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Okay, so my boyfriend, Reed, and I have been going out for 3 months this tuesday. I know its not that long, but still, i'm in love with him. Before we even started going out, we would always say "I love you" or "your the best". Once he even said to me "I can't live with out you Cici." Well, i do truely love him, with all my heart, but the problem is, i never see him. He goes to a different school, and is 2 years older then me (hes in 10th, I'm in 8th) So he is in high school, im still in junior high, so he is always busy, the last time i was him was over a week ago. WE didn't even get to see each other on valentine's day. Well anyways, I was at the Panic! At The Disco concert with my best friend Lenah, and one of her friends, Way, was said to her "You're friend, Cici, is really gorgeous." So like, him and I were flirting with each other at the concert. Then during Hellogoodbye, he was standing behind me, and was holding my hips, holding me close to him. Then all of the sudden, when i was dancing to P!ATD, i turned around to look for a friend that had gotten lost from me in the mosh pit, and he kissed me. Well we ended up leaving the mosh pit, and made out, outside of the building. And like asked for my number and all and i gave it to him, but like, he hasn't called (which im glad) But i want to tell my boyfriend, but i have no idea how. What can i do and/or say to my boyfriend to tell him and to make it up to him. I didn't want to hurt him. I have never loved him more then i do right now, and I'm shure he feels the same so... Please help
I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE.
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Well there is NO way that you can tell your boyfriend and not hurt him. So you should expect him to be hurt, and probably extremely upset. And if you really loved him, I don't think you would have done this to him. I love my boyfreind, and I cannot even imagine EVER cheating on him. So I think you should reconsider your love for him, and break up with him, because you obviously aren't good enough for him, and he deserves better. I know what it is like to be cheated on, and it is a pain you NEVER want to have to experience. I have absolutely NO sympathy for people who cheat on another person. So you can rate me really low, but what I am saying is completely honest. You are going to hurt him so increbly badly, so you better be prepared when you tell him. So if I were you, I would sit him down all alone, and tell him exactly what happened, and don't leave any parts out. Then you should probably expect to be broken up with. And you will get what you deserve.
I love it how you rate me a one, when what I said was completely honest, and you know it, you just don't want to admit it!!! Oh well...
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You feel closer to him, and love him more than ever only because you feel so damn guilty for cheating on him. To let you know.
Don't use the "I never get to see him and I get lonely sometimes.." excuse. It's not going to work. You shouldn't have to see him to stay loyal to him. If you can't commit to the relationship now, then you don't love him. Give me a one. I don't really care. You don't love him.
Now for some advice. Tell him about it face to face, be blunt, be courageous, and show your regret. If you give him some wimpy little note, he's going to be even more pissed off. You should be able to be honest in a relationship, and if you make a mistake, tell him about it. Brace yourself for the consequences.
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umm this is really hard. i think you should tell him, brake it to him gentely, and deffiantly say that, the experince has only made you relise that you dont want to be with anyone with him and it has made you feel closer to him.
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