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might be long but i would apreciate help.
Last year one of my friends moved far away, a couple changed to different school and i dont see them much anymore, and another i just grew apart from and stopped talking to her. That was alot of loses at once, but i had other friends so it wasnt to hard. A month or so ago my boyfriend broke up with me and then there was lots of "drama" and i lots another good majority of my friends that i dont only talk to in school. So it left me with just one good true friend. but lately i feel like im losing her too. We have been getting in fights, not agreeing and hardly hanging out. She goes out a ton with a group of friends i use to be in, but lately have seemd to just be excluded from. I always try to make plans to do things but poeple are always bussy or say no. Its making me really sad and i've been crying alot, and people who know me know idont cry im always a happy person. The only person i have is my one friend and she is the one who moved. Its pathetic that i have stayed best friends and grew closer with the one friend that moved and i cant even keep the friends near me. This is gettin long so ill get to my question. What should i do. With the one girl who i feel is leaving me out, i dont wanna talk to her and have her get mad and then have nobody. Pleasee help me any advice! i need it.
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just try to be really patient with her it might be hard a times but its worth it. also try joining a new club or sport so u can meet new people. try being nice to poeple in differnt gruops and u might relize you fit in better with them. give it time things strighten themsevles out with time! hope i helped xoxo
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there is always somebody....if your trying to make plans with people and these people are always saying no...even if its that one girl who you are afraid to talk because sshell get mad.then theyre not the right people to try to make plans with. there are an abundance of people to make friends with even if you dont see it. sometimes friendships dont work out as well as you want them to...some more then others..maybe your searching in the wrong places..or maybe you want someone so bad youll jump at anyone even if its a deadend relationship..nothing wrong with not wanting to be lonely. but people can use that against you.sometimes your fears become your reality if you dwell on them enough even if your trying to push them away. ill give you an example-say theres two people in a fist fight. ill call them you and your fear of being alone. lets say you hit the fear of lonliness in its weak spot. well what usually happens when you hit someone in a weak spot...they come back fighting with more energy and fury so really the more you push against not wanting to be lonely the more lonliness pushes back. so if thats the case then quit worring about being alone. if you stop searching so hard then the right people will come to you.when they do just enjoy yourself instead of counting down how many seconds you have untill they disapear and they wont disapear.
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i would suggest talking to her. it might make things worse but i think thats it worth the shot. if you continue not talking to her about it you guys might just grow apart even more. keeping all your feelings botteled yup insdide doenst help out the situation either.
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