Heyy im tara, I'm a pretty cool kid if you get to meet me. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born and raised on Long Island, stuck in a little city and if i dont get out of here soon im gonna explode. I always wanted to move to california so hopefully i'll go to collage there. But for now im here and trying to enjoy it. I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I'm starting to become a little classy girl. Me? Classy? Of course. I love getting my nails done. Makes me feel extra girlie. Any music really turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;] I have a boyfriend his name is Paul. He's gorgeous. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world.. So ask me anything you want im here and will take all of your questions seriously! xoxo.
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E-mail: jsfan621@yahoo.com
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can some one help me figure out what matches with these flats? http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1700&size=&style=37371852&color=290&token=
there so hard to match,please no leapord print on the shirt/pants! any ideas? thankyou!! (link)
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i have like those same ones. at first i didnt think any think matched either but then i did some experimenting. red is my favorite to wear with them umm black brown peach and white look good too. and any jeans look great. good luck!!
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Im a highschool freshman and i dont wear makeup currently. i want to start but i was wondering when would be a good time. would it be weird to come into school one day without makeup, and with it the next? im told i dont look that drastically different with makeup but im not sure. thank you! (link)
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i say go for it. its fine that one day you walk in with it on b/c everyone had to start somewhere, right? haha. good luck, im sure you will look gorgous!
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
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it depends but lips and eyes
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15/f. has anyone here ever use the MAC studio mist blush? is it any good? here is the link:
http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15104&PRODUCT_ID=PROD10697
or is the creme blush any better?
http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15104&PRODUCT_ID=PROD7518
just let me know your opinon on both! i'm thinking of getting one for christmas. thanks! (link)
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the mist blush is amazing i love it!
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Well I want to get gifts for my friends.
Im 13, some of them are 12, some are 13. And i want to get them a little somehthing for christmas.
Any ideas? anything under 10 dollars that cute? there all girls =D
Thanks in advance! (link)
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lip gloss is a great way to go, who doesnt like lip gloss
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if they make you give a urine sample at a physical,do they check for drugs,or is that only upon request? (link)
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most of the time they check for drugs
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okay well im 13 years old. about 5 foot & i am a 34D. yep ik its big, but anyway. do u know where to find really good bras that'll support me (link)
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victoria's secret works wonders for me!
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16/f
so this guy, let's call him Max, has been one of my best guy friends for a while. We text all the time and we both work together every weekend. I've always had a thing for him, and we kind of flirt back and forth a little, but he has a g/f that he's been with for almost a year. A week ago he told me that he really likes his g/f (let's call her Sam), but he also has "feelings" for me. We kissed once, but we both felt bad about him cheating on Sam so we decided to just be friends. But now he's starting to flirt with me again. We're gonna be hanging out with Sam and some other friends next week, and I'm kind of afraid of seeing them together, when he and I are kinda going behind her back. And I feel so so so so bad about it, so please don't say I'm being a slut. But I really like him. He's so awesome.
So what should I do? Wait for them to break up? Make a move? If I talk to him, what should I say/ how should I bring it up?
I'm so lost and caught up in him, and it really sucks. Please help.
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ok i would really take it slow with him maybe even not see him as much. you dont want to do something you will regret. try talking to him to see where he is going with this whole mess, you are never gunna know what he is thinking if you dont ask him. it sounds like you really like himn so give it time sometimes things need to work themselves out on their own
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My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react? (link)
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omg i would be extremely jealous. There is a very good chance he isnt as faithful as you think. confront him about it, b/c it really isnt right to do that
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might be long but i would apreciate help.
