who cares who tells him. at least he knows! not liking you at the moment could mean that he used to like you but not anymore. guys will be guys. dont fel bad over it. cait♥
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First of all, don't hate yourself. Guys will be guys. If he doesn't like you then it's not worth abusing yourself.
You also need to have a serious, eye-to-eye, talk with your friend. I've had friends do this to me too.
You could either have a talk with your friend or keep things to yourself. Which is much better because you know, when you tell someone something, theres a little part in you thats like, "Oh...What if she tells!! I'm going to be so embarassed!!"
Also, what he ment by, "not at the momment" was that he didn't like you as a girlfriend right now; maybe some other time.
I'm sorry if that sounded rude, but it was hard telling you this without sounding like a jerk. =[
-GD
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Don't ever think you're worthless and that you hate yourself. Tell your friends how you feel about this situation. Tell them you wanted to tell him you like him. And how disappointing it is for you. And when he said he "didn't like you at the moment", it sounds like he doesn't even like you at all. So to me he sounds like he isn't worth it anyway!
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