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well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.
i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.
am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?
thanks in advanced
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Dear U,
Its normal to masterbate at your age. But make sure you dont go into deep you can really hurt yourself.
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noooo its not young at all!!
its actually a good thing
you should have fun with it!!
--marii
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i first experimented with "myself" when i was 13. puberty can do strange things to you, and if you just have to go with it. you aren't too young at all, you are at the age where kids start getting these sexual feelings and needs a healthy way to express them. this is how you do it, and it's perfectly fine.
i bet your friends probably do it or have done it as well. most everyone has at least tried it. whether it be for pleasure or just out of pure curiousity. it's not a bad or a gross thing. it's just natural human instinct. if your friends haven't done it yet, they won't be far behind you in trying it.
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its not too young, its better than having sex at that age. the truth is that at least one of your friends was doing the same thing you were, trying to not seem like the outcast and going along with saying it was gross but they probably do masterbate or have at least once. slowly im finding out that my friends do and so do i. its really natural and nothing to be ashamed of. it just means your healthy and have all those hormones of a teenager.
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Honey, don't worry about it. It's part of growing up and into yourself. Believe it or not, I could bet that every one of those girls talking about how "gross" it was probably do it as well.
I don't think you're too young. Honestly, do what feels right to you and don't go too far. You don't want to hurt anything "down there" that could affect your life as you get older.
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First of all, the girls that are saying it's gross are probably masturbating themselves. Everyone masturbates and the people that say they don't are lying. It's completely normal and really healthy, so you have nothing to worry about.
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I don't know if you are religious at all or not, so I will give you both points of view.
Not religious- It's perfectly normal, as long as you don't get like addicted. (hey, it happens) I wouldn't go sharing it with the world, what you do is your business, but yeah, it's not a problem, you're no different =) Have fun with it haha
Religious (christian P.O.V)- It's wrong for all ages. Usually you think bad thoughts when you are masturbating, that makes it wrong. Plus, they say you should be more worried about pleasing god, than pleasing yourself. Catch my drift?
Sorry if one of those answers offends you, I just thought I'd throw both in there so I can help you to the best of my ability. Good luck with everything!
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If that's what you like, go ahead. It's normal, and fine. I, personally, don't do it.. but everyone has their own veiws. Go ahead if you want to!
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I dont think you are too young to start. I think it is kind of normal, to do this. I think it is fine as long as it doesnt afrect your life negatively. I think it is fine for you to do it, because i have heard it is some what healthy. I hop i helped. Love me!Lol! :) Good luck!
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i think it is perfectly normal and healthy i started when i was 12, and have never stopped since
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lol, its completely normal. everyone has different views on it, i know people that cant go 3 days without masturbating and i know people who think its the most gross thing they ever saw.. its really your opinion, if you like it go ahead do it. its your body and it can do no harm and its actually healthy. as long as its not getting into school work or your social life, then your fine. your friends sound a little immature because most 13/14 year olds do masturbate. well where i live they do.
much love and respect
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dont worry! its perfectly normal. you're not too young. your friends just probably say that its gross, but they don't really mean it. this girl in my school started talking about it saying how gross it was and my other friend tagged along saying she thought it was gross too, but later on she told me she didn't mean what she said. so don't worry lol. but dont do it like 20 times a day lol well hope i helped!
xox melissa
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You're not too young, I started when I was thirteen and so did many of my friends. A few if yours probably have too, and those who haven't will follow soon. If you're male, that is, if your female, many start at your age but some never masturbate. I know several girls who've reached adulthood without masturbation, because of the additional stigma. You shouldn't feel gross though, it is perfectly normal.
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