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what to do...
This weekend has been totally fucked up. I broke up with my boyfriend, but I can't take it. Saturday night I drove to my friends house crying my eyes out and nearly wrecked. I got so fucking wasted it was unbeliveable. I only got 2 hours of sleep that night and it didn't help at all because all I did was cry. I didn't go to school today because I am so depressed. I don't know what to do really because I miss him yet I had my reasons for breaking up with him. At work last night everytime he passed I would cry and eventualy they told me to go step outside for awhile. When I left he took me to my car and I started crying again. He said that he would always love me and he kissed me.Through all my tears I told him that I was so sorry he ever had to meet me. God i seriously don't know what to do and it's eatin me up.... what should i do?
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You can't do anything about what you feel, and how deeply you feel it.
But you can not do things, such as: cry, mope, dwell, cry, kiss him...
Just saying. I know I'm being harsh, but suck it up, kid.
Every girl gets dumped by (or leaves for a very good reason) that guy she thought was 'the one'. The guy she thought she'd be spending the rest of her life with, married to, happily ever after forever and ever. Then life steps in and decides to laugh at you, because that is a pretty dumb dream.
When he leaves you, the one thing you'll want to keep is your pride. And if you cry about him.. in front of him.. all the time, you're going to lose that pride.
Continue on with your life, because there's more to it than one guy. Get involved in art, hang out with your friends, do something, anything, to stop crying. Move on.
You obviously love this guy a lot, and he did (said? whatever.) something that really hurt you. Remember that you had a reason you broke up with him- stick by that.
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It sounds to me as if you should go to a doctor.At once, before the situation gets worse. I don't want to scare you, but I think from your question that you could do with phsyciatric support. Your boyfriend sounds like a good guy- you don't say what your reasons are for breaking it off, and I think that you made the right decision in so doing-it sounds as if you are too vulnerable and volatile to handle being in a relationship right now. Go and seek help, but be happy that your boyfriend loves you. If he really does, then he'll be there waiting for you when you come out of this crisis.You should also stop drinking or taking drugs.Serously, or you'll end up in rehab.
Take care, and good luck.
Lucretia x.
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aww it seems like u really loved him it takes awhile for a heart to heal beacuse you let yourself open up that much. honestly every girl crys over something like that, its wat we do best, and its really all you can do. But like anything your heart will heal and things will be fine agian, promise. sometimes you just have to tuff it out. And there will be many boys in the future. Sorry i dont have any like real adive or anything, but i felt bad noone answered you. good luck!!!
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