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Mixed Signals From A Taken Guy
16/f
so this guy, let's call him Max, has been one of my best guy friends for a while. We text all the time and we both work together every weekend. I've always had a thing for him, and we kind of flirt back and forth a little, but he has a g/f that he's been with for almost a year. A week ago he told me that he really likes his g/f (let's call her Sam), but he also has "feelings" for me. We kissed once, but we both felt bad about him cheating on Sam so we decided to just be friends. But now he's starting to flirt with me again. We're gonna be hanging out with Sam and some other friends next week, and I'm kind of afraid of seeing them together, when he and I are kinda going behind her back. And I feel so so so so bad about it, so please don't say I'm being a slut. But I really like him. He's so awesome.
So what should I do? Wait for them to break up? Make a move? If I talk to him, what should I say/ how should I bring it up?
I'm so lost and caught up in him, and it really sucks. Please help.
-Confused
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ok i would really take it slow with him maybe even not see him as much. you dont want to do something you will regret. try talking to him to see where he is going with this whole mess, you are never gunna know what he is thinking if you dont ask him. it sounds like you really like himn so give it time sometimes things need to work themselves out on their own
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well cheating on the girl isnt the way to go. its going to hurt her if she finds out. you should have a talk wiht him and say i really like you but i dont feel right having this kind of relationship with you when your seeing osmeone else. explain to him that he has to chose between you and his girlfrined. if he picks his girlfriend then youll just have to wait until they break up.
-missadvicebitch1
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