Last year one of my friends moved far away, a couple changed to different school and i dont see them much anymore, and another i just grew apart from and stopped talking to her. That was alot of loses at once, but i had other friends so it wasnt to hard. A month or so ago my boyfriend broke up with me and then there was lots of "drama" and i lots another good majority of my friends that i dont only talk to in school. So it left me with just one good true friend. but lately i feel like im losing her too. We have been getting in fights, not agreeing and hardly hanging out. She goes out a ton with a group of friends i use to be in, but lately have seemd to just be excluded from. I always try to make plans to do things but poeple are always bussy or say no. Its making me really sad and i've been crying alot, and people who know me know idont cry im always a happy person. The only person i have is my one friend and she is the one who moved. Its pathetic that i have stayed best friends and grew closer with the one friend that moved and i cant even keep the friends near me. This is gettin long so ill get to my question. What should i do. With the one girl who i feel is leaving me out, i dont wanna talk to her and have her get mad and then have nobody. Pleasee help me any advice! i need it.
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just try to be really patient with her it might be hard a times but its worth it. also try joining a new club or sport so u can meet new people. try being nice to poeple in differnt gruops and u might relize you fit in better with them. give it time things strighten themsevles out with time! hope i helped xoxo
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well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.
i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.
am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?
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i think it is perfectly normal and healthy i started when i was 12, and have never stopped since
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hey i just wanted you to know that i added you as my favs. you seem really cool :) betterthanyou_x3 (link)
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aww thanks!you seem cool too, haha! ttul xoxo
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What are websites to places similar to Myspace? Like places where you can make a site and have people look at it and have their own? (link)
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yfly.com is really fun and it is safe for teens!
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I gave up gossiping because apparently everyone thinks I have a problem with it and when I hear something, it's the hardest thing to keep my mouth shut! I haven't broken my vow yet, and I don't plan on it, as hard as it is. I have broken it past years with things like candy and complaining last year. I was just wondering, how many teens and young adults here find it hard to keep your vows for lent? Even if it's something simple like, sodas. Have y'all been able to keep your vows completely so far? (link)
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haha yea its hard for me too. I love the gossip idea i might steal that from you for next year. I think that all we can do is try as hard as we can to do good, and god will know we tried. I mean i high doubt that youll go to hell for talking about other people, lol. Good luck, i hope it works out for you this year. :)
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does it sound like this guy likes me as more than a friend?
Well he had moved a couple of weeks ago. Before he moved we were usually in regular contact. He gave me his old computer before he left. He just got his internet hooked up. He gave me his private cell number, and also wanted to talk on msn messanger with me. In my experience, a guy won't volunteerly give out his private cell phone to a girl unless he's interested.
Well we started messanging each other a couple of days ago. When we talk it's usually for quite a long time; atleast an hour. He has been saying things like that he really missed me (with a crying face), and that he thought I was funny. I told him that I had a dream about the two of us a week ago and then asked if he ever did, and then he said he couldnt recall; but put a picture of a smiley face blushing. He also kept sending me winks and nudges. I also told him after my long shift last night that I wanted to soak in the tub and he sent me a smiley face with a huge grin and he said "GO FOR IT"! I also asked him if he liked talking to me on messanger and he said "for sure; you're a great person to know and talk to".
We talked for about an hour last night; and then he asked me what time I worked today because he wants to talk to me again.
So does it sound like there is something there more than a friendship? Or am I reading too much into it? (link)
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yea i think it does sound like he likes you more than a friend but its still alittle hard to tell. I mean its like a 75% chance that he does. If he keeps up the flirting then its deffiant. So just keep rolling with it and let him figure out what he wants, if he likes u hell make a move or something. Good luck, have fun!!
