Question Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 12:16 pm
so you know the three words that can change a relationship forever right. I love you is so big it can change a relationship forever. Well my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me for the first time and i told him i loved him too. But then the next day he broke up with me, He said he had to many things going on in his life. what should i do should i believe that he loves me or not. please help. thanx.
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 4:49 pm: Saying "I love you" isn't as big of a deal as people make it. Love's an emotion, no different from happiness or sadness. It can change. It can even go away. Maybe he said it and afterwards wasn't sure if it was really true. Maybe he got scared. I can't tell you if he loves you or not. You can't know either. Only he knows. My guess is that he scared himself when he said it and isn't sure what he should do next. Like you, he's making a big deal about it when it really isn't. Talk to him. Comfort him. Tell him how feeling love doesn't change anything. You're still you and he's still him. You can help him get through what he is feeling and make him realize that it's not scary, it's exciting. I think he'll come back to you after a little while. Try not to get too upset about it just yet. I wish you lots of luck and I hope that you can get back together! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
geegollyHOLLY answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 1:55 pm: don't ake this wrong, but he could be stressed, but you're going to have to confront him straight forward and aks him what this means. Do you still love me? Are we going to get back together when you life has calmed down? ask things like those and get the answer you want! hope i helped! good luck! [ geegollyHOLLY's advice column | Ask geegollyHOLLY A Question ]
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