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Kiss and Tell
OK so, right before Christmas my freind broke up wtih her boyfreiend. They had only been seeing eachother for 2 weeks. She then told me sometimes in January that if me or any of my freinds went out with him she would be mad. Well, we aren't really freinds and more and over the weekend I kissed her ex. I don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself. Like, if someone else told her would it be worse? I like him and have liked him since January.
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Well, I don't think you should tell her, since you guys aren't even that good of friends anymore. It would be way different if you guys were closer, then I'd tell you to tell her.
Anyways, just keep it to yourself, for now. If she does find out about this and get's mad at you because of it, tell her how you feel about it. Her and him broke up and it's not your fault that you're feeling this way. You can't help how you feel about someone. They've only went out for 2 weeks, so she shouldn't be hurt about it now, especially if they broke up before Christmas. ♥
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well, you should only tell her if the subject comes up. i know, i know.. honesty is the best policy.. but not in certain situations, if you know that its going to upset her.. make an effort to be sure that she doesn't find out.
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I think you should just be honest with her, and tell her how you felt about him and how much you liked him. She was the one who broke up with him, so maybe you should ask her why she feels as though you shouldn't go out with him. If someone else told her it would be a lot worse because then she would lose her trust in you, so tell her before someone else does. If she's mad at you then you'll have to accept the way she feels and just move on, after you've told her you're sorry for hurting her though. Even if you're not sorry it would be good to tell her you are because it's the nicest thing to do.
-mystical_breeze
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personally i wouldnt tell her.. and if she does find out just tell her that you like him and that them two are over and she needs to move on.. wel of course in a nice way hah so theres not to much to worry about. but if she has a problem its just jealiousy.. she'll get over it, yeah your supposed to stay true to your friends but you cant let a boy come between you guys and if thats the case then its not a true friendship. but go for the guy. im sure shes not going to get to mad over something little like that. good luck.. hope i helped <3
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i wouldn't tell her, but i think it would be the best thing to do and it will make things alot easier then if someone else told her, and it would probably save you alot of drama, like we need anymore drama in our lives. so hope i helped, good luck with the cutie!
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follow your heart. if you and him want to date then go ahead. its not like your friend had a serious relationship with him..it only lasted two weeks...dont tell her bout the kiss. its none of her business. i dont believe in kiss and tell so yea. hope i helped you out. dont forget to follow your heart.
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