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i love him... but he moved. what do i do?
I met this guy about 2 years ago. We clicked instantally. He had to move a week after asking me out and so I broke up with him. He came down to see me for xmas and we went to the movies etc. But when he left, we lost touch again. I figured he didnt care. But recently, i have been going through a hard time and I checked my email one day while waiting on a crisis to be solved... and i had gotten an email from him. Later that week, i got a phone call from him! I really like him, and he says that he really loves me too. I asked my friend for advice about this and she said that "if we are apart we are apart. If we are together, we are together." Should i persue a relationship, or what? he is over 1,000 miles away. If i do go for a relationship, am i putting myself up for hurt?
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Well, I wouldn't say you're completely putting yourself up for hurt. True, there is a good possibility, due to the distance, that he may cheat on you. Being a jealous person as I am, I would probably get jealous just thinking of him hanging out with other girls. But since you haven't seen him in awhile and he suddenly emailed you, I would definitely say he is interested. He probably couldn't stop thinking about you. It all depends on the trust you have whether you should go for it. I would say go for it, since you really like him. If something happens, it will hurt. But no matter what relationship you go into, it's very likely the end will result in hurt. So I understand hesitating, but I would just go for it. If you do get hurt, at least you won't have to face him. Well, good luck. And I'm sorry about whatever it may be you are going through, and I really hope things start to look up for you. =]
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