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Okay, so my boyfriend, Reed, and I have been going out for 3 months this tuesday. I know its not that long, but still, i'm in love with him. Before we even started going out, we would always say "I love you" or "your the best". Once he even said to me "I can't live with out you Cici." Well, i do truely love him, with all my heart, but the problem is, i never see him. He goes to a different school, and is 2 years older then me (hes in 10th, I'm in 8th) So he is in high school, im still in junior high, so he is always busy, the last time i was him was over a week ago. WE didn't even get to see each other on valentine's day. Well anyways, I was at the Panic! At The Disco concert with my best friend Lenah, and one of her friends, Way, was said to her "You're friend, Cici, is really gorgeous." So like, him and I were flirting with each other at the concert. Then during Hellogoodbye, he was standing behind me, and was holding my hips, holding me close to him. Then all of the sudden, when i was dancing to P!ATD, i turned around to look for a friend that had gotten lost from me in the mosh pit, and he kissed me. Well we ended up leaving the mosh pit, and made out, outside of the building. And like asked for my number and all and i gave it to him, but like, he hasn't called (which im glad) But i want to tell my boyfriend, but i have no idea how. What can i do and/or say to my boyfriend to tell him and to make it up to him. I didn't want to hurt him. I have never loved him more then i do right now, and I'm shure he feels the same so... Please help
I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE. (link)
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umm this is really hard. i think you should tell him, brake it to him gentely, and deffiantly say that, the experince has only made you relise that you dont want to be with anyone with him and it has made you feel closer to him.
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This weekend has been totally fucked up. I broke up with my boyfriend, but I can't take it. Saturday night I drove to my friends house crying my eyes out and nearly wrecked. I got so fucking wasted it was unbeliveable. I only got 2 hours of sleep that night and it didn't help at all because all I did was cry. I didn't go to school today because I am so depressed. I don't know what to do really because I miss him yet I had my reasons for breaking up with him. At work last night everytime he passed I would cry and eventualy they told me to go step outside for awhile. When I left he took me to my car and I started crying again. He said that he would always love me and he kissed me.Through all my tears I told him that I was so sorry he ever had to meet me. God i seriously don't know what to do and it's eatin me up.... what should i do? (link)
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aww it seems like u really loved him it takes awhile for a heart to heal beacuse you let yourself open up that much. honestly every girl crys over something like that, its wat we do best, and its really all you can do. But like anything your heart will heal and things will be fine agian, promise. sometimes you just have to tuff it out. And there will be many boys in the future. Sorry i dont have any like real adive or anything, but i felt bad noone answered you. good luck!!!
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we're always messing around but lately we haven't it feels like our realationship isn't the same anymore.i told him i didn't feel like it was the same and he told me he was feeling the same way so he suggested that could be the problem that we haven't been messing around with each other and he thinks we should start again,but i feel that why should we mess around juss so we can feel that spark between us again.shouldn't it juss be like we don't have to do anything like that juss so our relationship could be the same.i don't like the fact that i always have to satisfy him juss so he can be happy with us.i feel like if i don't do it our relationship will not be the same.wat should i do?should i do it or not.he's not pressuring me to do it he was saying that as a suggestion but i don't know i juss need some advice i guess and i will rate a five for juss sum good advice o and i don't mean messing around like having sex with him i haven't done that yet and we love each other alot it's just that we want the love to be on a high level right now. we don't want it on medium i guess u can say but he's like my best friend.i really care about him and i know he feels the same about me.
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i think you should try messing around, sometimes it takes that to make a relitionship work because its an intamate level that talking cant get too. Your never gonna no what works in relasionships and what doesnt unless u try. Hope i help! good luck!
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OK so, right before Christmas my freind broke up wtih her boyfreiend. They had only been seeing eachother for 2 weeks. She then told me sometimes in January that if me or any of my freinds went out with him she would be mad. Well, we aren't really freinds and more and over the weekend I kissed her ex. I don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself. Like, if someone else told her would it be worse? I like him and have liked him since January. (link)
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i wouldn't tell her, but i think it would be the best thing to do and it will make things alot easier then if someone else told her, and it would probably save you alot of drama, like we need anymore drama in our lives. so hope i helped, good luck with the cutie!
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Hey, so my friend wanted me to ask if anyone knew if Pro-Active helped at all. So, if anyone has used it, just answer back and let me know saying yes or no. I'll rate. Thanks
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it worked on me it was like a miricale or how ever u spell it lol
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