Question Posted Saturday November 11 2006, 4:38 pm
My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react?
MummuM answered Monday November 13 2006, 7:31 pm: I would have acted the same way towards this situation as you. I mean even if he thinks of her as a sister he shouldn't be kissing her on the lips, especially since he has you as a girlfriend. That is just rude and very disrespectful. I suggest just talking to him about this and explain your view on what he has done. If he really cares about you, he'll change his ways and will never do that again. If he still does this everytime he sees this girl; I'd kick him to the curb. Obviously he doesn't know what being in a relationship means and he doesn't deserve you one bit, especially if he's doing what he's doing. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
ccupcake07 answered Saturday November 11 2006, 7:45 pm: I would definatly be jealous! I would be that way if my boyfriend kissed a waitress on the lips. Tell him how you feel about that. He shouldn't do that! [ ccupcake07's advice column | Ask ccupcake07 A Question ]
xotara621xo answered Saturday November 11 2006, 7:02 pm: omg i would be extremely jealous. There is a very good chance he isnt as faithful as you think. confront him about it, b/c it really isnt right to do that [ xotara621xo's advice column | Ask xotara621xo A Question ]
guyinOK answered Saturday November 11 2006, 6:34 pm: Ask your self this....Does he kiss everyone he knows on the lips when he says hello? Does he kiss a lot of people on the lips when he says hello? Does he kiss some people on the lips when he says hello? It seems odd to me. If he doesnt kiss anyone but her on the lips when he says hello then id say something to him. Ask him to stop. or ask him to kiss her on the cheek and tell him to save the lip action for you! [ guyinOK's advice column | Ask guyinOK A Question ]
confused_girl777 answered Saturday November 11 2006, 6:20 pm: U are so not too jealous. My brother doesnt kiss me on the lips and hes going out with YOU. You have all the right to be jealous and you should tell him to stop in my opinion. My best friend gets jealous when her boyfriend hugs anopther girl. You have perfect reason to be jealous. [ confused_girl777's advice column | Ask confused_girl777 A Question ]
illdomybest answered Saturday November 11 2006, 6:14 pm: no maybe its just me...but real brothers and sisters dont kiss on the lips so why would you kiss someone whos like a sis on the lips....hmmm that would bother me .....its not the fact that he has a female friend just the fact that hes kissing her on the lips...does he kiss any of his male friends on the lips...no..i doubt it so why should it make a diffrence with a female friend....now i have plenty of guy friends who are like brothers but i dont go kissing them on the lips or even on the cheek. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
Xfoxcutie09X answered Saturday November 11 2006, 5:59 pm: your not too jealous. hes your boyfriend. he shouldnt be kissin other females on the lips even if they are like a sister. two of my friends were like brother and sister. one thing lead to another and now they have been dating for almost 6 months and they have had sex numerous times. dont let this happen to you. make it stop while u have the chance. [ Xfoxcutie09X's advice column | Ask Xfoxcutie09X A Question ]
xo_tragicglamour answered Saturday November 11 2006, 5:16 pm: I would be jealous too. That's really disrespectful for anyone to do. Even if she's "like a sister" that's still not how you should treat your girlfriend. You should tell him that you were disturbed by this, and that you don't want him to do it in front of you. You can even admit you were jealous! Lol. I would. [ xo_tragicglamour's advice column | Ask xo_tragicglamour A Question ]
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